FabSwingers.com forum: Things that just put you off a profile

By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

I know that we are all looking for different things here, but what have you read on a profile that would put you off (say responding to a message) that other people may actually look for?

I'll start:

1. Heavy cummer

2. Alpha male

3. Not looking for friends, just fun

4. Guaranteed to make you squirt

Bev x

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By *idlaldiMan
43 weeks ago

bridgend

Wont meet over 50s lol

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By *ust Us TogetherCouple
43 weeks ago

Newport

# Can eat pussy for hours..

# Been here many times before so know the score..

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By *heoriginalCJMan
43 weeks ago

mystic valley

1. Been on over a year with no pictures

2. Over a year with no veris

3. Will fill in later as bio

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By *ommy trucker1Man
43 weeks ago

south wales

Blank profiles ?

No pic

No write up

No Interests

So basically a blank profile ?

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"Wont meet over 50s lol"

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By *ommy trucker1Man
43 weeks ago

south wales

"Wont meet over 50s lol

Thank god I'm not 50 yet lol

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"# Can eat pussy for hours..

# Been here many times before so know the score.."

I actually had a message this morning stating they could eat pussy for hours and was very talented with his tongue

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"1. Been on over a year with no pictures

2. Over a year with no veris

3. Will fill in later as bio"

These profiles definitely don't get a response!

We've blocked accounts with no public pics from messaging us & it's surprising how many get around this by making 1 pic public for the amount of time it takes to click send!

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"Blank profiles ?

No pic

No write up

No Interests

So basically a blank profile ?"

Yep, don't bother with these ones ever!

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"Wont meet over 50s lol

Thank god I'm not 50 yet lol"

Well I am!

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By *ommy trucker1Man
43 weeks ago

south wales

"Wont meet over 50s lol

Thank god I'm not 50 yet lol

Well I am!"

So do you play with under 50s then ??

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By *ory_xWoman
43 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

1. Profile pic is their cock

2. Only or mostly cock pics in their gallery

3. No bio

4. Silhouette profile pic

5. No veris after being on site for a long time

6. Text speak in bio

I could go on and on

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By *alloSpaceboyMan
43 weeks ago

Carmarthen

A profile bio that reads like the Constitution of the United States. Such a chore and boring to read although I appreciate the need to set boundaries and expectations.

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By *mber and FireCouple
43 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

Genuine. Professional. Fun.

Overuse of buzz words that mean nothing and no personality put into their profile whatsoever. Doesn't need to be long, just something that actually shows a little personality.

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By *ardigan SpiceWoman
43 weeks ago

Cardigan/Aberystwyth

Vile status updates.

The University of Sydney or Facebook is now a public entity speech.

No profile picture and all friends only photos.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
43 weeks ago

Llanelli

No public photos.

Looking for hung only.

Boring bio after being on for a while.

Cheating.

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By *hewankinmanMan
43 weeks ago

wales

Straight

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.

1. Married playing away.

2. Alpha,Dom,hung,daddy,bull.

3. Heavy cummer's. Just equals more mess.

4.arrogant, full of themselves in messages like being the best fuck I will ever have ect.

We prefer people who are grounded and not gym bunnies as that is something we both aren't.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Also guys need to get fully bi which most seem to miss as they have not even read our profile

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"1. Profile pic is their cock

2. Only or mostly cock pics in their gallery

3. No bio

4. Silhouette profile pic

5. No veris after being on site for a long time

6. Text speak in bio

I could go on and on

Yep, all of the above!

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"A profile bio that reads like the Constitution of the United States. Such a chore and boring to read although I appreciate the need to set boundaries and expectations."

Probably wouldn't be a fan of ours then

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"Genuine. Professional. Fun.

Overuse of buzz words that mean nothing and no personality put into their profile whatsoever. Doesn't need to be long, just something that actually shows a little personality."

Haha, yes! Particularly the professional one

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"Vile status updates.

The University of Sydney or Facebook is now a public entity speech.

