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"Oh a rant! Where to start..... Rude fancy a fuck messages. Instafuck peeps who think because you're here, you're up for it! No show people, who then block you, a simple "not for me" will suffice. Dick pics! I simply couldn't care .. Moan over...I thank you "Love this and second it all! Well add one, couples who expect you to jump through hoops to even get a social | |||
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"One that gets on my tits is profiles that say TV/TS on their profile, but when you go to message it says ‘they’ve blocked everyone of your sex!’ Ffs " How rude!! On the same lines, men who message, read the profile, says bi sexual,I politely refuse to get told they aren't bi sexual at all just using it to get more meets with couples... wtaf? | |||
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"One that gets on my tits is profiles that say TV/TS on their profile, but when you go to message it says ‘they’ve blocked everyone of your sex!’ Ffs " If it's a preference you should then be able to block | |||
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"From a single man's point of view... Profiles that say they are looking for men, but when you try to contact them they have blocked all males. Arranging to meet someone and then they go quiet on you, then pop back up a few weeks later like nothing happened. " Omg.. don't get me started on this.. and they post new verifications aswell.. | |||
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"The block button I've no issue with! Thought it was unnecessary to start but certainly gets rid of the timewasters "That's fair, but shouldn't be able to set the filter against preference | |||
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" We will go first, single guys why do you think message s with one line, no profile pictures and no bio are going to get you anywhere" Possibly cos they're replying to an update they saw that only had one line of info in it . Eg the other day someone posted 'is anyone about?' ' I am about 'I replied. Well what were they actually asking? Is anyone about 5ft 6? Is anyone about to orgasm? Is anyone about near Cardiff? Haha But yeh you're right it's nice to see who's messaged you and know a bit about them | |||
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"Conversations that start well then end up with them wanting you to piss in their eyes and shit on their chests " Not sure if I saw a "not looking for" filter for that one | |||
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" Not sure if I saw a "not looking for" filter for that one " I think it's called the "block" button... It's multifunctional | |||
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"People who think this is a hook up site, someone put in the forum about 'strangers fucking strangers'... people just not understanding swing8ng isn't that at all" I hear that a lot. "My mate told me about it for free fucks" There are those its a lifestyle choice the rest treat it as just a hook up... | |||
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"People who think this is a hook up site, someone put in the forum about 'strangers fucking strangers'... people just not understanding swing8ng isn't that at all I hear that a lot. "My mate told me about it for free fucks" There are those its a lifestyle choice the rest treat it as just a hook up..." Makes you wonder if they normally have to pay  | |||
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"Oh a rant! Where to start..... Rude fancy a fuck messages. Instafuck peeps who think because you're here, you're up for it! No show people, who then block you, a simple "not for me" will suffice. Dick pics! I simply couldn't care .. Moan over...I thank you "There are occations when there is the roght kinda Dick pic, mine never fails to elicit a response and a good laugh | |||
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"Vile statuses saying the like of - my balls are about to explode who can help - going for a drive anyone want to suck me off - meet now The examples are endless……. From an orderly queue is it ? "Oh yes!! Love those statuses... Hold on I'll be right there! NOT  | |||
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"Another one is people who message asking if we want to do some "snow"" Good luck to them with that in August. We never even tend to have any at Christmas 😂 x | |||
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"One that gets on my tits is profiles that say TV/TS on their profile, but when you go to message it says ‘they’ve blocked everyone of your sex!’ Ffs " Ain't that the truth. Jo x | |||
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"Cut and paste scenarios. “You come home, I tie you up, spread your legs etc etc” Bonus points for spelling mistakes. " So that's good! I need a new plan..! Jo x | |||
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"Big pet peeve for me is blank bios, no pics and ppl not updating their 'looking for age range'. If you're here for 18 year olds just say." Good point. Jox | |||
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"Another one is people who message asking if we want to do some "snow" Good luck to them with that in August. We never even tend to have any at Christmas 😂 x" 😂😂😂 right lol | |||
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"Whilst I understand there are some that give most a bad name, what if you flipped this around and shared more advice for those reaching out genuinely interested in swinging but due to that single guy tarnish it’s tricky to get off the ground without attending a social. I don’t feel I’m confident enough to do that just yet btw What is good advice for cold calling via messages? " 👏 | |||
