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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

like in my profile im a quiet person an not the best at meeting people and would like to get my first meet out of the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's unlikely.

Your spelling is terrible.

Your grammar is terrible.

These can be forgiven. Your profile is self centred and all about you.

A status update like "haven't had sex in 6 months getting desperate" is pathetic.

Even your post is pathetic. What woman in their right mind wants to be the one to help you 'get it over with' so you can then try and get a decent woman on here.

And cock pic - Read more than 2 female profiles and I guarantee they will say "no cock pics"

On a site where single men outnumber single women and married women by a large proportion, you add ZERO value.

Good luck. You'll need it...

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"Well it's unlikely.

Your spelling is terrible.

Your grammar is terrible.

These can be forgiven. Your profile is self centred and all about you.

A status update like "haven't had sex in 6 months getting desperate" is pathetic.

Even your post is pathetic. What woman in their right mind wants to be the one to help you 'get it over with' so you can then try and get a decent woman on here.

And cock pic - Read more than 2 female profiles and I guarantee they will say "no cock pics"

On a site where single men outnumber single women and married women by a large proportion, you add ZERO value.

Good luck. You'll need it..."

Now look what you did

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Crikey naughtybut....you say you're confident in your profile.....maybe you could look into 'tolerant' and 'understanding' and work with those along side 'confident'. The OP may well have taken your response as rude.... just a thought

Mrs BB x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crikey naughtybut....you say you're confident in your profile.....maybe you could look into 'tolerant' and 'understanding' and work with those along side 'confident'. The OP may well have taken your response as rude.... just a thought

Mrs BB x x"
Fully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said mrs bangerboobs!!! Naughtybut that was nasty and pointless, like killing a fly with a bazooka, no need!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is absolutely spot on though, how many posts have there been from single guys with "I been here 3 weeks and no one will meet me?"

I can't remember how many times I have given advice to guys such as the op only for them to bitch a week later and not take the advice given, I now have zero tolerance for guys who post such things.

If they weren't so impatient and fucking lazy and used the search function they could get the information that they need to get meets. Its not rocket science, or shall we advice them to bombard single women and couples for a meet until someone gives in ummm maybe not

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"He is absolutely spot on though, how many posts have there been from single guys with "I been here 3 weeks and no one will meet me?"

I can't remember how many times I have given advice to guys such as the op only for them to bitch a week later and not take the advice given, I now have zero tolerance for guys who post such things.

If they weren't so impatient and fucking lazy and used the search function they could get the information that they need to get meets. Its not rocket science, or shall we advice them to bombard single women and couples for a meet until someone gives in ummm maybe not "

agree.Read the OP's profile + made me go ....+ didn't bother giving more advise since Mr.naughty.... said it all

(susie)

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

And now he never will get a meet via Fab as he's left the site !

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By *ts_all_gravyMan
over a year ago

Newport

And here was I about to ask for help as well.... think i'll sit quietly lol

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian


"And here was I about to ask for help as well.... think i'll sit quietly lol "

lol don't think you need any help....not with your humour

(susie)

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Everything that you said to him naughty was right, however did you get your profile right first time when you came onto the swinging scene as personally I didn't have a clue what to write , I think the message could have been put across in a helpful and friendly way and did the guy a favour if you were going to take the time to write such an detailed discription of how he was going wrong but hey that's just me its nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Robbo - yep I pretty much did.

Why?

Because I had enough common sense to read females profiles and understand what they were seeking. Aside from that I am also blessed with something that every single man on here has too: a brain....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^ Naughty you sound flawless...I am surprised some lucky woman hasn't snapped you up and married you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newprofile. I'll assume that was sarcasm.

There is one distinction about feedback and sarcasm you might find invaluable.

1) acceptable is when you give feedback - no matter how direct - on what someone has said, written or done. These things are transitory (look it up in a dictionary) and can be changed, improved and learnt. This is what I did.

2) unacceptable - this is where you attack the person rather than their words, actions or behaviours. This is unacceptable as it is a very underhand, sly and pointless exercise. This is what you did with your comment to me. People can develop with 1) no matter how direct. People take offence at 2), hold grudges, take it personally and go on the counter attack.

It's a good job I am a nice soul and I fully understand the implications of 1) and 2).

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Just sounds like your spoiling for an argument lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And now he never will get a meet via Fab as he's left the site !"

He has probably rejoined already under a different name. Just a typical single guy time waster.

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF


"And now he never will get a meet via Fab as he's left the site !

He has probably rejoined already under a different name. Just a typical single guy time waster."

You are probably right Miss

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By *emmeFatale_XWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"Everything that you said to him naughty was right, however did you get your profile right first time when you came onto the swinging scene as personally I didn't have a clue what to write , I think the message could have been put across in a helpful and friendly way and did the guy a favour if you were going to take the time to write such an detailed discription of how he was going wrong but hey that's just me its nice to be nice "

I think you might have had a little help with yours in the end ?...lol

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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago

Swansea


"Everything that you said to him naughty was right, however did you get your profile right first time when you came onto the swinging scene as personally I didn't have a clue what to write , I think the message could have been put across in a helpful and friendly way and did the guy a favour if you were going to take the time to write such an detailed discription of how he was going wrong but hey that's just me its nice to be nice

I think you might have had a little help with yours in the end ?...lol "
haha I was wondering if you would pop up lol yes I did have a little help with mine and very much appreciated it was too

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