No profile picture and all friends only photos. "

Vile status updates are reason enough to block!

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"Straight "

Fair

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By *issing DoryCouple
43 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

Crude statuses. Or the statuses where they've lost their temper as they've tried to use a swingers site as instafuck, and it obviously hasn't gone well

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"No public photos.

Looking for hung only.

Boring bio after being on for a while.

Cheating.

The no public pics baffles me. Why would anyone message/reply to a message from a silhouette

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple
43 weeks ago

cardiff

"1. Married playing away.

2. Alpha,Dom,hung,daddy,bull.

3. Heavy cummer's. Just equals more mess.

4.arrogant, full of themselves in messages like being the best fuck I will ever have ect.

We prefer people who are grounded and not gym bunnies as that is something we both aren't."

100% with you on all of the above!

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By *issing DoryCouple
43 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way

One from a DM today which is very offputting:

Acrobatic with my tongue!!

I'm super Fucking hung

Blush, crush

Say my name but don't rush

Light me up with your touch

Let's get weird, I don't judge

Drugs, buzz

Destitute when I'm cussed

Good at getting you numb

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By *iscean_dreamMan
43 weeks ago

Llanelli

"No public photos.

Looking for hung only.

Boring bio after being on for a while.

Cheating.

The no public pics baffles me. Why would anyone message/reply to a message from a silhouette "

Exactly, if they message me and send photos then I might reply

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By *unnybunsWoman
43 weeks ago

Between here and over there

"Crude statuses. Or the statuses where they've lost their temper as they've tried to use a swingers site as instafuck, and it obviously hasn't gone well

This crude statuses like I want to empty my balls or I’m ready to burst…:. Form a queue ladies

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By *ltmeeMan
43 weeks ago

Everywhere & Nowhere Baby

Think I've avoided all these traits so far.

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By *alleysBoiMan
43 weeks ago

Newbridge

1. Looking for BBC

2. Face pic in first message (even though they have no profile pic or public ones)

3.Been here before please verify me/us

4. We love bareback

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By *ommy2125Man
43 weeks ago

newport

1. Shy- then check pics of them naked/ or videos of them fucking

2. Discretion needed for work- grrr doesn't stop you adding some information.

3. Massive lists of prerequisite requirements- just delete the ones you don't want

4.the disclaimer thing at the bottom- honestly.

5. Blank profiles, with no profile pic at all, just put up a picture of a cat or something!!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
43 weeks ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Endless dick pics from every angle - it doesn't look any bigger from any of them

Fill this in later - user has been on since the dawn of time

Looking for 18-99 - so literally you'll fuck anything then

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By *atrick SwanseaMan
43 weeks ago

Swansea

Wouldn’t have said 18-99 means you will fuck anything. Just means that age doesn’t bother you

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By *elshcouple18Couple
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

Lazy profiles, no bio or public pics. Bull dom heavy Cummer in bio, messy backgrounds.. etc

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
43 weeks ago

Newport

Omg yes to all of these!

It doesn't take a lot of time or effort to have at least a little something on your profile.

And agree with no photos or veris after being on the site for a while. Like, what gives?

And the people who put the "it's a publicly traded entity...you have no authority to use my pics" I just assume dont know how the Internet works. Hahah

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
43 weeks ago

N wales & west mids

Extreme gynaecological close up pictures

Less is more...... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I can’t moan,my profile is awful hahahha

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By *lex CoxMan
43 weeks ago

Porth

"I know that we are all looking for different things here, but what have you read on a profile that would put you off (say responding to a message) that other people may actually look for?

I'll start:

1. Heavy cummer

2. Alpha male

3. Not looking for friends, just fun

4. Guaranteed to make you squirt

Bev x

1. Profiles with somewhere near you or something like that.

2. Hung.

3. Anus pics. Ughh.

4. No pics at all.

5. Alpha Male

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

• unclean bums: if you want to show the world your pie hole then for the love of god wipe it

• relentless lists of negatives: I dont want, I dont want, I don’t want. Cool…what do you want though? I suspect their letters to Santa were something

• close up genital shots and nothing else

• unclean genitals: literally vom

• use of the word “juicy” to describe your cock or vag

• professional: professional what? This is a swinging site not LinkedIn

• no photos on profile but demanding photos to open conversation.

