FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlists

By *otSuperman OP Man
34 weeks ago

risca

So what do you all use your hotlists for?

People you’d like to meet?

Pictures are great

I’ve never really understood what the list was for? Is it like an Amazon wish list on fab lol

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
34 weeks ago

Cardiff

I don't really get it either, there's two profiles on mine I think, can't remember why

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By *arri54Woman
34 weeks ago

Cwmcarn

I've actually never used the hot list feature, I guess it's good if you want to save the name or like me can't remember a user name

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By *otSuperman OP Man
34 weeks ago

risca

Is there something about the profile you like?

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By *otSuperman OP Man
34 weeks ago

risca

I like to add people I like the look of, however after a while I do think it needs to be cleared out especially of you’ve had a no thank you

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By *aarv80Man
34 weeks ago

Crumlin

I tend to add people who aren't specifically looking for men, so that I can keep an eye on if they change their profiles.

But yea I agree if you have been politely told no, then it's a no..

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

My hotlist is full of women who I have no chance of interacting with.

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By *lmond SkinMan
34 weeks ago

Wales

"My hotlist is full of women who I have no chance of interacting with."

Snap lol

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By *ersephone500Woman
34 weeks ago

Bridgend

I use mine as a shortlist. If I come across someone I like, when I can't contact them, for whatever reason, then I'll add them to the hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Even after all these years I only have maybe 10-12 on my friends list.

More like 200 on my hot list.

People I've met briefly and got on well with, people I may like to meet in the future, or people who share really artsy photography.

(Oh and people I just want to perve on)

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By *ark ScoutMan
34 weeks ago

Swansea

Perving, simple for me, a bit like those instructions you get with a certain Swedish furniture vendor. Deep as fuck I know, don't judge. 😂

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Mayfair

I use my Høtlïst as a hierarchical system based on current friendships, intrigue and opportunities. It's a curated list representing those whom I'm already acquainted and/or chatting with. The list also represents those rare gems I would like to meet, irrespective of the outcome or intentions.

It also serves as a great filter for following the notable status updates.

To coin a phrase: they know who they are.

My Hotlist is superseded by my Telegram List. It's another level. They know who they are.

My Telegram List is superseded by my WhatsApp List. It's the apex. They know who they are. 😉

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By *coutDWoman
34 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I wish more people used it. It is a great addition for people you like seeing the pictures of or updates from and dont want their profile to get lost without having to add them as a friend.

I only add people I've met socially or sexually as a friend.

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By *ilffadMan
34 weeks ago

swansea

People to meet list or whose pictures I enjoy

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By *arri54Woman
34 weeks ago

Cwmcarn

So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

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By *ilffadMan
34 weeks ago

swansea

I message both

"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

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By *arri54Woman
34 weeks ago

Cwmcarn

"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?

Seems like that maybe not strictly true?

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?

Seems like that maybe not strictly true?

It's going ok, thanks.

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By *arri54Woman
34 weeks ago

Cwmcarn

"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?

Seems like that maybe not strictly true?

It's going ok, thanks.

Fabulous

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By *3xymamaWoman
34 weeks ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I wish more people used it. It is a great addition for people you like seeing the pictures of or updates from and dont want their profile to get lost without having to add them as a friend.

I only add people I've met socially or sexually as a friend. "

^^this^^

I do clear the list occasionally though..

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Mayfair

"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas?"

I don't.

In the four years I've been here 90% of my dates/socials/trysts/dalliances have been on the back of women sending the first message.

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By *idyn Mawr 87Man
34 weeks ago

Swansea

Mines people from cams, no chance of meeting but at least we can watch each other

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By *TWboyMan
22 weeks ago

kings Lynn

Do you get a message if someone adds you to their hotlist ? - how can you tell you are on someone’s hotlist ?

Am I missing something here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?

Seems like that maybe not strictly true?

It's going ok, thanks.

Fabulous

You're on mine 🤗

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By *arri54Woman
22 weeks ago

Cwmcarn

Mines empty

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Mines empty

Sad times 😭

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By *arri54Woman
22 weeks ago

Cwmcarn

Not really...

I'm not a collector

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Not really...

I'm not a collector

I'm not a collector either, 1 isn't a collection 😁

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
22 weeks ago

South Wales

I use it for people I find hot so I like to see their updates xx 😄

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By *ev257Man
22 weeks ago

cardiff

On our couples account I use it to list guys for the wife to look through n then if she is interested ask them if they want to join us for a meet.

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By *eviationMan
22 weeks ago

Brynamman

I use it mostly to save profiles of interest

And then to be ignored after sending a reasonably composed individual message

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By *eekingcoupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Ammanford

We used our to keep track of who we need to verify x

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By *elNRoobsCouple
22 weeks ago

Swansea

Generally used for two reasons, I treating profiles (parties and organisers) and profiles that interest us both, which is a rarity agreeing with each other hence it's a small list :p

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I use it to save profiles of people I have chatted to that could be potential meets. I use my friends list for people that I have met.

That way, if I am looking for a meet I have people to contact that I know who would be interested.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
22 weeks ago

All over the place

Generally to keep in touch with people I've met, hope to meet, etc

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By *ndypandytaffMan
22 weeks ago

Merthyr

You’ve just been added to mine!!! 🥵🥵

Just saying lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I generally add people I really like the look of to it and when I get around to it, I’ll drop them a message. If there’s no reply, I’ll remove them so I don’t message again. Nice way of keeping track

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Don't use it anymore, it's a stupid feature.

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