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"Whilst I understand there are some that give most a bad name, what if you flipped this around and shared more advice for those reaching out genuinely interested in swinging but due to that single guy tarnish it’s tricky to get off the ground without attending a social. I don’t feel I’m confident enough to do that just yet btw What is good advice for cold calling via messages? " My advice is: Read the persons profile fully. If you match what they are looking for send them a polite message relaying information from their profile to prove you have read it. Dick pics or vulgar messages are such a turn off to us. Good luck Dory | |||
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"Whilst I understand there are some that give most a bad name, what if you flipped this around and shared more advice for those reaching out genuinely interested in swinging but due to that single guy tarnish it’s tricky to get off the ground without attending a social. I don’t feel I’m confident enough to do that just yet btw What is good advice for cold calling via messages? My advice is: Read the persons profile fully. If you match what they are looking for send them a polite message relaying information from their profile to prove you have read it. Dick pics or vulgar messages are such a turn off to us. Good luck Dory" I think that’s my point Dory I do just that and never a dick pic in sight I guess I’m just messaging the wrong ones… on wards and upwards I guess haha | |||
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" I think that’s my point Dory I do just that and never a dick pic in sight I guess I’m just messaging the wrong ones… on wards and upwards I guess haha " It could be your marital status as that would put us off. Many will happily play though so good luck  | |||
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" I think that’s my point Dory I do just that and never a dick pic in sight I guess I’m just messaging the wrong ones… on wards and upwards I guess haha It could be your marital status as that would put us off. Many will happily play though so good luck "A fair point x | |||
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"I personally think a swift reply to a message of no thanks would help us single chaps, especially when there there is an updated post asking for something in particular although I guess inboxes get very full for single ladies so perhaps impossible to respond to all. " We stopped replying no thanks due to all the abuse we received. | |||
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"I personally think a swift reply to a message of no thanks would help us single chaps, especially when there there is an updated post asking for something in particular although I guess inboxes get very full for single ladies so perhaps impossible to respond to all. " | |||
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" I think that’s my point Dory I do just that and never a dick pic in sight I guess I’m just messaging the wrong ones… on wards and upwards I guess haha It could be your marital status as that would put us off. Many will happily play though so good luck
A fair point x"Our quick estimate based on your profile "I'm married and doing this alone" "I don't think I'm a swinger" This tells us you're just here to cheat, and most couples/ladies won't touch that with a barge pole! Swinging is not just about the sex and you seem to just want what you can get, try tinder for that. Other elements are low time on the site plus 1 picture, understand not wanting your face but there's not alot to go on with your profile. We would immediately delete messages based on the profile. | |||
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"I personally think a swift reply to a message of no thanks would help us single chaps, especially when there there is an updated post asking for something in particular although I guess inboxes get very full for single ladies so perhaps impossible to respond to all. " It's easier to delete than suffer the abuse, how about if a message is immediately deleted take that as a sign | |||
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"I personally think a swift reply to a message of no thanks would help us single chaps, especially when there there is an updated post asking for something in particular although I guess inboxes get very full for single ladies so perhaps impossible to respond to all. We stopped replying no thanks due to all the abuse we received." So did we, unless it's been a few messages and the guy has shown they are mature enough to handle rejection | |||
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"I personally think a swift reply to a message of no thanks would help us single chaps, especially when there there is an updated post asking for something in particular although I guess inboxes get very full for single ladies so perhaps impossible to respond to all. " Some women get literally hundreds off messages....they need an app to automatically answer all of them.....like the Yahweh Insta-Prayer scene in Bruce Almighty 🙂 | |||
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" I think that’s my point Dory I do just that and never a dick pic in sight I guess I’m just messaging the wrong ones… on wards and upwards I guess haha It could be your marital status as that would put us off. Many will happily play though so good luck
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"I'm married and doing this alone"
"I don't think I'm a swinger"
This tells us you're just here to cheat, and most couples/ladies won't touch that with a barge pole!
Swinging is not just about the sex and you seem to just want what you can get, try tinder for that.
Other elements are low time on the site plus 1 picture, understand not wanting your face but there's not alot to go on with your profile. We would immediately delete messages based on the profile.