• cannot accom and cannot travel…where are you having sex then? A parallel dimension?

• blurry photos from decades ago. Come on guys this isn’t back to the future

• athletic… what? Like a shot putter?

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By *rolicerMan
43 weeks ago

Abergele

Those with disclaimers in their profile, threatening to sue, lol, right.

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By *eanneCouple
43 weeks ago

Gwynedd

Yes to all of these.

Thanks for starting this conversation - glad it isn’t just us that do this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

The phrase “clean up”, messy rooms in pictures and vulgar language.

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By *3xymamaWoman
43 weeks ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"• unclean bums: if you want to show the world your pie hole then for the love of god wipe it

• relentless lists of negatives: I dont want, I dont want, I don’t want. Cool…what do you want though? I suspect their letters to Santa were something

• close up genital shots and nothing else

• unclean genitals: literally vom

• use of the word “juicy” to describe your cock or vag

• professional: professional what? This is a swinging site not LinkedIn

• no photos on profile but demanding photos to open conversation.

• cannot accom and cannot travel…where are you having sex then? A parallel dimension?

• blurry photos from decades ago. Come on guys this isn’t back to the future

• athletic… what? Like a shot putter?

This ^^^ the unclean pics really make me vom

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By *imply mikeMan
43 weeks ago

Barry

Think I may need to update my pics.

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By *coutDWoman
43 weeks ago

Pontypridd

"I can’t moan,my profile is awful hahahha"

It's not awful. I mean you could say more but it's not got negative vibes

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By *coutDWoman
43 weeks ago

Pontypridd

2. Face pic in first message (even though they have no profile pic or public ones)

Totally can't understand this but so many do it.

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By *trueceltMan
43 weeks ago

Brynamman

I'm always amazed people are able to take such clear close-up photos of their anus. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to infer from seeing their starfish anyway? Instant close snd if it's particularly gross, block so I don't have to risk seeing it again.

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By *gainagainMan
42 weeks ago

pontypridd

420.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Incorrect use of your/you're

If (your) profile demonstrates this, then (you're) going to lose points from me

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By *ips of a witchWoman
42 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Sticking their tongue out in their face pics, although I see that more on the dating apps than here to be honest. It still puts me right off though

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By *oby le roneMan
42 weeks ago

Treorchy

"Sticking their tongue out in their face pics, although I see that more on the dating apps than here to be honest. It still puts me right off though"

This. Puts me right off someone

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

“No photos due to professional job”

Alright Rishi Sunak

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Sticking their tongue out in their face pics, although I see that more on the dating apps than here to be honest. It still puts me right off though

This. Puts me right off someone

I 3rd this!

I thought I was being weird but a photo with a tongue out is massive turn off.

(I can touch then end of my nose with my tongue but almost nobody has see it

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By *riendzonedMan
42 weeks ago

cardiff / london

Well said.

Literally nothing about their personality or what they actually want. I’ve had a more interesting reports from the MOT station.

In so glad LinkedIn in has a ban against starfish profile pics

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By *ohnny DelusionalMan
42 weeks ago

Swansea

Animal ears, noses etc on pics. Yes it's 2024 and some are still doing it. You aren't 12, so stop it.

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By *aigressMan
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

"“No photos due to professional job”

Alright Rishi Sunak

Hahahaha made me chuckle

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By *aigressMan
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

Tbh mist profiles don't really give you much to go on.

But I never understand people who don't put anything.. and then get the hump (or rather dont)

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

Yes to so many of these

Big no for me from people who say they're only looking for people 'BIOLOGICALLY' female or male and people discriminating against different races and body types

Men trying to show their 'dominance' and alpha males *projectile vomit*

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
42 weeks ago

All over the place

"Animal ears, noses etc on pics. Yes it's 2024 and some are still doing it. You aren't 12, so stop it."
Agree with this 100%

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By *ortney CocksWoman
42 weeks ago

Mostly cheaters

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By *adyinred696969Couple
42 weeks ago

Brecon

Any "420" or other references.

Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.

No pics.

Brief or non-existent bio.

Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine.

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Any "420" or other references.

Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.

No pics.

Brief or non-existent bio.

Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine."

I get this, I do have a few hidden veris because some of them used my name and others have since left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"Any "420" or other references.

Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.

No pics.

Brief or non-existent bio.

Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine."

My veris aren’t hidden, just that the people who left them closed their accounts and are no longer on the site. At that point they disappear. Which is very frustrating

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
41 weeks ago

Neath valley.

"Any "420" or other references.

Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.

No pics.

Brief or non-existent bio.

Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine."

But there again mart we don't show ours all the time as who we play with is our business. Last thing anyone wants is being bothered by someone who reads other peoples veris on your profile and message you hoping they get a Shag off it. There are two sides of the coin when you show veris. Shows you are genuine but opens up to being abused also.

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By *uicy PumpkinWoman
41 weeks ago

Narberth

"A profile bio that reads like the Constitution of the United States. Such a chore and boring to read although I appreciate the need to set boundaries and expectations.

Probably wouldn't be a fan of ours then

Haha nor mine.

Long constitution profile bios are such a turn on for me. I want confidence and clarity.

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By *antasycouple31Couple
40 weeks ago

Between Pontarddulias and Gorseinon

So many true comments!

To add to the list;

Arrogance

Expectation to meet very quickly and fuck because they get bored easily

People who arnt safe sex

Gym fit types

Poor grammar and text speak

Generic info in their profile

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By *ilentrunningMan
40 weeks ago

Cardiff/Reading/Liverpool &more

Profiles that are just entirely negative and full of “won’t meet” statements.

Those without any pics that demand face pic in first message

Hidden verification summaries

Awful spelling/grammar

Pics showing that they live in a shit tip!

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By *ortney CocksWoman
40 weeks ago

I once so someone’s profile with period play pics on it that put me off a lot (it’s a step to far) but was glad when fab removed the pics I still can’t get that image out of my head

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By *heExcommMan
40 weeks ago

Llantrisant

People who have sexy, alpha, beautiful, ect. as their profile names.

Dunno why, but makes me feel that they'll be a bit self centered and I don't mess with that

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By *heExcommMan
40 weeks ago

Llantrisant

"Profiles that are just entirely negative and full of “won’t meet” statements.

Those without any pics that demand face pic in first message

Hidden verification summaries

Awful spelling/grammar

Pics showing that they live in a shit tip!"

Or those that won't send a face pic until you send a face pic, even though you asked for a face pic first

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By *atrick SwanseaMan
40 weeks ago

Swansea

War and peace on a profile …

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By * and R cple4Couple
40 weeks ago

swansea

Profile names like cervix basher etc.

Status updates full of drama and aimed at people.

Dom or alpha male.

Constant references to dick size.

Gaping ass hole pics that put you off your food..

Dick pics over a toilet even worse if it's a dirty toilet..

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
40 weeks ago

Cardiff

I always feel like the people who put 'no drama' in their bios are the people who cause all the drama

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By *eanneCouple
40 weeks ago

Gwynedd

Silhouette profiles are a no go for us

Also dick as a profile pic

I prefer men in boxers - keeps my imagination going.

Nothing worse also is seeing men slating women on their status

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Long lists of rules they want you to comply with, but also state they will do what they want regardless.

Cba!

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

"I always feel like the people who put 'no drama' in their bios are the people who cause all the drama "

So true!

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By *arberellasswimsuitCouple
40 weeks ago

hengoed

Just dick pics picture of cum . Alpha . Daddy .dom heavy cummer/big loads .we meet separately .long list of rules and just narcissistic women as we are layed back honest this just seems like a whole lot of trouble if you can't be chill its a no !

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