FabSwingers.com forum: Bad experiences

By *elshB_boi OP Man
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

I joined here a while back had a look around then left for a long time but recently came back and have been interested in getting into the scene and meeting people and making some connections. However, ive learned the hard way not to trust blindly as two meets ive had lined up got weird fast and ultimately fell through. Sonit got me thinking those of you here with more experience probably have some tales, and im curious to hear them to cheer me up

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By *adyinred696969Couple
43 weeks ago

Brecon

Our first ever swinging meet wasnt from here.

We booked a hotel on a services outside Birmingham.

Met them in town, got on great (we'd already cammed etc).

Back to ours, he got cold feet for a few seconds during a game that saw us all stripping off...she was more experienced than him.

He settled down, and we cracked on, even stopping to go grab some food halfway through.

Everything seemed to go ok, until they were dressed and about to leave...and I noticed my phone had gone missing!

Stopped them at the door to "help us look for it", and suddenly she "finds" it under the bed.

It had been on a shelf in the wardrobe, so not sure how it made its way down there!

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By *elshB_boi OP Man
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

"Our first ever swinging meet wasnt from here.

We booked a hotel on a services outside Birmingham.

Met them in town, got on great (we'd already cammed etc).

Back to ours, he got cold feet for a few seconds during a game that saw us all stripping off...she was more experienced than him.

He settled down, and we cracked on, even stopping to go grab some food halfway through.

Everything seemed to go ok, until they were dressed and about to leave...and I noticed my phone had gone missing!

Stopped them at the door to "help us look for it", and suddenly she "finds" it under the bed.

It had been on a shelf in the wardrobe, so not sure how it made its way down there!

Wow just goes to show you always need your guard up even if people seem trustworthy

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I've had all sorts over the years, some memorable moments stand out, had a guy collapse in the bathroom, numerous guys removing the condom mid sex & a guy kicking me between the legs. I'm cautious about who I meet alone nowadays X

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By *lackwoodGentMan
43 weeks ago

Pontllanfraith

I met a couple many years ago, they were bi and looking for MMF, with emmphasis on the MM part of the MMF. Not usually my thing, much more free flowing but thought I could help and have fun.

I met them early evening at their place, we sat in the lounge and it was hotter than the sun. We got down to business and it was obvious she was much more into him being bi than he was, and he was not relaxed at all. We took a break, me and him naked, her in full sexy get up, when the lounge door flew open and in walked their son, maybe school age, dunno. "Why's everyone naked?" he asked.

Never left a place so quickly. Awful.

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By *he jesterMan
43 weeks ago

Carmarthen

OMG that's so terrible, I guess some pretty poor planning on their part, but they were left to give the explanation ......doh

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By *elshB_boi OP Man
43 weeks ago

Cardiff

Jeez these are making me feel better lol

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
43 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Everyone has a bad tale. Our first was horrendous but you live and learn. Now we play rarely but have had some really nice meets to.

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By *mber SkiesWoman
43 weeks ago

Cwmderi

"I've had all sorts over the years, some memorable moments stand out, had a guy collapse in the bathroom, numerous guys removing the condom mid sex & a guy kicking me between the legs. I'm cautious about who I meet alone nowadays X"

kicking you between the legs wtf what’s wrong with some smh

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
42 weeks ago

Cardiff

I’d say 90% have been positive but I did have an awful experience in a club in 2009 when I was threatened by a guy after we’d had sex there

To put you in the picture I was at an event for bi couples TV’s and admirers at a club in Bristol, which I attended every Saturday night.

I met a couple who were very friendly and took an interest in me. Having not seen them before we chatted for a while and after discussing what they were looking for I was politely informed ‘they’ weren’t into having sex with TV’s, but did enjoy socialising with them.

An hour or so later Mr approaches me on his own and asks if I fancy some fun and that his wife would be joining us shortly as she had gone to the loo. Bit puzzled as to their sudden change of sexual preferences and assuming they might have been a bit shy initially I agreed and he took me by the hand into a small room and we got down to it.

Enjoying being pounded by him I expected her to be knocking on the door any second to join us. but she didn’t and after he’d cum inside me it was then he turned nasty telling me that If I told his wife or anyone we’d just had sex he’d kill me!

He then left quickly, pushing me backwards onto the bed calling me a whore and walking out.

Shaken I got myself together and as I was making my way out I saw his wife looking for him and as she approached me to ask if I’d seen him I said quite shakily in my voice sorry I haven’t, but the look she gave me made me think she thought I was lying which I was obviously!

They must have left shortly after that as by the time I had gone to the toilet, had a good cry and then pulled myself together and reapplied my make up, they were no where to be seen!

But the whole episode shook me up so much that it had such an effect I stopped going to the club again and resulted in me stopping dressing for over 2 years!

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