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"I was going to look at your profile, but seems you blocked me, so I can't. But agree with the above, organised socials are the best way of meeting people." Was this me? It seems I do have you blocked but I can't recall why... | |||
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"I was going to look at your profile, but seems you blocked me, so I can't. But agree with the above, organised socials are the best way of meeting people. Was this me? It seems I do have you blocked but I can't recall why... " I was referring to the OP actually. | |||
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I'm personally not a fan of heavily filtered pics. You can have pics that offer some discretion in terms of your face without the 13yr old Snapchat filters | |||
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"Anyone else struggling for meets? Ain’t had one for months, I think my profile is pretty good, I’m always polite when I message, I send photos of myself with messages, only thing I can think is that I live in Pembrokeshire, back of beyond, I don’t mind travelling but this is getting really hard work just to get a reply let alone a meet, " I would rethink the profile not much but you're cutting yourself off from a lot of potentially very attractive women who are very good in bed, maybe keep a slightly more open mind to preferences as I've found in the past if the chemistry is right then preferences can quickly go out of the window | |||
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"Also, your "looking for" says you're looking for MF couples and FF couples, so not single ladies. Also, 18-99 years old... Which to me gives 'anything with a pulse' vibes. " It doesn’t give anything with a pulse. It’s gives. Open to any age. Stop being judgey | |||
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"Also, your "looking for" says you're looking for MF couples and FF couples, so not single ladies. Also, 18-99 years old... Which to me gives 'anything with a pulse' vibes. It doesn’t give anything with a pulse. It’s gives. Open to any age. Stop being judgey" Just my observation and opinion. We're all entitled to one when someone is asking for feedback. I'm sure this person doesn't feel that way, however, some may interpret it that way. | |||
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"Anyone else struggling for meets? Ain’t had one for months, I think my profile is pretty good, I’m always polite when I message, I send photos of myself with messages, only thing I can think is that I live in Pembrokeshire, back of beyond, I don’t mind travelling but this is getting really hard work just to get a reply let alone a meet, " Hey hope your luck improved, I’ve had the same issue I’d love so feedback if anyone can help, thanks | |||
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"Anyone else struggling for meets? Ain’t had one for months, I think my profile is pretty good, I’m always polite when I message, I send photos of myself with messages, only thing I can think is that I live in Pembrokeshire, back of beyond, I don’t mind travelling but this is getting really hard work just to get a reply let alone a meet, Hey hope your luck improved, I’ve had the same issue I’d love so feedback if anyone can help, thanks " Alright buddy, don't take this as bad criticism, I've been around for a long time, most of the women on here have seen guys wanking, and a list of things you like to do is probably best shared with someone once you've peaked their interest. What I would suggest is have a look at some of the profiles of some of the successful males on here and try and relate your profile to something that applies to you, the main thing is the biggest exogenous zone with a female is her brain, if you can engage that you will be off to a good start keep the main course for when you meet | |||
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"Anyone else struggling for meets? Ain’t had one for months, I think my profile is pretty good, I’m always polite when I message, I send photos of myself with messages, only thing I can think is that I live in Pembrokeshire, back of beyond, I don’t mind travelling but this is getting really hard work just to get a reply let alone a meet, " I can only agree with the advice already given. Socials are so important to meet people here in Wales. The key to anything on here as a single guy is patience! You are competing with thousands of other guys here and unless you put effort into meeting without any thought of physical interaction you will find you will make some fantastic friends and you will meet more people off the back of it. Because of where you are, your going to have to balance who you are talking to and what you want as a guy. Being prepared to travel and being prepared to be let down is something only you can deal with in your own way. Again I can only reiterate that Socials and clubs are the best way to get meets on the scene as people can see you and make their own judgement rather than compete with other profiles. Be you, be nice, and understand that no thanks means no thanks ! Good luck | |||
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" Hey hope your luck improved, I’ve had the same issue I’d love so feedback if anyone can help, thanks " Are you looking for profile advice? | |||
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"I would appreciate some profile advice please as I'm not getting anywhere here." Maybe have a read through your bio and provide a little more about you, what your likes/dislikes are. | |||
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"I would appreciate some profile advice please as I'm not getting anywhere here." • Stop referring to women as "females". On Fab they are a 'people' and not a genus. Run a 'spell check' on your profile narrative (not that there is much narrative to speak of). And get rid of that ridiculous legal disclaimer at the bottom of your profile. It's meaningless, superfluous and smacks of gullibility. You need to add some tasteful and teasing photographs. In fact you really need to add a lot more detail to your profile. Ask yourself how you are different to other men, what would make you unique and stand out. There is very little substance in your profile. 🩶 | |||
