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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those who are single and dating, I'm just curious. Are you dating outside of the 'scene' and will eventually leave if you find someone to be exclusive with? Or are you dating within the scene with the view to carry it on as a couple?

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By *leefMan
over a year ago

Swansea

The answer is 42

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The answer is 42"

Well thanks, so glad I asked now haha.

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

When I was on dating sites I found most of the guys were also on Fab but with vastly different wants/desires in their profiles.

I wasn't looking for a relationship when I met The Wandering Welshman on here in May last year but we kind of rolled into one and spent a wonderful year with him before he lost his fight with cancer in May this year.

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

Open to dating outside of the scene, but not actively pursuing it... I'm open to options, all depends on the other person and strength of feeling. If I met someone I fell for and they wanted vanilla then I'd absolutely walk away from swinging.

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By *umandshareUSCouple
over a year ago

neath

Mrs P here , I've left the site back 12 years ago for a relationship which was vanilla it was okay but I always wanted more,

The relationship broke down and I returned to the site and met Mr P

I could never go back to a vanilla life now I will always be a part of the swinging life its a part of me and at my age I won't settle for anything less

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By *laytonAMan
over a year ago

Newport

Both, on the vanilla side im just being open about sexual preferences although harder to create the narrative/ start the discussion. Would be happy in a monogamous relationship but having left one perhaps thst is enough to say I wasn't...On here not closed to a relationship but having only had a swinger relationship once before and a long time ago I am quite out of practice and perhaps not sure if I would be as comfortable at an older age with sharing a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy on here & had a 12 year relationship, wasn't what either of us were looking for but it worked well. We reached a point where this wasn't for him any longer, he was younger wanting more from life. I've stayed & can't picture me finding anything like that again, I've learned to enjoy my single lifestyle X

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By *elshunicornWoman
over a year ago

wales

If i met someone i would be hopeful to still remain on the scene even in a social sense.

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By *arvellousMissMWoman
over a year ago

South West / South Wales


"If i met someone i would be hopeful to still remain on the scene even in a social sense. "

Same here, absolutely x

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By *carlet11Man
over a year ago

Pontypool, Llanelli, St helens

I've recently left a 5 year vanilla relationship as I felt I was suppressing part of who I was, now I'm not actively looking for a relationship but a regular playmate but I never say never but I think it would need to still be within the lifestyle even if just socially.

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By *AZTASTICMan
over a year ago

Barry

Been single a while. Met a nice woman that cannot commit but loves the scene we hoth happy with the other playing with other's alone or together . we met on here .x

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By *hunkeeMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Clydach

Im on dating sites but will always hide my profile and leave here when I do, unless she is also into it. Had a few fantastic non scene dates with people who I later found out were on here.

Would love to meet someone in real life who would be open to it but happy with vanilla if Im happy in that relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies. Dipping my toe back into the dating pool so enjoy reading everyone's experiences x

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By *leefMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"The answer is 42

Well thanks, so glad I asked now haha."

You are welcome, I'm always happy to assist.

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By *agicmarcMan
over a year ago

tonyrefail

currently “dating” a woman from outside fab hoping to bring her to a club at some point when time allows she knows all about fab and the clubs x

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Having pushed the boundaries that most of us have, I find it very difficult to meet anyone outside of this scene with whom I have a meeting of minds who is not narrow minded and judgmental of the lifestyle, and can't handle my past sexual adventures. I'll only ever get involved in an LTR with someone who has explored the ecstatic pleasures of eroticism that are there for us all to enjoy.

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
over a year ago

RCT

I was single for a long time, joined this site & met my partner who I've been with for nearly a year now. He's not swinging anymore but we still pop to Chams now and then and I'm purely looking for women to meet. He's 100% happy for me to meet women alone and wouldn't be involved in any of my meets.

It works really well for us this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As nearly everyone on this site is a returning member I’m sure you’d all agree that this lifestyle is highly addictive. Everyone is in it for specific reasons & those reasons don’t usually fit in with vanilla life. I’ve gone from fab to vanilla & it really didn’t work. I’ve also gone from fab to a fab relationship & that didn’t work either, but let’s not get in to that. That said it’s the only way I see a future relationship working. Hope this is helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As nearly everyone on this site is a returning member I’m sure you’d all agree that this lifestyle is highly addictive. Everyone is in it for specific reasons & those reasons don’t usually fit in with vanilla life. I’ve gone from fab to vanilla & it really didn’t work. I’ve also gone from fab to a fab relationship & that didn’t work either, but let’s not get in to that. That said it’s the only way I see a future relationship working. Hope this is helpful "

Just haven't found that perfect giant peach yet have you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As nearly everyone on this site is a returning member I’m sure you’d all agree that this lifestyle is highly addictive. Everyone is in it for specific reasons & those reasons don’t usually fit in with vanilla life. I’ve gone from fab to vanilla & it really didn’t work. I’ve also gone from fab to a fab relationship & that didn’t work either, but let’s not get in to that. That said it’s the only way I see a future relationship working. Hope this is helpful

Just haven't found that perfect giant peach yet have you x"

I haven’t

She’s out there somewhere though, ready for the picking. Being all firm & round & juicy!x

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"For those who are single and dating, I'm just curious. Are you dating outside of the 'scene' and will eventually leave if you find someone to be exclusive with? Or are you dating within the scene with the view to carry it on as a couple? "

I've had 3 relationships from swingers, and two ended because they wanted to go vanilla.