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" I think that’s my point Dory I do just that and never a dick pic in sight I guess I’m just messaging the wrong ones… on wards and upwards I guess haha It could be your marital status as that would put us off. Many will happily play though so good luck
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Our quick estimate based on your profile
"I'm married and doing this alone"
"I don't think I'm a swinger"
This tells us you're just here to cheat, and most couples/ladies won't touch that with a barge pole!
Swinging is not just about the sex and you seem to just want what you can get, try tinder for that.
Other elements are low time on the site plus 1 picture, understand not wanting your face but there's not alot to go on with your profile. We would immediately delete messages based on the profile.
Thanks for the great advice I appreciate it. "Also I have never heard a marriage called a long term relationship | |||
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"I personally think a swift reply to a message of no thanks would help us single chaps, especially when there there is an updated post asking for something in particular although I guess inboxes get very full for single ladies so perhaps impossible to respond to all. It's easier to delete than suffer the abuse, how about if a message is immediately deleted take that as a sign " I get that I would never be abusive to anyone on here if it’s a no then that’s good enough for me I never bombard profiles with further messages but I guess we are not all the same | |||
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"I personally think a swift reply to a message of no thanks would help us single chaps, especially when there there is an updated post asking for something in particular although I guess inboxes get very full for single ladies so perhaps impossible to respond to all. " A polite no thank you goes a long way *totally get the volume though | |||
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"Chat for ages have great chemistry and banter, send face pic........sorry your not my type!!! " Maybe best to send a face picture early on, it saves investing anymore time if there's no attraction... just suggestion by the way  | |||
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"Chat for ages have great chemistry and banter, send face pic........sorry your not my type!!! Maybe best to send a face picture early on, it saves investing anymore time if there's no attraction... just suggestion by the way "Even better ... send them a picture of someone else's face... I'm jesting.. But yeah.. I get my mug out early As a single fella, I think it shows a level of intent. Also .. better to know if you fancy someone sooner | |||
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"Long profiles that start ranty and negative, rant a bit negatively and finish on a negative rant. Often there’s a code word to prove you’ve read it all. It’s important to be up front and honest, but there’s different ways of doing it. Gbat " Guess you don't realise how frustrating it is to get messages from people who clearly haven't even read your status let alone profile | |||
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"Long profiles that start ranty and negative, rant a bit negatively and finish on a negative rant. Often there’s a code word to prove you’ve read it all. It’s important to be up front and honest, but there’s different ways of doing it. Gbat " I think the rant is usually added after becoming jaded with some responses. We'd call it a disclaimer on ours on what we are after. And ours is wordy and specific, to hopefully give a background on us. | |||
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"Chat for ages have great chemistry and banter, send face pic........sorry your not my type!!! Maybe best to send a face picture early on, it saves investing anymore time if there's no attraction... just suggestion by the way "Ours are always out, Hers to attract people and his to counteract and filter off people haha | |||
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"Guess you don't realise how frustrating it is to get messages from people who clearly haven't even read your status let alone profile" Oh no, for sure I understand that. Even as a single guy I get more messages than I want that are quite contrary to what I’ve said I’m looking for. I imagine it’s a lot worse for you. And lots of posts have commented on people’s frustration in this respect. But I’m specifically talking about those that read as quite rude or well, ranty! I find it off putting and unwelcoming. My comment wasn’t intended as a personal slight towards anyone here. Gbat | |||
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" We'd call it a disclaimer on ours on what we are after. And ours is wordy and specific, to hopefully give a background on us. " Yeah, that’s how I see yours. And you’re very open and welcoming in real life too!! Gbat | |||
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"Where to begin! Statuses like this is facebook! Statuses asking for money! People who moan about dick pics but will happily show pics of their vag and/or arsehole. Lengthy bios People who moan about how shitty men on this site letting them down or just being dicks and asking where are all the good men for them to blatantly ignore the good men and carry on with the ducks. The fact this site has become all about the socials. Particularly in south wales. It's not so bad in other areas of the country. Pics with statements asking 'fab my pic for a meet' or similar. Gapping vag and arsehole pics People who clearly have no intention of ever meeting anyone and only using this site for attention and an ego boost. People who meet single guys but have them blocked as a message preference?! People who moan about one liners who then respond with one liners or even worse, one word?!" Maybe easier to discuss what you like about this place, would take less time haha jk | |||
