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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To feel lust for someone that you meet swinging??

I have always said to Jase that the minute emotions start creeping in we either take a break or quit doing this....meant for him, not me.

But i have been shocked recently to feel lust for someone.....of course i dont want to run away with them or anything, i love my husband lol, but i do want them in bed!

I have never felt any emotions towards a swinger before (other than, wow this is good, or, my god your crap haha!) so im not sure if its appropriate or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take a break. Done it myself once. Hence I never meet the same person twice now, things can get messy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just spoken to Jase and he said its not lust its fancy, i have never fancied anyone we play with before, he said he has so i feel better now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you play with someone you're not attracted to? Im confused.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Lust.... fancy... call it what you want, it's not a bad thing!

We don't play with anyone that we wouldn't want to be friends with in real life, and friendship for us is an emotional response, so we are perhaps guilty of the same sort of thing.

But we keep the "deep and meaningful" stuff for us, our relationship is built on trust and honesty, we are deeply in love and nothing can ever change that, thats why we are comfortable when we swing, and now and then one of us does get the "wow!" about someone else, but its just that we want to jump their bones, and nothing else!

Chill, go with the flow, and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

excellent, thank so much!

Jase has been telling me this for years but i have never allowed myself to feel this way as i wasnt sure if it was crossing some sort of invisible boundary, so much more fun now that i know its ok, hehe

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you play with someone you're not attracted to? Im confused."

because for me its about the pleasure not the attraction, i love group situations so id rather get lost in the pleasure of it then he hung up on whether they were attractive or not, its just not something i have ever allowed myself to do, untill now haha

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely lust is not an emotion, lusting is a much needed part of life isn't it?

Acquiring a fondness for someone over and above lust would be a knife edge.

If you love hubby, then it shouldn't be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh god no its nothing like that lol

It's just its the first time I have ever thought. . . . Oh I could ruin you! Lol

I wasn't sure if it was a normal thing or not, but now I know it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with mart on this go with the flow i consider all the people i have met within the scene as friends who are welcome to call at my house to play or just have a weekend break by the coast just be safe

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By *utty FruttyCouple
over a year ago

south wales

Myself I think u gota fancy them in some way to wanna do stuff with them, like my mrs said to me the other day this male of a couple as a nice cock ?? Cool! get a meet on then lol, his partner looks good enough to lick so happy days,, I look at it as we in it for the sexy fun side, the love, lust is for my girl

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Oh god no its nothing like that lol

It's just its the first time I have ever thought. . . . Oh I could ruin you! Lol

I wasn't sure if it was a normal thing or not, but now I know it is "

Dont worry about it hunny I think we have all been there, i see people and think i would deffo wreak you mmmm lol sometimes the fems get jealous that another female lusts for their partner, but if like you and hubbs are happy and inlove with each other you would have no reason to feel a threat from another person. Enjoy it for what it is. The feeling of lust is a beautiful thing!!! warms the blood up ! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I like seeing girls wanting Jase, makes me feel proud lol

I'm cool with this now, just never allowed myself to fancy anyone but last week I couldn't help it, he was yummy!

Now I know it's okay I can have much more fun lol

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Oh I like seeing girls wanting Jase, makes me feel proud lol

I'm cool with this now, just never allowed myself to fancy anyone but last week I couldn't help it, he was yummy!

Now I know it's okay I can have much more fun lol"

I like talllllllll men x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol snap lol xxx hence ice is tall lol xxx pphhwwooaarr xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol feel free to jump Jase when you see him bunny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg.... I so meet the same person again, if i've had a fantastic time in bed or where ever we are at it!

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