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Fab terminology - men who are happy to do as they are asked

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By *affaandtaffy OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Barry

Toying with the idea of inviting a man to join us to help me spoil Saffa.

This is a huge step for us so as a starting point we'd only be comfortable with someone who is happy to do only what they are asked. We've done this a few times in a club and loved it and yes the 'control' was a buzz (just being honest)

Is there a fab term for such a man?

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
2 weeks ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Toying with the idea of inviting a man to join us to help me spoil Saffa.

This is a huge step for us so as a starting point we'd only be comfortable with someone who is happy to do only what they are asked. We've done this a few times in a club and loved it and yes the 'control' was a buzz (just being honest)

Is there a fab term for such a man?

"

Other than “Rare” you mean?

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By *affaandtaffy OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Barry

I should have added that this is about fun and not any kind of humiliation.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
2 weeks ago

Wales/ All over UK

I don’t know if there’s any particular Fab terminology for this, although Obedient would possibly cover it, or Voyeur depending on what was being asked?

Either way, there are genuine men here who would be very interested in this and happy to follow instruction. I count myself in this.

Good luck in your search

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By *irtywildsideMan
2 weeks ago

Barry

Other than ‘sub’ which is a very broad term I would go with Obedient . You will get a good idea if the guy knows what you want from the first message or whether he is a chancer

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By *affaandtaffy OP   Couple
2 weeks ago

Barry

Thanks both for the replies.

I didn't want it to come across as anything super controlling. It's just that when we have involved another man in our dynamic in the past we didn't really know how far things would go until we were in the situation. It totally depends on both our moods and what we are comfortable with at a given time.

It has ranged from just watching to full sex but we aren't comfortable offering that from the off. More like come around and be happy to go with what we are comfortable with.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
2 weeks ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Thanks both for the replies.

I didn't want it to come across as anything super controlling. It's just that when we have involved another man in our dynamic in the past we didn't really know how far things would go until we were in the situation. It totally depends on both our moods and what we are comfortable with at a given time.

It has ranged from just watching to full sex but we aren't comfortable offering that from the off. More like come around and be happy to go with what we are comfortable with."

I’ve had meets like this in the past.

As long as expectations are set early on as to what IS on offer and then with regards to what you want and how you want to control the situation, then it’s definitely achievable.

Ultimately, the guy in question should be sticking to whatever was agreed, so if you say you’re only guaranteeing them watching then that is the most they should expect… anything more is a bonus!

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By *ichaeltontineMan
2 weeks ago

SWANSEA

I have done this twice... so far

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By *ayronfeetMan
2 weeks ago

Cardiff


"Toying with the idea of inviting a man to join us to help me spoil Saffa.

This is a huge step for us so as a starting point we'd only be comfortable with someone who is happy to do only what they are asked. We've done this a few times in a club and loved it and yes the 'control' was a buzz (just being honest)

Is there a fab term for such a man?

"
yes .. . Its called me 👋😜🤣😉

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By *irtywildsideMan
2 weeks ago

Barry


"Thanks both for the replies.

I didn't want it to come across as anything super controlling. It's just that when we have involved another man in our dynamic in the past we didn't really know how far things would go until we were in the situation. It totally depends on both our moods and what we are comfortable with at a given time.

It has ranged from just watching to full sex but we aren't comfortable offering that from the off. More like come around and be happy to go with what we are comfortable with."

It’s always a fine line between trying not to plan out a meet minute by minute and keeping the excitement of the unknown . From personal experience I always find that being a bit blunt and straight to the point with the first message and then being open about being ready for everything but prepared for nothing other than a conversation on the first meet. If the other guy is the right fit for you he will be on the same wavelength straight away

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By *ourbon1Man
2 weeks ago

the beach

had meets like this is the past. what man wouldn’t be happy just getting to watch such a sexy couple! of more great if not then all good. also switch and very much enjoy helping to please a lady any way a couple would like x

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By *ev and TrevCouple
2 weeks ago

cardiff

It is absolutely possible. We have had meets similar.

Like your profile, ours spells out exactly what we are looking for & one someone messages, the first thing I do is check they've read the whole profile.

It's pretty easy to get a read of people within the first couple of messages.

As long as you set the expectation from the off, you'll be fine.

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Respectful would cover it.

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By *andy_one99Man
2 weeks ago

Hirwaun

Happy to watch and do as I'm told within reason not into pain or men lol but clean decent and single guy ready and willing. Major fantasy to be in same toom as a couple watching

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By *rManyhandsMan
2 weeks ago

Narberth

I enjoy sticking to the rules.. My veri's might guide you.

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By *each BenMan
2 weeks ago

swansea

Hi, I’d love to join you to spoil saffa and I’m happy to only do what I’m asked!

Mike

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By *affaandtaffy OP   Couple
1 week ago

Barry

Thanks everyone for your input. Have noted those who would be interested and will contact you if we go down this road

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