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By (user no longer on site) OP   
52 weeks ago

Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

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By *elshbuilder67Man
52 weeks ago

Aberdare

Afternoon, there is a site that may interest you it’s one word but the admin here don’t like other sites being named but it’s fetish with out the ish and then life.

It might help you decide what it is you’re looking to try and then what type of Dom/Domme you might be looking for.

Dom male, Domme female

It’s a very broad field so don’t rush into anything

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By *ory_xWoman
52 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance… "

I have privately messaged you

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By *warf with a mulletMan
52 weeks ago

barry

Probabky not the best site for bdsm, you will get 1000s of guys saying they have 2000 years experience,most have zero.

If you do meet ,you should always meet socialy first to discuss what you are all looking to get from it.

Not sure if they are still going but there used to be group social meets called munches, they were a good place to meet like minded people with a genuine interest in bdsm.

I attended as a sub but have progressed to a switch over the last few years, so always keep an open mind .

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By *igNick1381Man
52 weeks ago

BRIDGEND


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance… "

I'll pop you a quick message with some basics of what you should expect a Dom / domme to talk about with you before you consider playing with them

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
52 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance… "

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat.

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By *warf with a mulletMan
52 weeks ago

barry


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat."

Yep most guys claiming to be dom just want to ram it down your throat.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
52 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat.

Yep most guys claiming to be dom just want to ram it down your throat."

And abuse ladies rather than give them pleasure by experimenting

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By *warf with a mulletMan
52 weeks ago

barry


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat.

Yep most guys claiming to be dom just want to ram it down your throat.

And abuse ladies rather than give them pleasure by experimenting"

They think a sub will let them do anything and can be as rough as they like,

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
51 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat.

Yep most guys claiming to be dom just want to ram it down your throat.

And abuse ladies rather than give them pleasure by experimenting

They think a sub will let them do anything and can be as rough as they like,"

Yep and have no idea how a Dom looks after his sub either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago

Thanks guys, that’s exactly what we have found so far - most of the self proclaimed doms are clearly just sadists masquerading as something more. Their messages talk about pain and humiliation right from the get go. We will get back to everyone that’s messaged this morning and thanks for the good advice

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
51 weeks ago

Vale of Glamorgan

We have a lot of experience including our own playroom.

Mr S has been in the scene for decades.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
51 weeks ago


"We have a lot of experience including our own playroom.

Mr S has been in the scene for decades."

That’s quite a profile

Sounds like you’ve had a tough time recently - hope you are out the other side and feeling as good as you look xx

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By *ooleysCouple
51 weeks ago

Swansea

Hey both... Happy to chat about anything with you.

Check out our profile;)

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By *icentiousCouple
51 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

You will know when it clicks, discussions before will tell you needs and wants as well as values and beliefs along with their internet browsing preferences.

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By *hiny-SinnersCouple
51 weeks ago

Vale of Glamorgan


"We have a lot of experience including our own playroom.

Mr S has been in the scene for decades.

That’s quite a profile

Sounds like you’ve had a tough time recently - hope you are out the other side and feeling as good as you look xx"

Thanks that is kind of you to say x

Still in the thick of it as now been diagnosed with a melanoma and having surgery and treatment for that. Can’t wait for all this crap to end and getting back to some fun!

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By *oxy babeWoman
51 weeks ago

gower


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat.

Yep most guys claiming to be dom just want to ram it down your throat.

And abuse ladies rather than give them pleasure by experimenting

They think a sub will let them do anything and can be as rough as they like,

Yep and have no idea how a Dom looks after his sub either."

I had an experience which wasn’t pleasant with a guy who I was going to meet wanting me to be his “sub” he messaged a couple to ask them to come to the hotel we were going to, to “play” as I was his sub without my knowledge or consent, then when he got there he wouldn’t let me look at him, forcibly face fucked me, told me to tell him that he was the only one who could r£@e all my holes and called me a n@88er loving bitch and his whore cunt, needless to say he’s blocked now, if you want to avoid him inbox me and I’ll let you know who he is

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
51 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat.

Yep most guys claiming to be dom just want to ram it down your throat.

And abuse ladies rather than give them pleasure by experimenting

They think a sub will let them do anything and can be as rough as they like,

Yep and have no idea how a Dom looks after his sub either.

