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"I read the profile before I even open the message. If the profile text isn't what I'm looking for, I will delete the message. It saves the possible abuse or questions asking why I haven't replied " Exactly my point ,we all have our preferences and we are entitled to them | |||
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" N.b. Not everyone who's profile I view and not message isn't because of the profile, it's nerves and/or self preservation 😂." When I was single (Del) , then you nailed it for me here, also the rejection on the already fragile confidence at that time would do the same. | |||
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"I always read a profile. You need to in order to know whether or not to even send a message. There has been many a time I've thought someone looked hot, or I've thought I'd be interested but after reading their profile there could be something that tells me I'm really not the person for them, or vice versa, so why waste everyone's time? There has also been the opposite. We can all be guilty of snap judgements and sometimes I've had a look thinking we're not going to be compatible but after reading their profile something catches my attention and I find people I'd love to play or have a drink with, or even just chat to. Profiles are the first port of call as to who you are and what you like. And if you've taken the time to write one properly and honestly and people have read it and aren't interested, then at least that's you being you and you're not right for each other anyway. N.b. Not everyone who's profile I view and not message isn't because of the profile, it's nerves and/or self preservation 😂." I think we all have a certain degree of anxiety when sending a message to a potential new friend, but it also adds to the excitement. Even those who seem confident and self assured get anxious at times 😊 | |||
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" N.b. Not everyone who's profile I view and not message isn't because of the profile, it's nerves and/or self preservation 😂. When I was single (Del) , then you nailed it for me here, also the rejection on the already fragile confidence at that time would do the same. " 100%, some people get put into the "I'll message when I'm having a confident day" category 😂 | |||
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"I think we all have a certain degree of anxiety when sending a message to a potential new friend, but it also adds to the excitement. Even those who seem confident and self assured get anxious at times 😊" Oh definitely, and I'm not saying I'm not a confident person,and excitement is always good, but some days you're more confident than others. And it's just that if I pop up in someone's recently viewed but haven't messaged it could be because their profile has told me that for whatever reason we're not really compatible, or it could be that my brain just says "you won't get a reply" lol x | |||
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"I always read a profile. You need to in order to know whether or not to even send a message. There has been many a time I've thought someone looked hot, or I've thought I'd be interested but after reading their profile there could be something that tells me I'm really not the person for them, or vice versa, so why waste everyone's time? There has also been the opposite. We can all be guilty of snap judgements and sometimes I've had a look thinking we're not going to be compatible but after reading their profile something catches my attention and I find people I'd love to play or have a drink with, or even just chat to. Profiles are the first port of call as to who you are and what you like. And if you've taken the time to write one properly and honestly and people have read it and aren't interested, then at least that's you being you and you're not right for each other anyway. N.b. Not everyone who's profile I view and not message isn't because of the profile, it's nerves and/or self preservation 😂." In a nutshell, this Anyone who doesn't bother reading a profile is shooting themselves in the foot! Fully realise I'm not everyone's cup of tea and vice versa, but it's far better for all involved if that's established before anyone's time is wasted... | |||
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