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" We'd call it a disclaimer on ours on what we are after. And ours is wordy and specific, to hopefully give a background on us. Yeah, that’s how I see yours. And you’re very open and welcoming in real life too!! Gbat " . Awww thanks. We are open and honest about what we want, and we respect others and will chat to everyone (until someone annoys Ruby - then the red head comes through, but that takes a lot). We enjoy the social side, making friends, as much as the play. For us that is what swinging is. | |||
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"Where to begin! Statuses like this is facebook! Statuses asking for money! People who moan about dick pics but will happily show pics of their vag and/or arsehole. Lengthy bios People who moan about how shitty men on this site letting them down or just being dicks and asking where are all the good men for them to blatantly ignore the good men and carry on with the ducks. The fact this site has become all about the socials. Particularly in south wales. It's not so bad in other areas of the country. Pics with statements asking 'fab my pic for a meet' or similar. Gapping vag and arsehole pics People who clearly have no intention of ever meeting anyone and only using this site for attention and an ego boost. People who meet single guys but have them blocked as a message preference?! People who moan about one liners who then respond with one liners or even worse, one word?! Maybe easier to discuss what you like about this place, would take less time haha jk" Haha so true these days! If this question would have popped up between 7 and 10 years ago I would have said nothing but this site has changed drastically over the last few years. Shame really but the lure is still there as every now and then you come across some really lovely people and it makes it all worth while. | |||
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"Where to begin! Statuses like this is facebook! Statuses asking for money! People who moan about dick pics but will happily show pics of their vag and/or arsehole. Lengthy bios People who moan about how shitty men on this site letting them down or just being dicks and asking where are all the good men for them to blatantly ignore the good men and carry on with the ducks. The fact this site has become all about the socials. Particularly in south wales. It's not so bad in other areas of the country. Pics with statements asking 'fab my pic for a meet' or similar. Gapping vag and arsehole pics People who clearly have no intention of ever meeting anyone and only using this site for attention and an ego boost. People who meet single guys but have them blocked as a message preference?! People who moan about one liners who then respond with one liners or even worse, one word?!" People run their profile as they wish.. As for socials, some like them as a way of getting to know people.. Don't like what you read, see on a profile then scroll passed it. Don't worry, be happy 😃 Fab has something for everyone  | |||
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"Conversations that start well then end up with them wanting you to piss in their eyes and shit on their chests " That sounds like someone has strayed from an entirely different site | |||
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"Where to begin! Statuses like this is facebook! Statuses asking for money! People who moan about dick pics but will happily show pics of their vag and/or arsehole. Lengthy bios People who moan about how shitty men on this site letting them down or just being dicks and asking where are all the good men for them to blatantly ignore the good men and carry on with the ducks. The fact this site has become all about the socials. Particularly in south wales. It's not so bad in other areas of the country. Pics with statements asking 'fab my pic for a meet' or similar. Gapping vag and arsehole pics People who clearly have no intention of ever meeting anyone and only using this site for attention and an ego boost. People who meet single guys but have them blocked as a message preference?! People who moan about one liners who then respond with one liners or even worse, one word?! People run their profile as they wish.. As for socials, some like them as a way of getting to know people.. Don't like what you read, see on a profile then scroll passed it. Don't worry, be happy 😃 Fab has something for everyone "Why did you feel the need to respond with answers to my rants? This forum post is for ranting and that's exactly what I did haha I know there are reasons behind it all but that doesn't make it any less annoying | |||
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"Where to begin! Statuses like this is facebook! Statuses asking for money! People who moan about dick pics but will happily show pics of their vag and/or arsehole. Lengthy bios People who moan about how shitty men on this site letting them down or just being dicks and asking where are all the good men for them to blatantly ignore the good men and carry on with the ducks. The fact this site has become all about the socials. Particularly in south wales. It's not so bad in other areas of the country. Pics with statements asking 'fab my pic for a meet' or similar. Gapping vag and arsehole pics People who clearly have no intention of ever meeting anyone and only using this site for attention and an ego boost. People who meet single guys but have them blocked as a message preference?! People who moan about one liners who then respond with one liners or even worse, one word?! People run their profile as they wish.. As for socials, some like them as a way of getting to know people.. Don't like what you read, see on a profile then scroll passed it. Don't worry, be happy 😃 Fab has something for everyone
Why did you feel the need to respond with answers to my rants?
