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By *econdSideQuest OP   Woman
32 weeks ago

SWANSEA

A group of friends and I are looking to do a lil outing for a Bi night

I'm utterly failing to remember how often they are, and whether we need to book in advance

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By *issing DoryCouple
32 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

They are every Saturday and you just turn up. No need to book. Call the club to make sure of anything you're unsure of may be best

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By *econdSideQuest OP   Woman
32 weeks ago

SWANSEA

Do we need to be members already to attend?

They're closed and I can't get through on the phone, plus extreme phone anxiety

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
32 weeks ago

Pontypool


"Do we need to be members already to attend?

They're closed and I can't get through on the phone, plus extreme phone anxiety "

No, you only need membership on a Friday from 8pm, when it becomes Chameleons. Saturday is pay on the door, £20pp.

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By *alclmMan
32 weeks ago

Cardiff

Hi.

Nice

Love a invited

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By *eard and TattsCouple
32 weeks ago

Cwmbran

Bi night could seriously do with more bi women tbf

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By *ngelLordCouple
32 weeks ago

Newport


"Bi night could seriously do with more bi women tbf"

And bi men

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By *eard and TattsCouple
32 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"Bi night could seriously do with more bi women tbf

And bi men "

True, lots of straight men expecting women there, think they miss the point of that night

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By *ewport52Man
32 weeks ago

Newport

Hoping to go this Saturday evening, feel free to come say hi….. just hope the heating is off or certain turned down lol

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By *untimeAl68Man
32 weeks ago

swansea

I’ll be there this Saturday

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By *ild n NaughtyMan
14 weeks ago

south Cheshire

Is every Saturday night a bi night xx

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By *ild n NaughtyMan
14 weeks ago

south Cheshire

Is every Saturday night a bi night xx

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By *9alMan
14 weeks ago

Bridgend


"Is every Saturday night a bi night xx"

yes its bi night every Saturday night

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By *xr n vampyCouple
14 weeks ago

caerphilly

we used to lots but the guys that follow women around are so off putting

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By *ngelLordCouple
14 weeks ago

Newport


"we used to lots but the guys that follow women around are so off putting "

And most of them straight tbh

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Cardiff

I’ve noticed that too! I’ve even asked some guys whether they’re aware what bi night means when they’ve told me they’re straight

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By *heExcommMan
14 weeks ago

Llantrisant

We had an annoying one Saturday just gone. Old guy kept touching us in the hot tub even though we kept telling him to stop. Always denied it was him and then got asked to leave

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By *-CrassClownMan
14 weeks ago

Cardiff


"Bi night could seriously do with more bi women tbf

And bi men "

They're not the sharpest tools in the box

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By *ndrapodaMan
14 weeks ago

Swansea

Perhaps there should be an assessment of single guys at the entrance. Get everyone to suck a cock before getting in !

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By *ngelLordCouple
14 weeks ago

Newport

Something definitely needs to be done never had this kind of issues in Darlaston tbh

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By *9alMan
14 weeks ago

Bridgend


"Perhaps there should be an assessment of single guys at the entrance. Get everyone to suck a cock before getting in !"

I would volunteer as a doorman!

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By *ovetolick78Man
14 weeks ago

The Shire


"Perhaps there should be an assessment of single guys at the entrance. Get everyone to suck a cock before getting in !"

Depends who's cock it is!

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Cardiff

No small smelly ones

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By *oasterMan
14 weeks ago

Sth Wales

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By *icVersaMan
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

To be fair, quite a few of the guys who answer “straight” at the Greenhouse bi night are far from it.

Some are exploring, and not willing to admit to themselves they’re bi yet. Some are deeply in the closet (for all sorts of reasons) and this is the only place they can feel at ease and normal.

Loads fewer bi men are out & happy to admit it than bi women because the stigma is so huge. Shitloads of women wouldn’t touch an out bi guy with a bargepole (even quite a few bi women, which is a bit crap).

Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well. I think bi nights should be open to straight partners.

There’s quite a few there who are just straight, though, and looking for women and it’s a problem given it’s one of the only explicitly bisexual spaces in the area. Can’t help thinking they should just go somewhere else.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
13 weeks ago

Cwmbran

If we wanted single straight men we could easily pick from the pool here.

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By *icVersaMan
13 weeks ago

Cardiff


"If we wanted single straight men we could easily pick from the pool here. "

Yup 👍

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By *nickers40TV/TS
13 weeks ago

newport

Was thinking of going Saturday night and dressing up not fully just lingerie but nervous that’s all x

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13 weeks ago

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13 weeks ago


"Perhaps there should be an assessment of single guys at the entrance. Get everyone to suck a cock before getting in !"

Love that idea

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By *nickers40TV/TS
13 weeks ago

newport

I’ll stay by the door then lol x

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By *ananaNoDramaMan
13 weeks ago

Caerdydd

lol brilliant 🤣

Pretty confident I’d pass that test!


"Perhaps there should be an assessment of single guys at the entrance. Get everyone to suck a cock before getting in !"

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By *eard and TattsCouple
13 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"Perhaps there should be an assessment of single guys at the entrance. Get everyone to suck a cock before getting in !"

