FabSwingers.com forum: book by its cover

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

there is so many ppl on here that judge ppl for who they are without talking to them first or they worry what others may say behind there backs...what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with you, many of times have got a meet and afterwards the coupepes/singles then open up saying when we saw you/read your profile we didnt know what to expect but the worse but then say that they couldnt have been more wrong. Should really change my profile description but hay more of a suprise that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get the same problems meerkats people think smiff is a right bastid till they meet him ,then they know he,s a right bastid lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there is so many ppl on here that judge ppl for who they are without talking to them first or they worry what others may say behind there backs...what do you think?

i think bollocks to them

as you know we never judge and we certainly dont worry what others may say behind our backs x x x x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we get the same problems meerkats people think smiff is a right bastid till they meet him ,then they know he,s a right bastid lol "
smiff got off lightly with bstead ...I was more thinking c--t....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just take no notice I am who I am and if someone dont like me sod em lol. ya gotta say it as it is and dont worry about the two facers lol we got lots on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i just take no notice I am who I am and if someone dont like me sod em lol. ya gotta say it as it is and dont worry about the two facers lol we got lots on here

Here, here, we are who we are, some will like us and some won't and those that don't can jog on by x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it that the author of this thread means that someone has judged them on what someone else has told them ?

Well you are inevitably going to get back stabbers on here, as I know full well myself.

There are some that don't like your popularity, or that you may be more likable to others then them.

I suppose its all down to jealousy, and that fact that if they can't be civil and leave peoples choices alone, then they really will eventually suffer by being left out.

We all judge people on here by their profiles, and to help us in that choice, admin have given us the ability to verify to help others to find out more of the people than what they write on their profile.

My profile is not the best in the world, but I rely on the knowledge of others that have met me to prove what sort of person I am.

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"there is so many ppl on here that judge ppl for who they are without talking to them first or they worry what others may say behind there backs...what do you think?

i think bollocks to them

as you know we never judge and we certainly dont worry what others may say behind our backs x x x x x"

quite right to. So many with soooooo many stories about other people when what you should be doing is questioning the integrity of the people who pass judgement on others. What we have learnt is to ignore other peoples opinions and make your own minds up. Ive learnt not to get involved with other peoples arguments as 1. It doesnt involve me and 2. Quite often if you actually take time out to speak with people you may like them.....on that note have a lovely weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole swinging scene is one big Arselicking Festival. Lets face it. People trying to be more popular or making out they're much more 'nawty' or wild than the next person. Or fawning over them to their face and slagging them off behind a screen. (Its always very interesting to know who doesn't like who

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I haven't been to many parties or socials yet but its hard not to judge in advance, especially as all you've got to go on is a profile and a few pics. Some who I've thought would be absolute twats have turned out to be alright, whereas with others I was right all along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the best way to form an opinion is to meet people .i have been told so many times tat my profile is scary and i should have less pictures and put up less verifications ie hides some .however i think I like the profile the way it is and if people are to scared to meet us on a play meet they can always meet us at a social and form an opinion there.we find generally people on here nice.very few people are not.we just don't take ourselves too seriously and tend to play with others who embrace that ethos too.there are some people who regularly send me messages telling me what I am doing wrong .does that worry me?...

i think not i think they should spend less time worrying about other people's profiles and send more time having fun.thats what this site is for after all.it takes all sorts to make the world go around and if we were all the same it would be a dull world.

poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am the way i am lol xxx if u dont like it then

ur loss lmao xxxxxx

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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"The whole swinging scene is one big Arselicking Festival.

Fair play you hit the nail on the head there and that made

Song spring to mind......"you wanna be in my gang".

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