This forum post is for ranting and that's exactly what I did haha
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"People who moan about recieving one liner messages, like they expect a book to be written. One liners are fine in my book, it starts a conversation, for me it's how the coversation continues." Some days we get anywhere between 50 and 100 messages. Some women get 10x that amount. We physically don't have enough time to continue a conversation with the 90% of them that send a 'hi, how are you' in the hope that they will turn out to have more to offer in a conversation. It's also the most mundane question in the world to answer when talking to a complete stranger. We don't want war and peace, literally a couple of lines from someone telling us why they feel we would match is all we look for. | |||
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"People who moan about recieving one liner messages, like they expect a book to be written. One liners are fine in my book, it starts a conversation, for me it's how the coversation continues. Some days we get anywhere between 50 and 100 messages. Some women get 10x that amount. We physically don't have enough time to continue a conversation with the 90% of them that send a 'hi, how are you' in the hope that they will turn out to have more to offer in a conversation. It's also the most mundane question in the world to answer when talking to a complete stranger. We don't want war and peace, literally a couple of lines from someone telling us why they feel we would match is all we look for. " 😏 | |||
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"Social meet = you get the drinks in, I'll drink for free then go home.. " What else would a social meet be ? | |||
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" What else would a social meet be ? So you're saying you only do it for free drinks? " No, I'm saying I would be prepared to pay for drinks being a gentleman. A social is purely meeting someone to see if you hit it off. Why would you moan if it cost you a few drinks to find that out ? | |||
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"People who moan that nobody will chat / meet. Then when you do, they don't have decency to confirm meet or actually show up. People who mistakenly think that 'social meet only' means they are going to get a shag. Women in couples, who claim to be bi, but when you meet are happy to receive, but not reciprocate. Men who think sending a dick pic as first message is acceptable." Agree with all of the above. Reading these it's no wonder us women meet at all! | |||
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"I have shown interest in a couple. I seemed to meet their criteria, but I had reservations, as they had NO photos on their profile. I have a fair few pics on mine. Unusually, they contacted me, asking for a face pic.? I was so dumbfounded, I admit to ignoring the request. Is this normal practice for ‘in demand couple seeking male’ ?" Remember On here the ladies, couples are more desirable than single men, cos there are more single men than anything else | |||
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"People who think this is a hook up site, someone put in the forum about 'strangers fucking strangers'... people just not understanding swing8ng isn't that at all I hear that a lot. "My mate told me about it for free fucks" There are those its a lifestyle choice the rest treat it as just a hook up... Makes you wonder if they normally have to pay "I feel bad for sex workers whom have to deal with that type! I'm sure they don't get paid enough!!! | |||
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" What else would a social meet be ? So you're saying you only do it for free drinks? No, I'm saying I would be prepared to pay for drinks being a gentleman. A social is purely meeting someone to see if you hit it off. Why would you moan if it cost you a few drinks to find that out ?" unfortunately not alot of guys get it, we are quite happy if it's just a social and the other guy/couple drink our drink. Don't expect anyone to bring a bottle if we invite people around for a drink. We thought that was just what hosts do | |||
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" What else would a social meet be ? So you're saying you only do it for free drinks? No, I'm saying I would be prepared to pay for drinks being a gentleman. A social is purely meeting someone to see if you hit it off. Why would you moan if it cost you a few drinks to find that out ? unfortunately not alot of guys get it, we are quite happy if it's just a social and the other guy/couple drink our drink. Don't expect anyone to bring a bottle if we invite people around for a drink. We thought that was just what hosts do " Yeah if you invite someone over then that’s fair enough, but when do I get my invite over then 🫣 need to lower your age range btw 😂 | |||
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" What else would a social meet be ? So you're saying you only do it for free drinks? No, I'm saying I would be prepared to pay for drinks being a gentleman. A social is purely meeting someone to see if you hit it off. Why would you moan if it cost you a few drinks to find that out ? unfortunately not alot of guys get it, we are quite happy if it's just a social and the other guy/couple drink our drink. Don't expect anyone to bring a bottle if we invite people around for a drink. We thought that was just what hosts do Yeah if you invite someone over then that’s fair enough, but when do I get my invite over then 🫣 need to lower your age range btw 😂" Sorry age range is there for a reason, Caroline doesn't want to play with people she could be a mum too and I get it | |||
