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By *uckypup69 OP   Man
45 weeks ago

Newport

Looking to go to newport chams as a single guy when is the best time / date to go also if any one is going would love to tag along

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
45 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Phone before you go as single guys are full at the moment.

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By *ubyRichardsWoman
45 weeks ago

swansea

If you don’t have membership it’s bi-night on Saturdays.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
45 weeks ago

mystic valley


"Looking to go to newport chams as a single guy when is the best time / date to go also if any one is going would love to tag along "

I'd suggest calling the club before hand if you plan going on a Friday.

I don't see a woman taking you with them unless you've met previously.

Unfortunately you have to bite the bullet and go.

You may be lucky and get in as a guest at £50 or end up having to join as a single guy which including entry is £105

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I hate to say it but that just ruins it for new comers if you ask me, always wanted to come. But he’ll of a risk for £50 when you might have a quiet night in there. 105 for membership is this for the year and you have free entry all year or is it just a sign up fee?

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By *heoriginalCJMan
45 weeks ago

mystic valley


"I hate to say it but that just ruins it for new comers if you ask me, always wanted to come. But he’ll of a risk for £50 when you might have a quiet night in there. 105 for membership is this for the year and you have free entry all year or is it just a sign up fee? "

Risk if its a quiet night ? Clubs are by design a place for people to meet others that enjoy the same lifestyle. If it's quiet or not, you can still have a great night talking to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Yeah but no need to try disregard my point, it’s only a point of opinion I’m making. I know you’re doing the same but hasn’t really helped me. Still woukd be disappointed if I paid £50 for a quiet nigjt, maybe they don’t want more custom. But i think if it was more fair priced for people then people would be more interested in going. And again just an opinion. I’m sure there’s many different views on this x

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By *heoriginalCJMan
45 weeks ago

mystic valley


"Yeah but no need to try disregard my point, it’s only a point of opinion I’m making. I know you’re doing the same but hasn’t really helped me. Still woukd be disappointed if I paid £50 for a quiet nigjt, maybe they don’t want more custom. But i think if it was more fair priced for people then people would be more interested in going. And again just an opinion. I’m sure there’s many different views on this x"

I agree, however it's the same in the club scene as on here, that single guys are abundant.

The way I look at it is that if I was running a business I'd want to capitalise on the most abundant revenue stream, and unfortunately that means single guys pay more than others.

Look at this another way, if you went into town clubbing, would you spend more than 50 quid in one night at todays prices ?

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By *WB1984Man
45 weeks ago

Cwmbran

You would absolutely pay more than £50.

Besides, in what other club could you relax in the hot tub, open your pores in the steam room, or swing with gay abandonment on multiple swings?!

You can snack and converse at the bar, and oh also if you get tired, there are literally dozens of rooms with beds.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

You both are doing a great job at getting me down there, it’s just so hard for first time people because I don’t want it to be a shit experience for my first time then turned off by clubs, I know there’s not much we can do about that, but that’s my only input that I would come all the way down and there be no fun for me, yeah a chat at a bar is good but you can do that at most places. But I do understand it’s a bit different there and I just hope if I did attend there would be something there for me. But again not much we can do about that is there. So is events mainly for members only, I would only probably look to come to an event see to ensure there was a good amount of people.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
45 weeks ago

mystic valley


"You both are doing a great job at getting me down there, it’s just so hard for first time people because I don’t want it to be a shit experience for my first time then turned off by clubs, I know there’s not much we can do about that, but that’s my only input that I would come all the way down and there be no fun for me, yeah a chat at a bar is good but you can do that at most places. But I do understand it’s a bit different there and I just hope if I did attend there would be something there for me. But again not much we can do about that is there. So is events mainly for members only, I would only probably look to come to an event see to ensure there was a good amount of people. "

Put your name down for the bbw event. No membership required then and you still have to pay guest price but I garuntee the place will be packed as its very popular

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By *WB1984Man
45 weeks ago

Cwmbran

I am four thousand percent positive the club is not the place for you.

If your expectation is to get laid, maybe a sex worker would be more your thing?

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By *nicornC89Woman
45 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire


"I am four thousand percent positive the club is not the place for you.

If your expectation is to get laid, maybe a sex worker would be more your thing? "

My thoughts exactly

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
45 weeks ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

My first time at Newport was shit but the second wasn't, third time got better and well 11 yrs later it still can be hit and miss as times but I still get to meet people that are like-minded and enjoy having a good time.

