FabSwingers.com forum: Is it common to be let down on meets here?

By *oldendelicious40 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Swansea

Is it common thing to be let down in meets here, it’s happening so much to me been so long since I’ve had a meet but plenty saying they are on way.

Used to be ok but losing faith

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By *orphia2003Woman
47 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

In my experience, yes, sadly it is. Awful lot of time wasters here.

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By *ia RooCouple
47 weeks ago

Margam Port Talbot

Yes it is sadley but some are genuine let downs

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By *exy_fiendsCouple
47 weeks ago

BRIDGEND

Yes, have had meets arranged, even just for a social coffee or drinks, then they don't turn up and/or we got blocked. For some it seems the idea sounds fun, but reality scares them.

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By *oldendelicious40 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Swansea

Ye you’re right there it’s like a turn on for some obviously the chat.

It’s happening to me so much, today by 12 this afternoon two let down.

I’m 5 mins away, and no show xx I’m genuine so I don’t get it if I say I’m showing I’m showing, I had a couple lived same area as me walked out my flat they were 5 min walk away honest cancelled as I got outside lol x

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By *oldendelicious40 OP Man
47 weeks ago

Swansea

Ye you’re right there it’s like a turn on for some obviously the chat.

It’s happening to me so much, today by 12 this afternoon two let down.

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By *lessing2016Woman
47 weeks ago

Cardiff

Yeah I've been stood up or cancelled on very last min by some ppl on here.

Keep the faith, some ppl are awesome, it's just a bit challenging finding them sometimes

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By *J TesterMan
47 weeks ago

Taffs Well

It happens to me all the time unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Hard enough getting meets and messages in the first place! Can't afford to be branded a time waster haha

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By *aisy WamTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Swansea

Happened to me on my first meet after Id tried my best to look presentable . Lights out , no answer on the door or the phone . So disapointing to be honest .

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By *ynonvalleyboyMan
47 weeks ago

merthyr

oh yes very

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By *izandpaulCouple
47 weeks ago

merseyside

I think if you consider 75% of people on this site are timewasters, dreamers and delusional you won't go far wrong.

Initially, I'd stick to socials, parties and clubs where everyone who is there has actually shown up !!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Unfortunately it happens way too often

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By *highstrokerMan
47 weeks ago

West Wales

"I think if you consider 75% of people on this site are timewasters, dreamers and delusional you won't go far wrong.

Initially, I'd stick to socials, parties and clubs where everyone who is there has actually shown up !!

Just 75%?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Well if I was ever to get a invite I would be there no question

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By *issSexyBootsTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Cardiff

It is and often the worst offenders are the ones that message you lots before the meet and then they either ghost you on the day or an hour before meeting come up with the most implausible and ridiculous excuse for not turning up!

Then to add insult to injury they always lamely reply later, that when you’re next in the area let’s meet up!

At the point I block them as being a T-Girl I’d have spent a few hours getting ready.

From 8 potential hotel meets this year just 2 actually turned up, which is why I only meet at venues and events, as you just turn up and enjoy yourself and have fun with those that are attending!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I meet almost everyone via a party or social, I've not experienced a no show for years X

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By *onesyf50Man
47 weeks ago

mid wales

Happens too often unfortunately. Hence why coffee meet ups are better if all fails uve had a nice coffee lol

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By *-CrassClownMan
47 weeks ago

Cardiff

As with all things, you have to wade through a bunch of time wasters to get to the good ones. Try not to let it get to you, it's a them (the fantasists) problem, not a you problem.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
47 weeks ago

mystic valley

"I meet almost everyone via a party or social, I've not experienced a no show for years X"

im exactly the same

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By *hedoc1Man
47 weeks ago

Birmingham

To be honest ain't been stood up on here and aint stood anyone up on this account or previous thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Been stood up a few times for social meets

It's very frustrating, it's the reason why social are needed - find out who has substance and not a fantasist

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By *wanseapaulMan
47 weeks ago

Swansea

I've had it happen a couple of times. Had to cancel a meet today as I'm full of cold. Sometimes it's genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"Happens too often unfortunately. Hence why coffee meet ups are better if all fails uve had a nice coffee lol"

Or 2 nice coffees when they say they’re 5mins away, give you their order, you pay then they don’t show and delete the profile.

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By *ust4Fun1857Man
47 weeks ago

Newport

Count yourself lucky, I'm struggling to even get a chat let alone meet

Lol

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By *reen EyesMan
47 weeks ago

Wales

I am a bit old fashioned I guess, if you say you are going to show then turn up. If you get scared or second thought then deal.with it there together.

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By *ally69XXXTV/TS
47 weeks ago

rct

Yes it happens to me last night. Messages for a while, arranged a meet. Kept them in the loop, i bathed, cleaned up, shaved, dressed, drove the campervan, pulled on to say I’m 20mins away-

Got to the post code - and they stopped opening my messages. I sent 4- he was still online- then he eventually opened them then blocked me. It’s like a 45 min drive also.

I’m close to deleting the app “again”!! Lol

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By *onesyf50Man
47 weeks ago

mid wales

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By *onesyf50Man
47 weeks ago

mid wales

"Happens too often unfortunately. Hence why coffee meet ups are better if all fails uve had a nice coffee lol

Or 2 nice coffees when they say they’re 5mins away, give you their order, you pay then they don’t show and delete the profile. "

Well that sounds frustrating, hope the coffee didn't go to waste

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By *izandpaulCouple
47 weeks ago

merseyside

"I think if you consider 75% of people on this site are timewasters, dreamers and delusional you won't go far wrong.

Initially, I'd stick to socials, parties and clubs where everyone who is there has actually shown up !!

Just 75%?"

It's Christmas, I was being kind.

As others have said, stick to parties, clubs and organised social meets.

As you have no idea how many will show you can never be let down.

We love them.

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By *talianduoCouple
47 weeks ago

Swansea

Is the pope a Catholic?

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By *leefMan
47 weeks ago

Swansea

"Is the pope a Catholic?

Maybe, but does he shit in the woods?

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