FabSwingers.com forum: People reaching out when you don't fit their preferences

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have any other couples experienced this? Someone (usually a couple as the majority of single men don't have many negative qualifiers) will fab basically all of your pictures, send you a wink and a hey

But then you take a moment to check out their profile and they don't meet smokers, or are specifically not interested in non straight men etc etc.

Should we feel flattered that they've broken their own rules or just assume that horny brain took over and they maybe skimmed the profile.

Also I wish we could filter our inbox, we've got some pretty tight filters but lord I'm bad at getting through our messages

By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Yep we get it too, usually stright males who don't bother to read profile

By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

...., Wales

I will fab what I see as nice pictures, even if I have no interest in chatting, meeting the people on the profile. It's just appreciation of nice pictures in my opinion..

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will fab what I see as nice pictures, even if I have no interest in chatting, meeting the people on the profile. It's just appreciation of nice pictures in my opinion.."

This is how I see it. Anyone can fab away at a pic and appreciate it for what it is. It's only when they start messaging about what they want to do etc is where I start raising eyebrows

By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I think people get more or less fussy depending on how many messages they get . some things may be preferences rather than absolute rules