FabSwingers.com forum: where are all the confident men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As part of a couple, not single men

It seems I always have to make the first move, I want to be grabbed and pounced on! Lol

Have yet to find anyone who is confident enough to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice ink u 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As part of a couple, not single men

It seems I always have to make the first move, I want to be grabbed and pounced on! Lol

Have yet to find anyone who is confident enough to do that

X"
lol

shame im over your age range i would show you confidence but that's life xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ok i am actually quite shy (shurrup anyone who laffs) and quite respectful i couldnt just pounce without permission lol stupid i kno pmsl xxx

ally xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and ice is very respectful u have to say to him xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol well I would make it clear by flirting, but I still end up having to be the one to start things or join in with others

I'd love someone to take my flirt hint and make there move/seduce me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that feeling well, at clubs parties and on meets it is generally me who leads the way, it would be nice on occasion if someone else took the lead.

On single meets however, I do tend to pick guys who are able to take the lead, Unless of course I'm looking to dominate

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

That's because guys are respectful @ party's + in Clubs.They don't want to risk beeing thrown out

Before a private meet you establish through chatting what you like and want,therefor dominant guys can be more 'forceful'.

It's easier @ kinkster partys with Masters/Doms + their slaves/subs where your kink is fully acepted + guys know how to play that way

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol well I would make it clear by flirting, but I still end up having to be the one to start things or join in with others

I'd love someone to take my flirt hint and make there move/seduce me lol"

That's something I would more than happy do lol

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By *andsomechap88Man
over a year ago

newmarket

I would do but I'm a year out of your age range so can't message you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice not to b the forward one lol but reading people is hard lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its nice not to b the forward one lol but reading people is hard lol xx"

methinks you got that covered. I mean you don't want to spoil a meet by possibly frightening someone to death.

I would reckon you should tell peeps how you like them to be when you arrange a meeting (other than socially).

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

Its good to talk. I like people saying what they want. Before a meet, making it clear that if u click you want the guy to take charge, makes life so easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm I guess I can see why men wouldn't want to risk it at party's, but if the chemistry is there then maybe they should take a chance? When worst that can happen is they get told no?

Cheers I don't know, think I will just have to continue to pounce lol

Have just added it to my profile anyway plus changed my age range, was pleasantly surprised the other day when I found myself wanting someone who was above my age limit, so I have now raised it lol

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

As the female half of a couple i always make the first move, i think it's because a single guy doesn't want to over step the boundaries, but i agree, after giving lots of sexy hints and loads of flirting, sometimes it would be nice for the guy to pick up on them and make the first move, however i can be quite forward and usually get what i ask for

I'm far more shy when it comes to couples meets as i then feel i'm not the one in control. Girls eh, we are very complex creatures lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Girls eh, we are very complex creatures lol xx"

Noooo, ya think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As the female half of a couple i always make the first move, i think it's because a single guy doesn't want to over step the boundaries, but i agree, after giving lots of sexy hints and loads of flirting, sometimes it would be nice for the guy to pick up on them and make the first move, however i can be quite forward and usually get what i ask for

I'm far more shy when it comes to couples meets as i then feel i'm not the one in control. Girls eh, we are very complex creatures lol xx"

See thinking about it, I always thought i was more sub but i guess i must be quite dominant as i always start off the fun or put myself in a group situation, i do this whether its a private meet or a party/club, and like you, i tend to always get what i want haha.

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By *andykissesWoman
over a year ago

laugharne

I love the man to take the lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy making the first move, personally. I'm confident luckily. And a flirt hehe.

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"Hmm I guess I can see why men wouldn't want to risk it at party's, but if the chemistry is there then maybe they should take a chance? When worst that can happen is they get told no?

Cheers I don't know, think I will just have to continue to pounce lol

Have just added it to my profile anyway plus changed my age range, was pleasantly surprised the other day when I found myself wanting someone who was above my age limit, so I have now raised it lol"

I hate a "NO" cos I feel it means I havent read the signs properly. The minute I know its green light then I def take charge, always easier if u kinda have an idea the lady wants to be pounced on, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jus keep hold of ur boxers sur pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol well now you all know, I'm a terrible first, especially if I have had a glass of wine or two, so I'm pretty sure any men will know if I like them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Grr stupid phone, that's meant to say flirt x

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"Grr stupid phone, that's meant to say flirt x

Lol - we all know now.