I had an experience which wasn’t pleasant with a guy who I was going to meet wanting me to be his “sub” he messaged a couple to ask them to come to the hotel we were going to, to “play” as I was his sub without my knowledge or consent, then when he got there he wouldn’t let me look at him, forcibly face fucked me, told me to tell him that he was the only one who could r£@e all my holes and called me a n@88er loving bitch and his whore cunt, needless to say he’s blocked now, if you want to avoid him inbox me and I’ll let you know who he is"

We ladies have all had a pretend Dom at one point in life babe. We are wiser now. John is my pleasure Dom and don't need another that's why I won't meet anyone pushing that they are dominant. I got mine

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago


"Hey fabbers,

Experienced couple here seeking advice from the extensive collective wisdom and knowledge held within this group.

We appreciate there is a very broad range of types and extremes when using the phrase bdsm but we are keen to dip our toes in that general pond and wondered whether anyone here might have any good advice on where to start. I think we’d quite like to find an experienced Dom on here to possibly show us the ropes (no pun intended) or if anyone knows if there is a more specialist site we should look at perhaps then we are open to all suggestions. We are not looking at anything crazy extreme from the outset but definitely curious and willing to push boundaries with the right person or persons.

We’ve had a few approaches in the past from guys claiming to be dominant but nobody convincing yet and certainly nobody with verifications to back up their claims. We will know when we find the right guy or girl. If anyone has any suggestions or if our Dom is reading this then please hit us up (again no pun).

Thanks in advance…

Most who have to state they are Dom or use Dom in their user name are usually guys who love to abuse women. A real dominant will project his dominant side without having to ram it down your throat."

Well put, lots of bully boys here X

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By *ilth Club SwanseaWoman
51 weeks ago

swansea

You might like to get along to some of the organized events where you can meet people and get to know the community and the scene.

There are the regular "munches" these are social meetups organized by experienced kinksters, the nearest to you would be Swansea and Bridgend.

Also keep your eyes peeled for the next Swink event where you would get the opportunity to try out a few things

Lojo x

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By *roticusCouple
51 weeks ago

Porthmadog

We're an experienced Master/sub couple, subcollared 24/7. We can probably help.

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By *elshhorseMan
51 weeks ago

ogmore valley

Hi to you both, I have read your post, yes there are a lot of wannabe Doms out there, who wouldn't know what todo , and there are Different types of Doms, it all depends on what you are looking for, and needs tobe discussed between you all , before you start , a good Dom will talk to you before hand, a safety word ,look after you when playing, and when you finish. Hope this is of some help to you. X

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
51 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"Hi to you both, I have read your post, yes there are a lot of wannabe Doms out there, who wouldn't know what todo , and there are Different types of Doms, it all depends on what you are looking for, and needs tobe discussed between you all , before you start , a good Dom will talk to you before hand, a safety word ,look after you when playing, and when you finish. Hope this is of some help to you. X"

We use the traffic light system when me and Mr play hard.

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By *ory_xWoman
51 weeks ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey


"Hi to you both, I have read your post, yes there are a lot of wannabe Doms out there, who wouldn't know what todo , and there are Different types of Doms, it all depends on what you are looking for, and needs tobe discussed between you all , before you start , a good Dom will talk to you before hand, a safety word ,look after you when playing, and when you finish. Hope this is of some help to you. X

We use the traffic light system when me and Mr play hard."

With my Dory brain the traffic light system is the best for me. Its so easy to remember

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By *r and Mrs SexploitCouple
51 weeks ago

Pontypridd


"Hi to you both, I have read your post, yes there are a lot of wannabe Doms out there, who wouldn't know what todo , and there are Different types of Doms, it all depends on what you are looking for, and needs tobe discussed between you all , before you start , a good Dom will talk to you before hand, a safety word ,look after you when playing, and when you finish. Hope this is of some help to you. X

We use the traffic light system when me and Mr play hard.

With my Dory brain the traffic light system is the best for me. Its so easy to remember "

So easy and effective.

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By *elshhorseMan
51 weeks ago

ogmore valley


"Hi to you both, I have read your post, yes there are a lot of wannabe Doms out there, who wouldn't know what todo , and there are Different types of Doms, it all depends on what you are looking for, and needs tobe discussed between you all , before you start , a good Dom will talk to you before hand, a safety word ,look after you when playing, and when you finish. Hope this is of some help to you. X

We use the traffic light system when me and Mr play hard.

With my Dory brain the traffic light system is the best for me. Its so easy to remember

So easy and effective."

Yes I always use this .

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