FabSwingers.com forum: Guy on guy

By *jdj9986Man
33 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Regularly ffs🥴👌🏽"

I don't know why you say it like that. The word "swinger" was coined joining the sexual revolution of the 1960s. Its origins being in the gay language of Polari, which meant a bisexual person or a person engaging in group sex and/or the swapping of sexual partners, which is far more prevalent in the homosexual community than it is in the heterosexual one. It was then later claimed as a word used by heterosexual couples who were non-monogomous and is an example of the evolution and adaptation of language, but it was never an exclusively heterosexual word. It's like the word "straight". If heterosexual men knew what it meant they'd stop using it immediately.

In the 4 years I have been on this site, I would say 90% of the men I have had encounters with do not identify as gay or bi, and would not be comfortable having a fabguys profile out of fear they might get found out. So before you "regularly FFS" and pull a face about it as if fabswingers is riddled with gay men, maybe think about the point you're trying to make, or if coming across as a homophobic a**hole is really the image you want to give off.

By *ost SockMan
33 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Regularly ffs🥴👌🏽

I didn't read it like that. I think the FFS was him expression at a question/post he thought was obvious/a waste of time.

That'd be harsh, but I think that what he was getting at.

He is bisexual too, so I'd be a bit surprised if he was homophobic (I know some guys portray themselves that way to "cover up").

Just my take.