I'll see most of you boys outside then, but saying that loads of straight guys willing to sell a portion of their sexuality for a shot at the wife

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By *ed1048Man
13 weeks ago

porthcawl

Cham won’t answer e mails I’ve tried you can’t go to the Newport one as a bi only as a man / couple not tv or trans …. But you can go as u line Saturday 2pm to finish

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By *nickers40TV/TS
13 weeks ago

newport

Any women wanna help me do my make up Saturday night x

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By * and R cple4Couple
13 weeks ago

swansea

Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore.

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
13 weeks ago

Swansea


"Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore. "

Exctally, it's called a bi night but there are more stright males there than bi.

No idea how to police it & it's the greenhouse model that there is no membership.

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By *aarv80Man
13 weeks ago

Crumlin

I'd go but I wouldn't be brave enough to go on my own.

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By *icVersaMan
13 weeks ago

Cardiff


"I'd go but I wouldn't be brave enough to go on my own."

Give it a go, mate. I’ve found it a welcoming place, with lots of nice open people happy to chat/play.

Plenty of gay/bi guys there, in my experience, along with straight guys as others have said. Fewer women than men, mostly, but there’s always a gender mix.

There’s no pressure for anyone to play, but if you want to there’s no shortage of chances at all.

My experience there is different from some on here* in that I’ve met loads of bi people there, and I value it as an explicitly bi place where being into multiple genders is the norm.

That’s rare around S Wales.

*I know my experience is different cos I’m a man, and don’t have to contend with being followed around by voiceless, desperate, sausage party dudes.

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By *live and PopeyesCouple
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

It’s so simple if a guy comes up wants some fun just ask them if they say there not bi tell them no thanks

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By *icVersaMan
13 weeks ago

Cardiff


"Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore. "

Can you recommend other good bi nights elsewhere when you have time?

I like them for the same reason.

It’s rare for bi play for men to be the norm.

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By *innsMan
13 weeks ago

Swansea

I always thought greenhouse on a sat night was bi friendly not bi oh well I live and learn

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By *ransManFTMTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Cardiff


"I always thought greenhouse on a sat night was bi friendly not bi oh well I live and learn "

More straight friendly if anything

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By *enuine Welsh GentMan
13 weeks ago

Newport

I normally go Saturday afternoon. Had some great experiences, shame couples don't go early in the day. Happy to meet there

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
13 weeks ago

Swansea


"I normally go Saturday afternoon. Had some great experiences, shame couples don't go early in the day. Happy to meet there"

A lot do not know it's open to couples in afternoon

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By *achael48cdTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Cardiff

I haven’t been for a while, but most males that I saw were definitely bi. Do many attend these days? Thinking of a Saturday there soon xxx

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By *enuine Welsh GentMan
13 weeks ago

Newport


"I normally go Saturday afternoon. Had some great experiences, shame couples don't go early in the day. Happy to meet there

A lot do not know it's open to couples in afternoon "

Yes, think you're right there's some confusion over who can attend

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By *pples123456Man
13 weeks ago

Cardiff


"Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore. "

Totally agree they should change it back to a chameleons night but their bi model as they do in dalerston on a Monday.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
13 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore.

Totally agree they should change it back to a chameleons night but their bi model as they do in dalerston on a Monday."

Won't that entail a membership and a bit of a fee increase if chams take over Saturday?

Like someone said, Saturday is a bit more of a budget friendly option I believe

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By *pples123456Man
13 weeks ago

Cardiff


"Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore.

Totally agree they should change it back to a chameleons night but their bi model as they do in dalerston on a Monday.

Won't that entail a membership and a bit of a fee increase if chams take over Saturday?

Like someone said, Saturday is a bit more of a budget friendly option I believe "

If you already have a membership can still used just that single man can obtain a bi only membership and can only be used on bi events. The membership is much cheaper then a normal single membership.

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By * and R cple4Couple
13 weeks ago

swansea


"Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore.

Totally agree they should change it back to a chameleons night but their bi model as they do in dalerston on a Monday.

Won't that entail a membership and a bit of a fee increase if chams take over Saturday?

Like someone said, Saturday is a bit more of a budget friendly option I believe

If you already have a membership can still used just that single man can obtain a bi only membership and can only be used on bi events. The membership is much cheaper then a normal single membership. "

We love a bi day/night at chams in Darlaston and we've never had no issues there. Single men do need a bi membership and it's not as expensive as the normal membership not sure on the price tho you would probably have to ring the club to find out.

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By *nickers40TV/TS
13 weeks ago

newport

If I go Saturday night and dress up does anyone think I’ll have much luck x pm me x

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13 weeks ago


"Perhaps there should be an assessment of single guys at the entrance. Get everyone to suck a cock before getting in !"

That should sort them out. Lol

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By *iBloomCouple
13 weeks ago

Carmarthen


"Some of the straight guys there are with their bi wives/gfs, and that’s gotta be ok as well.

This is the only part of your post I don't agree with, You can attend any club any day of week and see women with other women and noone bats a eye. Unless it's a specific bi night I've never seen men with other men.

A bi night should be just that everyone no matter your sex should be bi their is a stigma for whatever reason with bi men and that's why everyone should feel comfortable and safe in a non judgemental environment which is why we tend to travel around and attend bi events.

Let's be honest even calling Newport on a Saturday a bi night is a joke, it's a cheaper alternative as theirs no membership to pay their entry fee and hope they get lucky.

We used to enjoy a Saturday but it's definitely not very bi or bi friendly anymore. "

Totally agree with this, it's such a shame!

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By *nickers40TV/TS
13 weeks ago

newport

What’s the best thing to wear I’m such a naughty slut at times

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