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"We’ve had this happen a number of times also " It gets your hopes up especially when the chat is going well. | |||
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"Yep, its just the dynamic of the site sadly " Yup | |||
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"We’ve learnt to accept things as they are and if they to progress they will " I accept it just happen so often. Plus nothing you can do about it anyway | |||
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"Think it can go 2 ways tbh those who want to build a connection before commiting to meet so there will be a lot of messages back n forth. And those who just want a quick meet ( fuck n go type ) so will be small amount of interaction. Either way they both have the right to end communication as and when they feel. I don't take it personally tbh its part of being on a this site. " I would say they are long conversation I am talking about can be days | |||
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"Think it can go 2 ways tbh those who want to build a connection before commiting to meet so there will be a lot of messages back n forth. And those who just want a quick meet ( fuck n go type ) so will be small amount of interaction. Either way they both have the right to end communication as and when they feel. I don't take it personally tbh its part of being on a this site. I would say they are long conversation I am talking about can be days " Days is not a long conversation as far as I’m concerned. There are some profiles that I’ve chatted with for weeks and even months before an opportunity to meet has come around. Nobody is obliged to continue with a conversation if they don’t feel like it | |||
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"Think it can go 2 ways tbh those who want to build a connection before commiting to meet so there will be a lot of messages back n forth. And those who just want a quick meet ( fuck n go type ) so will be small amount of interaction. Either way they both have the right to end communication as and when they feel. I don't take it personally tbh its part of being on a this site. I would say they are long conversation I am talking about can be days Days is not a long conversation as far as I’m concerned. There are some profiles that I’ve chatted with for weeks and even months before an opportunity to meet has come around. Nobody is obliged to continue with a conversation if they don’t feel like it" When I say days I mean all night for a couple of days talking about a meet then they block or delete profile. I said nothing about obligations. | |||
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"Think it can go 2 ways tbh those who want to build a connection before commiting to meet so there will be a lot of messages back n forth. And those who just want a quick meet ( fuck n go type ) so will be small amount of interaction. Either way they both have the right to end communication as and when they feel. I don't take it personally tbh its part of being on a this site. I would say they are long conversation I am talking about can be days Days is not a long conversation as far as I’m concerned. There are some profiles that I’ve chatted with for weeks and even months before an opportunity to meet has come around. Nobody is obliged to continue with a conversation if they don’t feel like it When I say days I mean all night for a couple of days talking about a meet then they block or delete profile. I said nothing about obligations. " My point was, length of time spent on a conversation doesn’t entitle you to anything at all. People are well within their rights to cut contact at a time of their choosing for reasons of their choosing on here. If that upsets you I would suggest that this platform or lifestyle isn’t for you | |||
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"I think what guys need to understand/come to terms with is that girls control who has sex. Especially single girls in their 20s they have the most options, so if your massaging back an fo and all of a sudden they stopped, chances are they've found an ick something they don't like and moved on. Had this resantly and was abit disappointed as we got on really well. I think the least amount of massages a girl showed me that they had was 300 in a day ish so us men have competition. Its all about standing out, girls know when your not putting any effort in and normally don't respond. " This right here | |||
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"Think it can go 2 ways tbh those who want to build a connection before commiting to meet so there will be a lot of messages back n forth. And those who just want a quick meet ( fuck n go type ) so will be small amount of interaction. Either way they both have the right to end communication as and when they feel. I don't take it personally tbh its part of being on a this site. I would say they are long conversation I am talking about can be days Days is not a long conversation as far as I’m concerned. There are some profiles that I’ve chatted with for weeks and even months before an opportunity to meet has come around. Nobody is obliged to continue with a conversation if they don’t feel like it When I say days I mean all night for a couple of days talking about a meet then they block or delete profile. I said nothing about obligations. My point was, length of time spent on a conversation doesn’t entitle you to anything at all. People are well within their rights to cut contact at a time of their choosing for reasons of their choosing on here. If that upsets you I would suggest that this platform or lifestyle isn’t for you " Who said it upset me ? | |||
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"Think it can go 2 ways tbh those who want to build a connection before commiting to meet so there will be a lot of messages back n forth. And those who just want a quick meet ( fuck n go type ) so will be small amount of interaction. Either way they both have the right to end communication as and when they feel. I don't take it personally tbh its part of being on a this site. I would say they are long conversation I am talking about can be days Days is not a long conversation as far as I’m concerned. There are some profiles that I’ve chatted with for weeks and even months before an opportunity to meet has come around. Nobody is obliged to continue with a conversation if they don’t feel like it When I say days I mean all night for a couple of days talking about a meet then they block or delete profile. I said nothing about obligations. My point was, length of time spent on a conversation doesn’t entitle you to anything at all. People are well within their rights to cut contact at a time of their choosing for reasons of their choosing on here. If that upsets you I would suggest that this platform or lifestyle isn’t for you Who said it upset me ?" Well it bothered you enough to create a forum thread about it…. | |||
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"Think it can go 2 ways tbh those who want to build a connection before commiting to meet so there will be a lot of messages back n forth. And those who just want a quick meet ( fuck n go type ) so will be small amount of interaction. Either way they both have the right to end communication as and when they feel. I don't take it personally tbh its part of being on a this site. I would say they are long conversation I am talking about can be days Days is not a long conversation as far as I’m concerned. There are some profiles that I’ve chatted with for weeks and even months before an opportunity to meet has come around. Nobody is obliged to continue with a conversation if they don’t feel like it When I say days I mean all night for a couple of days talking about a meet then they block or delete profile. I said nothing about obligations. My point was, length of time spent on a conversation doesn’t entitle you to anything at all. People are well within their rights to cut contact at a time of their choosing for reasons of their choosing on here. If that upsets you I would suggest that this platform or lifestyle isn’t for you Who said it upset me ? Well it bothered you enough to create a forum thread about it…." Well I did not know forums was for moaning always someone got to put a negative on it | |||
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"Genuine question, no shade. What were you hoping to get from this discussion?" Nothing really it's just that a discussion. Nothing to gain and can't do anything about it to be fair. | |||
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"We don't get messages lol" Lol | |||
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"I don't think it's a case of being all talk, sometimes people just want to chat and swapping photos and becoming friends on here doesn't mean it's going anywhere. At the end of the day there's lots of people on here and the only way to really catch someone's attention is to go to parties and socials. " I agree in some of what you are saying. Parties are the way of fab these days. I have no problem with just chat and maybe swap some photos. There are a lot of false people on here and they is what I mean by all talk and that do not refer to everyone. | |||
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"I don't think it's a case of being all talk, sometimes people just want to chat and swapping photos and becoming friends on here doesn't mean it's going anywhere. At the end of the day there's lots of people on here and the only way to really catch someone's attention is to go to parties and socials. I agree in some of what you are saying. Parties are the way of fab these days. I have no problem with just chat and maybe swap some photos. There are a lot of false people on here and they is what I mean by all talk and that do not refer to everyone." Simple way around the fakes is only talk with people that have been here a while and have meet veris from others that are well verified | |||
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"It happens... just have to dust off and move on. It's one of the reasons Fab isn't for everyone, it can be crippling for your self esteem if you take rejection to heart." It deffo don't stop me being here I expect it. I know if things are looking good it's usually isn't. | |||
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