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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all I'm struggling with my opening lines, so many messages are just ignored or deleted. Anyone got any tips or suggestions?

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By *ojos ElfWoman
over a year ago

south wales


"Hey all I'm struggling with my opening lines, so many messages are just ignored or deleted. Anyone got any tips or suggestions? "

Don't send a dick pic...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha I never do.

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By *ow DDWoman
over a year ago

just up your street


"Hey all I'm struggling with my opening lines, so many messages are just ignored or deleted. Anyone got any tips or suggestions? "

You done OK with me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ileen doverWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Don’t send a FAF message they never work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fake as fuck? I try to just be polite. I'm not the most exciting to start off with but once you know me can be wiked

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By *uncouple153Couple
over a year ago

Abergavenny

Show you have at least read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *ileen doverWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Fake as fuck? I try to just be polite. I'm not the most exciting to start off with but once you know me can be wiked"
Fancy A F*CK messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah no I don't send those either lol not my style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read that they've read & understood my profile, if you make me laugh I'm more likely to respond X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to read that they've read & understood my profile, if you make me laugh I'm more likely to respond X"

Bit difficult when the profile is hidden lol. Thank you though x

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By *ojos ElfWoman
over a year ago

south wales

Not a copy and paste message either... we know haha

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Excuse me, fancy a fuck always works doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a copy and paste message either... we know haha"

Never copied and pasted either I can come across as formal tho trying to make a good impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Excuse me, fancy a fuck always works doesn't it?

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Does it? Lol

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Read the profiles. Dont come across as pushy. Cock pics put lots of ladies off so don't send them unless asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read the profiles. Dont come across as pushy. Cock pics put lots of ladies off so don't send them unless asked."

Thank you, I don't think I come across as pushy.

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By *coutDWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

The first thing I do is read their profile no matter what the message says.

you’ve a few typos in yours you might want to change.

You’ve been honest about your situation but that will be a hard no for many people. Don’t be disappointed if you get blocked, it helps saves us all time.

It’s really obvious to us if a person has read our profile or not and we don’t write them for fun. Or rather we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The first thing I do is read their profile no matter what the message says.

you’ve a few typos in yours you might want to change.

You’ve been honest about your situation but that will be a hard no for many people. Don’t be disappointed if you get blocked, it helps saves us all time.

It’s really obvious to us if a person has read our profile or not and we don’t write them for fun. Or rather we do

.

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I appreciate that thank you

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By *highstrokerMan
over a year ago

West Wales

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By *highstrokerMan
over a year ago

West Wales

I sympathise OP; it’s not easy knowing how to ‘pitch’ an opening message. On the one hand this is a Swingers site and you don’t want to come across as boring and uninteresting, but neither do you want to sound too pushy or entitled. I find it depends on how the profile you’re messaging is written too. Some are, shall we say, more direct than others, so will get a different message to, let’s say, a newbie.

Either way, the nature of the beast is with so many single guys on here, and the poor behaviour of so many of them, we’re going to get ignored and not replied to a significant percentage of the time. Take it as part and parcel of life on here, keep your standards up and cross your fingers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sympathise OP; it’s not easy knowing how to ‘pitch’ an opening message. On the one hand this is a Swingers site and you don’t want to come across as boring and uninteresting, but neither do you want to sound too pushy or entitled. I find it depends on how the profile you’re messaging is written too. Some are, shall we say, more direct than others, so will get a different message to, let’s say, a newbie.

Either way, the nature of the beast is with so many single guys on here, and the poor behaviour of so many of them, we’re going to get ignored and not replied to a significant percentage of the time. Take it as part and parcel of life on here, keep your standards up and cross your fingers! "

I really appreciate that message, really thought out answer and yeah it'd exactly what I think.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I may not be fred Flintstone but I'll sure make your bedrock ??

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Wife had one last week:

I am so jealous of your heart...

It gets to pump inside you..

It made her chuckle!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wife had one last week:

I am so jealous of your heart...

It gets to pump inside you..

It made her chuckle!! "

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