FabSwingers.com forum: Help with clubs and socials

By *icky54321 OP Man
19 weeks ago

aberdare

Hi everyone looking for some help and advice. My wife is a sbbw and we are dipping our toes into this world she has confidence issuse with her body.we were wondering at club visits or socials would people b judgemental over her size. Thanks in advance for any replies.

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By *aralluWoman
19 weeks ago

Near Newport

Absolutely not at all. In actual fact, clubs can be quite liberating and confidence building! I was initially really self conscious, but then considering I was wearing the most clothes (which wasn’t a lot!) I gave up caring about what people may be thinking about my body

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
19 weeks ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

As above has said TBF the world of swinging is far more accepting of all walks of life than the vanilla world unfortunately. Of course there are always exceptions to this but really does anyone else's opinion matters than of the one you love. Which should be foremost "yourself"

So tell her to wear her curves and balls to what anyone else thinks

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By *aralluWoman
19 weeks ago

Near Newport

"As above has said TBF the world of swinging is far more accepting of all walks of life than the vanilla world unfortunately. Of course there are always exceptions to this but really does anyone else's opinion matters than of the one you love. Which should be foremost "yourself"

So tell her to wear her curves and balls to what anyone else thinks "

Absolutely this. It’s also odd because in my Fab life I’m super confident parading round naked or in very little, whereas in vanilla life going on dates makes me feel really self conscious about my size (I’m bigger but not huge) and feel like everything shows up my wobbly bits!

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By *rs Twisted1Woman
19 weeks ago

neath

There's a lot of love on here for the bigger ladies , I'd recommend going along to bbw night at chams in Newport..details on this forum and she can see for herself and trust me the more she loves herself the more confidence she will get

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
19 weeks ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

So tell her to wear her curves and balls to what anyone else thinks

Ive always found the less I have on the more confident Ive been.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
19 weeks ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"There's a lot of love on here for the bigger ladies , I'd recommend going along to bbw night at chams in Newport..details on this forum and she can see for herself and trust me the more she loves herself the more confidence she will get "

This 🥰

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By *rofMan
19 weeks ago

Around

Only way to find out is try a BBW night but it has to be some she wants the do

Find a post that's promoting an event and get to know people before you attend.

This will help with any nerves you have and a bonus you'll already have a rapport. In my experience clubs are generally a friendly place, even for some shy like me

Hopefully this will give her a confidence boost

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By *rum68Man
19 weeks ago

Pembroke

Organised socials are a brilliant way to meet like-minded people and dip your toes. And as you’ll quickly discover, this lifestyle attracts all types of people of all shapes and sizes. I’ve found the swinging community to be way less judgy than the ‘normal’ people.

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By *ewport52Man
19 weeks ago

Newport

I find clubs very easy going and relaxing, I’ve never noticed anyone commenting about people’s appearance etc, so you should feel at ease very quickly.

I go on my own as a single guy and feel very relaxed

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