Yes the price is a little high but it does sort the wheat from the chaff to an extent.

Ps BBW list is closed due to high response and reserve list only now

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Maybe I do have the wrong fame of mind for a club, but again I’ve never been or spoke to anyone who goes so I really don’t understand the dynamic, but now I feel disappointed about the whole experience being told it’s not for me. I mean it is to meet more like minded people, but the whole excitement of it is more sexual adventure, I can get laid and I can p4y for sex, but it’s not the same, I would prefer to find a good connection or have good chat with people for sure. Just obviously I 100% had the fame of mind that people went there to meet people and have sexual encounters. I can see now how that must be wrong if you both so I’ll take your word. I do love me a bbw too, maybe I will attend and just be a fly on the wall so I don’t do anything wrong like I feel like I’ve done on this forum ahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Also thank you for the help and info! Much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Not my fault my sex drive is through the roof and would love to have fun at a club ahaha

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By * and R cple4Couple
45 weeks ago

swansea


"Maybe I do have the wrong fame of mind for a club, but again I’ve never been or spoke to anyone who goes so I really don’t understand the dynamic, but now I feel disappointed about the whole experience being told it’s not for me. I mean it is to meet more like minded people, but the whole excitement of it is more sexual adventure, I can get laid and I can p4y for sex, but it’s not the same, I would prefer to find a good connection or have good chat with people for sure. Just obviously I 100% had the fame of mind that people went there to meet people and have sexual encounters. I can see now how that must be wrong if you both so I’ll take your word. I do love me a bbw too, maybe I will attend and just be a fly on the wall so I don’t do anything wrong like I feel like I’ve done on this forum ahaha "
This can be quite confusing and I'm constantly getting it wrong myself .. Fridays is Chams which is membership only and can be quite expensive if you've never been to a club before and are not sure if you will enjoy.

Saturday it's the greenhouse which is cheaper (not sure on single men price) but it's non membership and it's open to anyone that is bi/bi friendly then rest of the week it's the greenhouse and it's a gay sauna.

We are members but we prefer Saturdays it's just our personal preference.Just look at it as having a nice night out chatting to like minded people and getting to know people and anything else is a added bonus..

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
45 weeks ago

Neath valley.

When you attend a club you are promised nothing other than you will mingle with people after the same thing. The problem is some guys have in clubs and on here think they payed their money and are now guaranteed as sex. We all know that's the case. We don't play in clubs but use clubs for connections and a few weeks met at Newport we have played with outside of the club. You have to have an open mind and no expectations when you go to clubs. Joanne.

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By * and R cple4Couple
45 weeks ago

swansea


"Also thank you for the help and info! Much appreciated x"
Cj has a great post about single men in clubs that pretty much covers everything. You should take a look..

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
45 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"Maybe I do have the wrong fame of mind for a club, but again I’ve never been or spoke to anyone who goes so I really don’t understand the dynamic, but now I feel disappointed about the whole experience being told it’s not for me. I mean it is to meet more like minded people, but the whole excitement of it is more sexual adventure, I can get laid and I can p4y for sex, but it’s not the same, I would prefer to find a good connection or have good chat with people for sure. Just obviously I 100% had the fame of mind that people went there to meet people and have sexual encounters. I can see now how that must be wrong if you both so I’ll take your word. I do love me a bbw too, maybe I will attend and just be a fly on the wall so I don’t do anything wrong like I feel like I’ve done on this forum ahaha This can be quite confusing and I'm constantly getting it wrong myself .. Fridays is Chams which is membership only and can be quite expensive if you've never been to a club before and are not sure if you will enjoy.

Saturday it's the greenhouse which is cheaper (not sure on single men price) but it's non membership and it's open to anyone that is bi/bi friendly then rest of the week it's the greenhouse and it's a gay sauna.

We are members but we prefer Saturdays it's just our personal preference.Just look at it as having a nice night out chatting to like minded people and getting to know people and anything else is a added bonus..

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Agree . you are getting good advice here OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

Thanks everyone really helpful appreciate the friendly response and I didn’t want to come across as someone who thinks there’s a guaranteed chance of sexual experience at the club because I didn’t stand I’m not special and everyone could say no and I’m happy with that, I was just looking to learn some more about what goes on I guess. Thank you all again hopefully we bump into each other there sometime

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By *andy CanesWoman
43 weeks ago

candy cane lane


"I am four thousand percent positive the club is not the place for you.

