FabSwingers.com forum: Profile tips?

By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

I do understand that ladies on here relieve A LOT of messages, everyday, so I understand that sometimes my messages won't even get read..

However, I very rarely get a reply on here, and I'm not sure where I'm going wrong.

I'm not here fishing for compliments, but I'd say I was decent looking, and I'm respectful with my messages.

So, ladies, or men even, any tips on making my profile any better? Or is there something I can change or add.

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
20 weeks ago

Carmarthen

You look fine to me but maybe the free field section is a little too generic and bland to fully engage.

Talk about the kind of people you would like to meet with some more specifics, maybe some of your kinks or tastes if you’re comfortable doing that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"You look fine to me but maybe the free field section is a little too generic and bland to fully engage.

Talk about the kind of people you would like to meet with some more specifics, maybe some of your kinks or tastes if you’re comfortable doing that?"

Ok cool I will do that, I'll think of a few more things to say today and add it haha

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By *ttoWoman
20 weeks ago

llanelli

Maybe add a little about your manual skills

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

"Maybe add a little about your manual skills

Hey, so like, say what I'm into or what I'm good at? Haha

I did try to DM you, I'm outside your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Hello Danny,

Hope you're well, brother!

Having met, I know you have a lot to offer mate and would like to help. Firstly, there is no set formula to profiles and yours is better than most. Perhaps, you need to consider what messages you're sending and the statuses you use. Hard for me to speculate and I'm sure you are already polite and PG in your conduct. However, I would advice the following;

1. Change your greeting to something that is less sexual and engages the reader, like a question (call to action)

2. Make the beach photo your profile pic (ask yourself: do they want to meet someone fun and adventurous or someone in bed, on their phone?)

3. Lose the opener, it's too conservative and generic: "Relaxed, down to earth and genuine guy with good manners and a wild side!" (an opener should be a hook, so haymaker it)

4. Change your ending paragraph, lose the "I don't have a specific type" and end with another "call to action" -- Try something like: "My biggest weakness is a woman that can make me laugh, so send me your best joke!"

5. Add somethings that convey your vanilla side; deadpan current obsessions, hobbies and superpowers (like the mullet, if you still have it) -- This will add depth and demonstrate that you are a human!

6. Be witty without being vulgar, stand-out from the Toms, Harry's and most importantly... the Dicks!

7. Remember your self-worth, manage your expectations and be yourself

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Hope that helps Danny, best of luck x

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
20 weeks ago

RCT/South Wales

I like your profile. Good bio and great pics plus the bonus of real verifications which is a huge bonus on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
20 weeks ago

Top man! I will take all this on board and I'll make adjustments tonight! I hope you're well mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"Top man! I will take all this on board and I'll make adjustments tonight! I hope you're well mate!

I'm grand, thanks Danny!

Glad to see that you've taken my advice and bits from my profile (cheeky c') - but made it personal to you. Looks so much better, great effort mate.

Without meaning to be overkill, I have edited your draft a little and will inbox you it shortly. Up to you, if you wish to implement the changes or not.

Either way, I hope it works!

PS: Let me know if you want a wingman the next time you go to a social or Cham's

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