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By *elsh.dom OP   Man
3 weeks ago

wales

So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.

If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one.

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By *oxy babeWoman
3 weeks ago

gower

Most women won’t read them and look at the profile first to see if anything takes their interest, if it doesn’t the chances are they will delete as their is nothing that appeals (I do this) otherwise women may have an influx of messages so will bulk delete, a message a week later wouldn’t do any harm but continuous ones will likely get you blocked

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By *heoriginalCJMan
3 weeks ago

mystic valley


"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.

If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one."

If you got yourself to a social event you wouldn't need to message anyone

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By *eavenscentitCouple
3 weeks ago

barnstaple

No, I find this annoying

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By *issP69Woman
3 weeks ago

Neath


"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.

If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one."

No, use the logic that she hasn't replied so doesn't want to engage. Or better still if you delete each message after you send it then you can't bother yourself by checking if it has been read, deleted etc.

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By *elsh.dom OP   Man
3 weeks ago

wales

Only issue with that is if delete the message I wouldn't know if I had messaged them a few weeks earlier.

But I will refrain from multiple messages

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By *exymarvelMan
3 weeks ago

cardiff

If its deleted its a no, move on

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By *oves2please2021Man
3 weeks ago

cardiff


"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.

If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one.

If you got yourself to a social event you wouldn't need to message anyone "

CJ could you pop me a message please

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By *ancardiff7Man
3 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge


"Only issue with that is if delete the message I wouldn't know if I had messaged them a few weeks earlier.

But I will refrain from multiple messages "

If you click on their profile it will say you've already messaged them.

Multiple messages are a no-no on Fab, and rightly so.

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By *carlett JizzslagWoman
3 weeks ago

cardiff

One a week or more later - not a problem. Multiple messages at any point even when conversing is an absolute no and deems you a pest who gets blocked

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By *rs Twisted1Woman
3 weeks ago

neath

I do try my best on this account and my joint account to answer all messages and if there not for us we tell them

What frustrates me is the reply ..message me later if you change your mind

We get many guys that will message again and again even when been told not for us ect so then I block them

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

Don't message. Respond to the ones who message you first.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
3 weeks ago

mystic valley


"So, I have a question, mainly for the woman on couples on this site, as I know you get more message than you can sometimes see let alone reply to.

If you get a message, and you don't read it, or delete it. Is it acceptable for a single male, to use the logic, well she probably didn't see that message I sent last week I will send her another one.

If you got yourself to a social event you wouldn't need to message anyone

CJ could you pop me a message please "

Can't you have single guys blocked

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By *ommy trucker1Man
3 weeks ago

anywhere near you

If My message gets deleted I just deal with it and take it the couple or female is not interested. So i Just move on

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By *JandCMCouple
3 weeks ago

cardiff

If message is a 1 liner or something like 'wanna fuck.' Gets deleted straight away n sometimes blocked.

If they have made an effort then read through n checkout profile to see if we're interested n if so we keep the message n may get back to them if n when we're looking to meet.

But sometimes if you answer someone's message then that's it, their constantly massaging n normally then they get blocked if too much of a pain.

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By *aigressMan
3 weeks ago

Cardiff

I do think a lot of messages never get read...

In part just done to the shear volume some people get... so it's easy to get lost in the ether.

I guess a bit of ego goes with it as part of you thinks ... if they see your message it may land..

But I think for thr most part if you've reached out... and they are interested... they will find you.

That said, I've double messaged people ... but usually after I may have seen something like a status or forum post I've responded too.

Also occasionally ill come across a profile that it will say I messaged ages ago.. I don't remember a exchange (sometimes even says they messaged me)

Soni might message and say.. sorry I don't know can't see what was said..

If they ain't interested cool

I generally think if your polite most people are in return.

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By *live and PopeyesCouple
3 weeks ago

Cardiff

Wee delete don’t even read them unless we have all ready met the guy

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