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Hotlists - What for?

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By *otSuperman OP   Man
4 weeks ago

risca

So what do you all use your hotlists for?

People you’d like to meet?

Pictures are great

I’ve never really understood what the list was for? Is it like an Amazon wish list on fab lol

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
4 weeks ago

Cardiff

I don't really get it either, there's two profiles on mine I think, can't remember why

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By *arriet54Woman
4 weeks ago

Newport

I've actually never used the hot list feature, I guess it's good if you want to save the name or like me can't remember a user name

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By *otSuperman OP   Man
4 weeks ago

risca

Is there something about the profile you like?

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By *otSuperman OP   Man
4 weeks ago

risca

I like to add people I like the look of, however after a while I do think it needs to be cleared out especially of you’ve had a no thank you

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By *aarv80Man
4 weeks ago

Crumlin

I tend to add people who aren't specifically looking for men, so that I can keep an eye on if they change their profiles.

But yea I agree if you have been politely told no, then it's a no..

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By *rSircumsizedMan
4 weeks ago

Risca

My hotlist is full of women who I have no chance of interacting with.

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By *lmond SkinMan
4 weeks ago

Wales


"My hotlist is full of women who I have no chance of interacting with."

Snap lol

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By *ersephone500Woman
4 weeks ago

Bridgend

I use mine as a shortlist. If I come across someone I like, when I can't contact them, for whatever reason, then I'll add them to the hotlist

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By *an1978Woman
4 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Even after all these years I only have maybe 10-12 on my friends list.

More like 200 on my hot list.

People I've met briefly and got on well with, people I may like to meet in the future, or people who share really artsy photography.

(Oh and people I just want to perve on)

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By *leefMan
4 weeks ago

Swansea

Perving, simple for me, a bit like those instructions you get with a certain Swedish furniture vendor. Deep as fuck I know, don't judge. 😂

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

I use my Høtlïst as a hierarchical system based on current friendships, intrigue and opportunities. It's a curated list representing those whom I'm already acquainted and/or chatting with. The list also represents those rare gems I would like to meet, irrespective of the outcome or intentions.

It also serves as a great filter for following the notable status updates.

To coin a phrase: they know who they are.

My Hotlist is superseded by my Telegram List. It's another level. They know who they are.

My Telegram List is superseded by my WhatsApp List. It's the apex. They know who they are. 😉

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By *coutDWoman
4 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I wish more people used it. It is a great addition for people you like seeing the pictures of or updates from and dont want their profile to get lost without having to add them as a friend.

I only add people I've met socially or sexually as a friend.

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By *ilffadMan
4 weeks ago

swansea

People to meet list or whose pictures I enjoy

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By *arriet54Woman
4 weeks ago

Newport

So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

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By *ilffadMan
4 weeks ago

swansea

I message both


"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block... "

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By *rSircumsizedMan
4 weeks ago

Risca


"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block... "

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

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By *arriet54Woman
4 weeks ago

Newport


"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves "

And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?

Seems like that maybe not strictly true?

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By *rSircumsizedMan
4 weeks ago

Risca


"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?

Seems like that maybe not strictly true? "

It's going ok, thanks.

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By *arriet54Woman
4 weeks ago

Newport


"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas? How'd you know you'd never interact with them?

If I liked the look, I'd message, if no then I'd block.

My friends list also consists of only people I've actually met socially or otherwise.

I purge that now and then if there's no conversion, gets overwhelming if not.

Message, meet or block...

I don't message anyone, I just sit back and wait for the offers to present themselves

And how's that working out for you? Most men here constantly saying they get no messages or meets?

Seems like that maybe not strictly true?

It's going ok, thanks. "

Fabulous

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By *3xymamaWoman
4 weeks ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I wish more people used it. It is a great addition for people you like seeing the pictures of or updates from and dont want their profile to get lost without having to add them as a friend.

I only add people I've met socially or sexually as a friend. "

^^this^^

I do clear the list occasionally though..

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair


"So do you message people on your hot list then fellas?"

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I don't.

In the four years I've been here 90% of my dates/socials/trysts/dalliances have been on the back of women sending the first message.

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By *idyn Mawr 87Man
4 weeks ago

Swansea

Mines people from cams, no chance of meeting but at least we can watch each other

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