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" What else would a social meet be ? So you're saying you only do it for free drinks? No, I'm saying I would be prepared to pay for drinks being a gentleman. A social is purely meeting someone to see if you hit it off. Why would you moan if it cost you a few drinks to find that out ? unfortunately not alot of guys get it, we are quite happy if it's just a social and the other guy/couple drink our drink. Don't expect anyone to bring a bottle if we invite people around for a drink. We thought that was just what hosts do Yeah if you invite someone over then that’s fair enough, but when do I get my invite over then 🫣 need to lower your age range btw 😂 Sorry age range is there for a reason, Caroline doesn't want to play with people she could be a mum too and I get it " That’s very fair but only 2 years 😅ahaha good luck | |||
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"People who wink or message and when I go to look at their profile it's hidden!!! Wtf!! Lol "Same when they send a message, very annoying how are we meant to decide if ita worth time talking to then | |||
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"When couples / singles look at single profiles and they clearly state not looking for single guys ?.or you can't message as they've blocked single guys ." If you had a couples or singles profile you'd understand why this is done | |||
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"Another one to add, people who treat this like Facebook, for example there's a thread on another forum heading talking about children's vaccines, why would that be a discussion point on a swingers forum " 100% this… | |||
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"New rant, People who try to add you as a friend even though you've never spoken before " This drives me mad, I didn't realise when I joined they only wanted to be a friend to nose at my private pictures. Get at least 5-8 requests from strangers every day. Also, people expecting an explanation as to why they are not for you. No one owes anyone anything and I hate when people say "but why this, why not, can't you just..." I said no politely now fuck off! | |||
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"New rant, People who try to add you as a friend even though you've never spoken before This drives me mad, I didn't realise when I joined they only wanted to be a friend to nose at my private pictures. Get at least 5-8 requests from strangers every day. Also, people expecting an explanation as to why they are not for you. No one owes anyone anything and I hate when people say "but why this, why not, can't you just..." I said no politely now fuck off! " We had that this weekend, and when we said noone owes you anything the guy literally threatened to force the issue. Him and what army lol | |||
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"New rant, People who try to add you as a friend even though you've never spoken before This drives me mad, I didn't realise when I joined they only wanted to be a friend to nose at my private pictures. Get at least 5-8 requests from strangers every day. Also, people expecting an explanation as to why they are not for you. No one owes anyone anything and I hate when people say "but why this, why not, can't you just..." I said no politely now fuck off! We had that this weekend, and when we said noone owes you anything the guy literally threatened to force the issue. Him and what army lol" There are some lovely people on this site but there are also some absolute dickheads with massive chips on their shoulders. My hotlist is pretty huge  but my block list is enormous  | |||
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"New rant, People who try to add you as a friend even though you've never spoken before This drives me mad, I didn't realise when I joined they only wanted to be a friend to nose at my private pictures. Get at least 5-8 requests from strangers every day. Also, people expecting an explanation as to why they are not for you. No one owes anyone anything and I hate when people say "but why this, why not, can't you just..." I said no politely now fuck off! " If you leave the friend requests just sitting in the box, they can't re-send.. that's why I often say "this is where unsolicited friend requests come to die" 🤣😂🤣 | |||
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"New rant, People who try to add you as a friend even though you've never spoken before This drives me mad, I didn't realise when I joined they only wanted to be a friend to nose at my private pictures. Get at least 5-8 requests from strangers every day. Also, people expecting an explanation as to why they are not for you. No one owes anyone anything and I hate when people say "but why this, why not, can't you just..." I said no politely now fuck off! We had that this weekend, and when we said noone owes you anything the guy literally threatened to force the issue. Him and what army lol" He was going to take it to the citizens advice bureau. | |||
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"Love these 😅 No shows No pictures or bio but want a pic first Lying about age Catfishing " People (typically couples or single guys) who lie to try and get sex of the female of the couple without having to have the man involved | |||
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