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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

What’s your thought on men here with girlfriends? (Yes I’m one of them)

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By *eard and TattsCouple
47 weeks ago

Cwmbran

Why do you feel the need to cheat what are you not getting from her that you can get from someone else you obviously don't love her because you wouldn't do it if you did you can't say you do because you're sleeping with someone else and she doesn't know so yes it's wrong

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By *orestguy28Man
47 weeks ago

Glos


"Why do you feel the need to cheat what are you not getting from her that you can get from someone else you obviously don't love her because you wouldn't do it if you did you can't say you do because you're sleeping with someone else and she doesn't know so yes it's wrong "

Wouldn’t you say there’s a bit of a difference between sleeping with someone and just fucking them? I think that’s where the line is and that’s where the love for your partner is on a loosing streak. Just asking not criticising your comment BTW.

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By *nicornC89Woman
47 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

If she's aware then I'm all good with it. I would of done something like this if my ex agreed.

Given the heading 'cheating' says she doesn't know.. that's a no no for me.

My ex wasn't OK with it so I accepted that and didn't explore for 11 years as the relationship meant more.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
47 weeks ago

Cwmbran

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By *eard and TattsCouple
47 weeks ago

Cwmbran

Sorry message sent before I could finish no I don't think there's a difference if you're in a committed relationship and the other person doesn't know it's cheating you cannot love them if you are not being honest with them if you truly truly love someone you would do absolutely everything to keep them happy and safe you wouldn't stick your dick in someone else I know this is a swinging website and people are on here for swingers but everybody should know what's going on if you're in a committed relationship then don't do it

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By *issing DoryCouple
47 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way


"Sorry message sent before I could finish no I don't think there's a difference if you're in a committed relationship and the other person doesn't know it's cheating you cannot love them if you are not being honest with them if you truly truly love someone you would do absolutely everything to keep them happy and safe you wouldn't stick your dick in someone else I know this is a swinging website and people are on here for swingers but everybody should know what's going on if you're in a committed relationship then don't do it "

100% agreebwith this comment

If your partner doesn't know then you're cheating and obviously don't love them.

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By *orestguy28Man
47 weeks ago

Glos


"Sorry message sent before I could finish no I don't think there's a difference if you're in a committed relationship and the other person doesn't know it's cheating you cannot love them if you are not being honest with them if you truly truly love someone you would do absolutely everything to keep them happy and safe you wouldn't stick your dick in someone else I know this is a swinging website and people are on here for swingers but everybody should know what's going on if you're in a committed relationship then don't do it "

Fair point and well put. This just seems to be a place for sex addicts at times, mainly men or others with not a lot to do. I don’t know anymore, real mixed feelings about this site ATM. might have to take up fly fishing - naked of course

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By *laytonAMan
47 weeks ago

newport

Doesn't really matter if you are on here or trying to pull in the pub it's wrong.

You asked for opinion so my advice would be take a good look at yourself and ask what did my partner do to deserve this and why am I willing to treat them with such disrespect.

They are probably a lovely person who has genuine feelings for you and enjoys being in your relationship, if they don't it's a simple solution, break up.

If you don't get what you need in your relationship have an adult conversation with your partner about it and either agree to be non-monogomous or break up don't be a selfish c bomb

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By *elshdevil70Man
47 weeks ago

Swansea


"What’s your thought on men here with girlfriends? (Yes I’m one of them) "

Another one disappeared only to soon reappear with shiny new profile and no doubt won't be asking that question again lol..

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By *andy CanesWoman
47 weeks ago

candy cane lane


"What’s your thought on men here with girlfriends? (Yes I’m one of them)

Another one disappeared only to soon reappear with shiny new profile and no doubt won't be asking that question again lol.."

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By *9alMan
47 weeks ago

Bridgend

I have never cheated when in a relationship but I am not here to judge other people, families & living arrangements are often complex, often there are no easy black & white answers

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By *lanka300Man
47 weeks ago

haverfordwest

Tricky one. Generally no. However my wife whom I love dearly suffered a massive brain injury. Some days she knows who I am, others she doesn’t. Feel guilty after a meet and ultimately is definitely cheating. Always make the other party aware before the fact and then it’s up to them if they want to meet or not.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
47 weeks ago

Cwmbran

No I actually do believe you do love your wife unlike the person who put the question in the forum didn't love his girlfriend enough to be honest with her x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Tricky one. Generally no. However my wife whom I love dearly suffered a massive brain injury. Some days she knows who I am, others she doesn’t. Feel guilty after a meet and ultimately is definitely cheating. Always make the other party aware before the fact and then it’s up to them if they want to meet or not. "

A prime example of why the stock answer from the moral brigade isn't always the most carefully thought out. Each to their own but this is an adult site where people mingle for a variety of reasons & not to be shamed by those with seemingly perfect lives & relationships. There's a way of answering that's kinder...possibly, but I won't hold my breath X

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By *JandCMCouple
47 weeks ago

cardiff

I don't believe in cheating on a partner.

If you are on here without your partner knowing then should do one of two things, tell your partner your on here n how you feel about it n what you want from here n then if their ok with it then it can be something you both enjoy.

If there not happy about it then delete your account or finish your relationship.

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