Personally I'm not sure anymore I could find anyone who would let me be who I am on here and put up with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who are single and dating, I'm just curious. Are you dating outside of the 'scene' and will eventually leave if you find someone to be exclusive with? Or are you dating within the scene with the view to carry it on as a couple?

I've had 3 relationships from swingers, and two ended because they wanted to go vanilla.

Personally I'm not sure anymore I could find anyone who would let me be who I am on here and put up with me "

Surely you don’t have time for a relationship with all the girls you meet CJ?!!!

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"For those who are single and dating, I'm just curious. Are you dating outside of the 'scene' and will eventually leave if you find someone to be exclusive with? Or are you dating within the scene with the view to carry it on as a couple?

I've had 3 relationships from swingers, and two ended because they wanted to go vanilla.

Personally I'm not sure anymore I could find anyone who would let me be who I am on here and put up with me

Surely you don’t have time for a relationship with all the girls you meet CJ?!!! "

Id like to find that special person just like anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who are single and dating, I'm just curious. Are you dating outside of the 'scene' and will eventually leave if you find someone to be exclusive with? Or are you dating within the scene with the view to carry it on as a couple?

I've had 3 relationships from swingers, and two ended because they wanted to go vanilla.

Personally I'm not sure anymore I could find anyone who would let me be who I am on here and put up with me

Surely you don’t have time for a relationship with all the girls you meet CJ?!!!

Id like to find that special person just like anyone else "

Maybe you could do with a woman with multiple personalities so it’s like meeting someone new every time you see her?

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I am single and not looking for a relationship but a FWB situation would be lovely.

But very hard to find in the vanilla dating world and Fab is hard work as more men just want a shag.

So it anyone has the answer I would love to know more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single. If I found someone special I'd most likely leave the site

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By *exyshortstuffWoman
over a year ago

south wales


"For those who are single and dating, I'm just curious. Are you dating outside of the 'scene' and will eventually leave if you find someone to be exclusive with? Or are you dating within the scene with the view to carry it on as a couple?

I've had 3 relationships from swingers, and two ended because they wanted to go vanilla.

Personally I'm not sure anymore I could find anyone who would let me be who I am on here and put up with me

Surely you don’t have time for a relationship with all the girls you meet CJ?!!!

Id like to find that special person just like anyone else

Maybe you could do with a woman with multiple personalities so it’s like meeting someone new every time you see her? "

I laughed out loud

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I’m looking to date within the lifestyle and I’m on vanilla apps but I hint to the lifestyle on there. I have made so many friends that I wouldn’t have made without the lifestyle I don’t want to give that up. For now I’ll keep attending events and see where life takes me.

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By *laytonAMan
51 weeks ago

Newport

Anybody got any hood hints on dating apps. I'm on feeld, tinder and now bumble but same people it seems, Looking for something tailored to ENM relationships but feeld is about as close as it comes so recommendations peeps! Or am I doomed..

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By *leasure-QueenWoman
51 weeks ago

The twilight zone

I don’t look to date, but if I did I would prefer a ENM situation, so someone familiar with the scene would be preferable.

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By *iscreetman09Man
50 weeks ago

cardiff

Looking to date outside of fab, but would like to keep the option open to play as a couple incase we want to spice things up

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago


"Looking to date outside of fab, but would like to keep the option open to play as a couple incase we want to spice things up "

Snap

I'm sexually exploring with the help of fab while single. Gently ticking off fantasies.

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By *coutDWoman
50 weeks ago

Pontypridd

A couple of months after joining here I met my partner via Fetl1fe. Our relationship is open/ENM . We don’t play as a couple atm as my time doesn’t allow for much in person socials or meets. Hopefully over time this will change.

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By *heCuntingLinguistMan
50 weeks ago

Swansea

I think I’d rather date off fab but maybe introduce them to it.

To be honest, I feel like people on fab are kindred spirits, whilst people IRL are way more judge-y and a lot less sex positive

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By *evils-couple13Couple
50 weeks ago

Neath

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By *atKat-xoxWoman
50 weeks ago

Neath,united kingdom

I met both my partners through fab, I couldn't date someone who wasn't into the lifestyle X

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