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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago

Going to our first social meeting on the 1st of march we are nervous about it got any advice on how to get rid of the nerves

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By *nitadwon2020Man
45 weeks ago

Aberystwyth

If you’re going together then that’s a great start.

You obvs don’t have to do anything you don’t want too and take it as it comes with no expectations.

Kind of expect the worst and hope for the best is the way I see things like this and fab to be honest.

Don’t build it up, set rules and boundaries even for convo and just enjoy yourselves!!

A good one for me would be a call prior to meeting, get their number and call withheld (I find this a good way of seeing at least how they speak and communicate and a good idea for me at least).

Maybe have a word you’d say if you wanted to leave so wasn’t awkward too….

Hope it helps and take care !!

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By *nitadwon2020Man
45 weeks ago

Aberystwyth

The above would work for a social amongst many plus with a single or couple obvs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago

Thank you so much for the advice really do appreciate it

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By *AZTASTICMan
45 weeks ago

Barry

All I would say is relax and just enjoy. Socials are nice

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
45 weeks ago

W Midlands & N Wales

Expect nothing, see how the chat and conversation goes. Sometimes the energy just sparks right from the outset, sometimes there's nothing there at all

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
45 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"Going to our first social meeting on the 1st of march we are nervous about it got any advice on how to get rid of the nerves "

Is that the blackwood social? It's our first time going to blackwood to. Just relax as I heared that social is so much fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
45 weeks ago

Thanks so much guys for the advice we really do appreciate it

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By *elshcouple18Couple
45 weeks ago

Cardiff

Try mingle as much as possible.. approach folk and chat, really no need for nerves, as everyone we chatted with there were all very nice .

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