If your expectation is to get laid, maybe a sex worker would be more your thing? "

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By *ogerBottomsMan
43 weeks ago

Aberdare


"Risk if its a quiet night ? Clubs are by design a place for people to meet others that enjoy the same lifestyle. If it's quiet or not, you can still have a great night talking to others."

I think a lot of guys view clubs as places where they're entitled to sex because they've paid to get in. Which is a total misunderstanding of how it all works.

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By *JandJJCouple
43 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"You both are doing a great job at getting me down there, it’s just so hard for first time people because I don’t want it to be a shit experience for my first time then turned off by clubs, I know there’s not much we can do about that, but that’s my only input that I would come all the way down and there be no fun for me, yeah a chat at a bar is good but you can do that at most places. But I do understand it’s a bit different there and I just hope if I did attend there would be something there for me. But again not much we can do about that is there. So is events mainly for members only, I would only probably look to come to an event see to ensure there was a good amount of people. "

Are you hoping to get sex??

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By *JandJJCouple
43 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"Risk if its a quiet night ? Clubs are by design a place for people to meet others that enjoy the same lifestyle. If it's quiet or not, you can still have a great night talking to others.

I think a lot of guys view clubs as places where they're entitled to sex because they've paid to get in. Which is a total misunderstanding of how it all works. "

Absolutely spot on.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
43 weeks ago

Aberdare


"Absolutely spot on. "

Treating it like taking a ticket at the deli counter and waiting for their number to be called.

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By *arriet54Woman
43 weeks ago

Newport


"Looking to go to newport chams as a single guy when is the best time / date to go also if any one is going would love to tag along "

I've got stung on this one, offered to take a newbie,I paid to get in and he thought much like most do he would rock up and choose who he wanted! It's important to make connections, at least try and chat to a person that takes your fancy! You expect, you don't get...

Maybe in your case find a person you like first, then go together rather than asking a stranger?

Just my thoughts....

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By *ogerBottomsMan
43 weeks ago

Aberdare


"I've got stung on this one, offered to take a newbie,I paid to get in and he thought much like most do he would rock up and choose who he wanted! "

Oh dear, you paid? He should have paid. It would still have been cheaper than going in by himself. And he should have made sure you were looked after.

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By *arriet54Woman
43 weeks ago

Newport


"I've got stung on this one, offered to take a newbie,I paid to get in and he thought much like most do he would rock up and choose who he wanted!

Oh dear, you paid? He should have paid. It would still have been cheaper than going in by himself. And he should have made sure you were looked after. "

Yeah, was trying to help someone out, won't happen again!

Learnt a lot since being here..

Its not instafuck, swinging is a lifestyle where respect is everything..

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
43 weeks ago

Swansea


"You both are doing a great job at getting me down there, it’s just so hard for first time people because I don’t want it to be a shit experience for my first time then turned off by clubs, I know there’s not much we can do about that, but that’s my only input that I would come all the way down and there be no fun for me, yeah a chat at a bar is good but you can do that at most places. But I do understand it’s a bit different there and I just hope if I did attend there would be something there for me. But again not much we can do about that is there. So is events mainly for members only, I would only probably look to come to an event see to ensure there was a good amount of people.

Put your name down for the bbw event. No membership required then and you still have to pay guest price but I garuntee the place will be packed as its very popular "

If you do manage to get admission (how ever way) remember it does not grantee you get to play with anyone.

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By *he tunnelsCouple
43 weeks ago

newport

And don’t follow couples around expecting to play , social skills and manners go a long way

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
43 weeks ago

South Wales

The only reason I go for is the buffet and the food that they serve it’s spot on

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By *arriet54Woman
43 weeks ago

Newport


"The only reason I go for is the buffet and the food that they serve it’s spot on "

What a load of nonsense

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"I've got stung on this one, offered to take a newbie,I paid to get in and he thought much like most do he would rock up and choose who he wanted!

Oh dear, you paid? He should have paid. It would still have been cheaper than going in by himself. And he should have made sure you were looked after.

Yeah, was trying to help someone out, won't happen again!

Learnt a lot since being here..

Its not instafuck, swinging is a lifestyle where respect is everything.. "

Surprising how many don't think like us Harriet.x

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