FabSwingers.com forum: Messages

By *etefin OP Man
51 weeks ago

swansea

How many messages do women get per day or week from men .How many repeat persistant messages from men that think they are gods gift and demand a reply ???

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By *hromosexualsCouple
51 weeks ago

Near Abercynon

We are a couple, rather than a lady, but I don't think we get anyone demanding replies.

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By *arriet54Woman
51 weeks ago

Newport

At a guess about 50ish.

Some have messaged before and forget! Or chat for a bit go quiet get a better offer then message weeks later..

Ive been blocked because I don't reply quick enough, bear in mind I work full time and have a life!

Some are aggressive not all..

Block from me

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By *aigressMan
51 weeks ago

Cardiff

Well I try and send at least 300 per user per day...

* obviously don't want to seem too keen so I limit it to that.

To be fair.. volume is an issue.. because all "look at my dick" "I'd ruin you" etc etc white noise means women get swamped... so genuine advances get lost in the herd..

Totally get ladies getting message / spam fatigue..

But sadly as a gent ... its a numbers game until you make contact.

Then it's usually a polite "no thank you" ??

God loves a trier though

And I'll try anything twice!

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By *ancardiff7Man
51 weeks ago

Near Cowbridge

"Well I try and send at least 300 per user per day...

* obviously don't want to seem too keen so I limit it to that.

To be fair.. volume is an issue.. because all "look at my dick" "I'd ruin you" etc etc white noise means women get swamped... so genuine advances get lost in the herd..

Totally get ladies getting message / spam fatigue..

But sadly as a gent ... its a numbers game until you make contact.

Then it's usually a polite "no thank you" ??

God loves a trier though

And I'll try anything twice!"

Your reply made me laugh. But we're you being serious about it being a numbers game?

I'd tend to disagree if so. I've found researching what the prospective partner wants and doesn't want, seeing if it matches what you like, and then messaging works better than the blunderbus approach of messaging anyone in your age range

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By *aigressMan
51 weeks ago

Cardiff

My tongue was very much in my cheek.

That said, having know women on here in the real world in the the past..

If it's still the same (I would expect soo) there is and will be a lot of "spam" and unsolicited stuff that obviously doesn't match a profile...

Because of that..

There is also a good chance you can do all "research" you like and send a thoughtful / sincere message and it never get read.

But that's cool and fine.. I'm a big delivery that things and people find their level/energy..

So being left on read.. won't ruin my vibe.

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By *aigressMan
51 weeks ago

Cardiff

Big beliver*

I can never promise a "big delivery"

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By *issesNCwtchesMan
51 weeks ago

Bridgend

If the owners of the site would add a word filter for woman to use this would dispose of the "ruin" "like my dick" culture that seems to have grown from the neanderthals that use this site.

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By *aigressMan
51 weeks ago

Cardiff

That's a great idea.

Word filters would be easy and you could easily just put them in a side inbox..

I used to mod an adult site years ago. * I was a profile admin mainly.

I used to use a few easy searches to find a cull the spammers

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By *walesmanMan
51 weeks ago

Cardiff

"If the owners of the site would add a word filter for woman to use this would dispose of the "ruin" "like my dick" culture that seems to have grown from the neanderthals that use this site. "

I think that's a great idea, I don't know how receptive the owners are to implementing suggestions, but if you started a thread on the feedback forum, maybe it could get enough traction to be taken note of?

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By *aigressMan
51 weeks ago

Cardiff

Back on the site I modded (years ago)

Because of the nature of the site and the Internet was a little bit more niave back then... there started to become a problem of fake profiles... spamming.. but also some malicious angles.

So the "modding" was upped.

As tech and some of the skills strategies of the Mods improved..

Lots of spammy bulk accounts started to get cut off / ips blocked.

That then started to tail off / slow user growth numbers..

So the power that be lost an appetite for proper mods.

That's when a lot of people pulled away from the site

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By *an1978Woman
51 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

With my "do not message me" on my profile, probably 10 a day.

With my normal profile writing, and if I post a status update, it quickly gets to 50 a day.

Some forget they've already messagd me 3 or 4 times with the same copy and paste message

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