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"Hahahaha I’m fat, bald and have a deformed cock and I manage to meet. The keys to getting meets are time, patience and lots of luck. Men outnumber women on here something like 20:1!!! I’m reliably informed by female friends that the most unattractive traits on here are whining, moaning" Exactly, it's the incels who spend all their time complaining about women not jumping on their cock when they just message them 'meet now' that are the issue. Doesn't matter what someone looks like to me, but if they go round insulting other people's appearances and have the audacity to think they have more of a right to meet than someone else because they have a 'better dick' then that's what screams arrogance Consider that you are the problem | |||
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"Hahahaha I’m fat, bald and have a deformed cock and I manage to meet. The keys to getting meets are time, patience and lots of luck. Men outnumber women on here something like 20:1!!! I’m reliably informed by female friends that the most unattractive traits on here are whining, moaning Exactly, it's the incels who spend all their time complaining about women not jumping on their cock when they just message them 'meet now' that are the issue. Doesn't matter what someone looks like to me, but if they go round insulting other people's appearances and have the audacity to think they have more of a right to meet than someone else because they have a 'better dick' then that's what screams arrogance Consider that you are the problem " Exactly!!! | |||
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"No one chats or meets on here. I could understand if I was fat ugly and had a small deformed dick. But I aint n don't. It's draining and annoying. Can't believe how many on here are so stuck up them selfs and arrogant " Do you think your profile has enough details and pics to appeal to a woman that gets 50 messages a day? That's what you're up against. I can hear your cry of 'not fair!' from here, but creating interest in you can only be done by you. | |||
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"No one chats or meets on here. I could understand if I was fat ugly and had a small deformed dick. But I aint n don't. It's draining and annoying. Can't believe how many on here are so stuck up them selfs and arrogant " You and your attitude is why you dont get any replies or meets. Change your outlook on swinging and stop the pity party. Your appalling statuses slagging off members here calling them cunts will just get you automatically blocked | |||
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"No one chats or meets on here. I could understand if I was fat ugly and had a small deformed dick. But I aint n don't. It's draining and annoying. Can't believe how many on here are so stuck up them selfs and arrogant " And we can all see that through the pictures you have on your profile..... | |||
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"I’ve been struggling for meets for a while. Been trying to get my first veri but proves more difficult without already having veris. It’s like applying for your first job, they say they need someone with work experience but you can’t get the work experience because no one will give you the chance to work😂 If you don’t mind can someone give me feedback on my profile? Preferably F because that’s what I’m interested in. Thanks all, happy fabbing x " Sorry to be blunt, but your profile put me off. I find your profile name infantile so any message would be an automatic delete just on that. You say you're a dom BUT I don't see that in your profile. I see a fake dom (had plenty of experience with them). What experience do you have? If you slapped me in play, I'd throat punch you, any type of "rough" play is negotiable, so to put that on your profile shows you do not unserstand kink at all. What experience do you have in restraints? Just tying up or using duct tape is so dangerous and can damage nerve endings. | |||
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"Likewise, but thanks for the feedback I guess😂 although I am slightly confused of your concern of tying up/duct tape “damaging nerve endings” but being completely okay with throat punching someone?😂😂 As for my “fake dom”/experiences they’ve all been within closed relationships in the past, where any photos/videos are either deleted or kept private as sharing without the consent would be highly illegal. As for that, I don’t have any to share on here as I’m new to the site and struggling for meets. " You asked for honest feedback and you act like a child over it. No wonder youre struggling for meets if you cant take constructive criticism. If someone just slapped you are you saying you wouldnt retaliate 
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I agree that I’d retaliate certainly but I wouldn’t be prepared to express concern of something a lot less fatal (throat punching someone could be fatal).
As I previously stated, thank you for the feedback. | |||
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"Acting like a child in what way? I agree that I’d retaliate certainly but I wouldn’t be prepared to express concern of something a lot less fatal (throat punching someone could be fatal).
As I previously stated, thank you for the feedback. "Acting like a child in what you replied to me. Slapping someone hard, tying someone up incorrectly, what you assume is rough play could also be fatal. Like I said (from experience) go to a munch if you want to explore the wonderful world of kink safely. Your profile text as it stands is very off putting and is probably why you are struggling for meets. Just take the comments on board and have a think as if you continue like this you will still struggle. | |||
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"I’ve been struggling for meets for a while. Been trying to get my first veri but proves more difficult without already having veris. It’s like applying for your first job, they say they need someone with work experience but you can’t get the work experience because no one will give you the chance to work😂 If you don’t mind can someone give me feedback on my profile? Preferably F because that’s what I’m interested in. Thanks all, happy fabbing x " Your pics are dark and vague. Clear pics would help. Your profile seems to be your sexual bucket list. Its all about your wants, nothing about what you offer. I get the impression that you think this site is for easy sex. It isn't, it's for swingers to connect. Attend socials and clubs if you're interested in swinging, you'll make friends and connections that way. And some of us do meet unverified guys - I did last week. Because he had a good profile and sent a good message. No veris isn't always the reason people won't meet. And finally...your name and status are off putting. | |||
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