FabSwingers.com forum: How to be eye-catching

By *heWelshMan1 OP Man
28 weeks ago

Cardiff

Any ideas on how to stand out?

Any ideas on what to message someone?

I always just say hey or hello but never gets me anywhere

By *iscean_dreamMan
28 weeks ago

Llanelli

"Any ideas on how to stand out?

Any ideas on what to message someone?

I always just say hey or hello but never gets me anywhere "

Saying just hey or hello will cause eye rolling, my fwb never replies to anyone that puts that little effort into a message.

It's really easy to send a message and ask a question or give a nice compliment.

By *iscean_dreamMan
28 weeks ago

Llanelli

"I have also tried that but either gets ignored, read or deleted"

Then those people aren't interested, your profile needs a lot of work and that won't help you.

By *issing DoryCouple
28 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

"Any ideas on how to stand out?

Any ideas on what to message someone?

I always just say hey or hello but never gets me anywhere "

Hey/hello etc messages show no real effort was made. We always replied to people who read our profile and showed it. E.g. they were the age we were looking for, they'd commented about something in our profile etc.

Go to group socials there are loads on in the South/west Wales area. Get your personality shown and people will verify you. A lot of people only play with people they've met at socials and clubs etc.

Do some other photos. Your profile needs updating. It reads like a teenager and not a man starting the swinging lifestyle.

Good luck op

Dory