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"Jus keep hold of ur boxers sur pmsl

Dont get me started - Quote???? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right woman next time we meet i'm gonna bend you over and do you doggy...then say hello

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Oooofffft tatt.... ill jump on you if you want. Been wanting to forever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would jump.on mr bunny lol and mrs bunny lol roll on the ball lmao xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oooofffft tatt.... ill jump on you if you want. Been wanting to forever! "

Lol is this Mr or Mrs, or both!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'm very shy, whereas Jayne is more outgoing.

At parties, or clubs, I find it very hard to "read" the signals, if I am chatting to a lady and getting on well I just think that we are getting on well lol!

Even when I get given the "green light" I can still be very reserved, I don't like to assume that I can do what I like. However, give me a little time, perhaps a meet or two, and I'll soon have a lady out of her clothes and onto a bed as soon as I see her lol!

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

"I'm very shy, whereas Jayne is more outgoing.

At parties, or clubs, I find it very hard to "read" the signals, if I am chatting to a lady and getting on well I just think that we are getting on well lol!

A Bed? lol.....a sofa is often closer

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol a wall will do me hehehe

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

"lol a wall will do me hehehe"

and there's always a floor

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I'm very shy, whereas Jayne is more outgoing.

At parties, or clubs, I find it very hard to "read" the signals, if I am chatting to a lady and getting on well I just think that we are getting on well lol!

A Bed? lol.....a sofa is often closer

(susie)"

Yes, and some like to take it to the floor lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

floors are good but there is nothing like the rush of being pinned up against a wall by a hunky confident man ravishing you.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"floors are good but there is nothing like the rush of being pinned up against a wall by a hunky confident man ravishing you."

Hmmm.... don't mind me ladies, just taking notes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol excellent, teasing is also another sure thing

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

....anyway my advise:

1.Look if any Dominant guys are present,i can spot them a mile off

2.Just flirting isn't enough!Make sure you bring up your kinky subject + take note of who takes a closer interest in you + who shys away when you mention what you like.

3.Beware of your own behaviour

seen many fems wanting to be dommed but ended up arousing submissive guys because all about them shouted DOMME which in turn didn't interested the Masters/Doms who don't switch.

4.point 3 is important when the guys present enjoy both beeing dominant + beeing 'grabbed' by a fem.Awaken their Dom side...Told a guy @ a party who wanted to play with me:No,you to sub for me(i knew he enjoys both sides!)...well he turnd proper Dominant,talking grabbed + the rest

5.No guys with a dominant side present?Just enjoy the sex and may be more luck @ the next party.

(susie)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol excellent advice Susie, thanks!

Bring on the next party invite

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By *aster of a mindCouple
over a year ago

York

I would like to add my point as I am a Dom man.

1. often in my exerience at parties when women say they like to be dommed, what they mean is they like 'rough sex'.

2. If any fem expects me to Dom her, then she MUST be submissive! I don't want to get into the 'make me' game, that's not what it's about.

3.When My slave and I are at a B/D M/S party, there is certain etiquete. I am not permitted to 'Dom' or 'Direct' anyone elses slave without their Masters permission! We always have a ceramony at the start of a BD party which allows all the 'Dom's' present to have free access to the slaves! Masters still remain overall responsible for their slave's but another Dom may use any slave for his pleasure.

When I am at a vanilla swingers party, I find it difficult to get into this role as the atmosphere is very different.

My advice would be that if you want to be 'Dommed' and not just have rough sex then get yourself along to a B/D M/S party....They are great fun

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"Would jump.on mr bunny lol and mrs bunny lol roll on the ball lmao xx

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"Oooofffft tatt.... ill jump on you if you want. Been wanting to forever!

Lol is this Mr or Mrs, or both!

ITS moi

mrs bunny

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"floors are good but there is nothing like the rush of being pinned up against a wall by a hunky confident man ravishing you."

Yes purrrrrrrrrrrlease

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Especially if they pin your arms above your head, mmm lol

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Oh yes yes yes but I'm short so I'd end up tickling your chin lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its good to talk. I like people saying what they want. Before a meet, making it clear that if u click you want the guy to take charge, makes life so easy. "

I'm with you on that. If i've met the guy before and he dominates as soon as i open the door... Well i'm a quivering horny hot wreck lol!

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