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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, this is a bit of a strange one and this might not be the right place for it but I’m going to put it out there anyway and see what happens.

I have a lot of kinky/sexual scenarios and ideas that often consume large chunks of my thoughts…hence me being a member of FAB. Haha.

However, more recently, and particularly in the early hours I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy play (no idea if that’s a term I’ve made up). As such, I have developed quite a detailed scenario in my head that I’m very intrigued by and curious to see if it’s something that can be made a reality.

In this scenario, once a week on a regular basis a man would spend the night with me, coming in when I was already in bed and leaving before I leave for work. There is no actual sex at all in this scenario, and it would be sleeping together in the most literal sense. This person would be basically a stranger, we won’t have had in depth or regular conversations and pictures will be limited. He’d basically come in, wrap me up and eventually we’d fall asleep. Then he’d leave and return the next week.

I’m very curious what kind of bond could be formed based on this scenario of pure intimacy, frustration and restraint. I feel this person would be always a kind of dream to me and I like that thought.

I guess this would suit someone who can see the merits in intimacy however usually shies away from it.

I am little and whenever my mind wanders to this the man in the scenario is big and able to completely encompass me. I also have a penchant for hairy chests! Haha.

I realise this is going to incite a lot of messages from men thinking that this is an easy in, however I’m only going to be interested in responses from people who have genuinely had thier interest piqued…if there is anyone.

Hey…maybe I should just buy a very big teddy but I’ll see if this leads anywhere first.

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By *omT87Man
over a year ago

cf31

That's different and it sound intimate its like a fwb but more a cwtch buddy I guess. I could be interested to try it if you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey this is something I would be very interested in. Often spent night alone and would enjoy a cuddle. No sex no pressure and just enjoy body contact with no chat. Please message me xx

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Maybe a lot of people would think it strange, but there are loads of folks who miss the simple joy of being close to someone too.

There’s definitely something very special about it. I once met someone and we just lay in bed (mostly with her head on my (hairy!) chest). It was one of my best Fab experiences .

I think, deep down, a lot of people are looking for that human touch.

Restraint is an interesting part of it too. Perhaps more difficult when you’re 19, but there’s something exquisite about it .

We all have our “things” - so long as it doesn’t damage others, embrace them ,

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"So, this is a bit of a strange one and this might not be the right place for it but I’m going to put it out there anyway and see what happens.

I have a lot of kinky/sexual scenarios and ideas that often consume large chunks of my thoughts…hence me being a member of FAB. Haha.

However, more recently, and particularly in the early hours I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy play (no idea if that’s a term I’ve made up). As such, I have developed quite a detailed scenario in my head that I’m very intrigued by and curious to see if it’s something that can be made a reality.

In this scenario, once a week on a regular basis a man would spend the night with me, coming in when I was already in bed and leaving before I leave for work. There is no actual sex at all in this scenario, and it would be sleeping together in the most literal sense. This person would be basically a stranger, we won’t have had in depth or regular conversations and pictures will be limited. He’d basically come in, wrap me up and eventually we’d fall asleep. Then he’d leave and return the next week.

I’m very curious what kind of bond could be formed based on this scenario of pure intimacy, frustration and restraint. I feel this person would be always a kind of dream to me and I like that thought.

I guess this would suit someone who can see the merits in intimacy however usually shies away from it.

I am little and whenever my mind wanders to this the man in the scenario is big and able to completely encompass me. I also have a penchant for hairy chests! Haha.

I realise this is going to incite a lot of messages from men thinking that this is an easy in, however I’m only going to be interested in responses from people who have genuinely had thier interest piqued…if there is anyone.

Hey…maybe I should just buy a very big teddy but I’ll see if this leads anywhere first. "

This actually sounds pretty good. The intimacy of sharing a bed, being held, almost like being protected. I you find someone suitable to help you fulfil this fantasy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's strange at all. Totally understand the want for this. Personally, it couldn't be a stranger for me though. I'd need to have chemistry/genuinely like someone to allow them to get that close to me. Keep us updated x

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By *issesNCwtchesMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"So, this is a bit of a strange one and this might not be the right place for it but I’m going to put it out there anyway and see what happens.

I have a lot of kinky/sexual scenarios and ideas that often consume large chunks of my thoughts…hence me being a member of FAB. Haha.

However, more recently, and particularly in the early hours I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy play (no idea if that’s a term I’ve made up). As such, I have developed quite a detailed scenario in my head that I’m very intrigued by and curious to see if it’s something that can be made a reality.

In this scenario, once a week on a regular basis a man would spend the night with me, coming in when I was already in bed and leaving before I leave for work. There is no actual sex at all in this scenario, and it would be sleeping together in the most literal sense. This person would be basically a stranger, we won’t have had in depth or regular conversations and pictures will be limited. He’d basically come in, wrap me up and eventually we’d fall asleep. Then he’d leave and return the next week.

I’m very curious what kind of bond could be formed based on this scenario of pure intimacy, frustration and restraint. I feel this person would be always a kind of dream to me and I like that thought.

I guess this would suit someone who can see the merits in intimacy however usually shies away from it.

I am little and whenever my mind wanders to this the man in the scenario is big and able to completely encompass me. I also have a penchant for hairy chests! Haha.

I realise this is going to incite a lot of messages from men thinking that this is an easy in, however I’m only going to be interested in responses from people who have genuinely had thier interest piqued…if there is anyone.

Hey…maybe I should just buy a very big teddy but I’ll see if this leads anywhere first. "

From me this sounds perfectly fine. As long as it was with a trusted friend.

I am a very tactile person who desires physical touch and derives pleasure from being close to a woman.

Although you may have better luck with a certain kink site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a scenario I've sought on & off, but usually the guy wants more & they seem to want more contact than I was seeking X

I had a daytime guy for years, who would come cwtch weekly for an hour but then he wanted constant chat which became almost daily phone calls.

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By *inky drinksCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Cwtch buddies are a good thing. I couldn't without a click or talking as well though. When I sleep I'm at my most vulnerable so it would only be with a trusted person. I'm very tactile and love cwtches

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By *AZTASTICMan
over a year ago

Barry

Interesting scenario

Maybe you just want to feel safe but with no commitments therefore no hurt if goes wrong.

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By *reasyMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

So, this is a bit of a strange one and this might not be the right place for it but I’m going to put it out there anyway and see what happens.

However, more recently, and particularly in the early hours I’ve been thinking a lot about intimacy play (no idea if that’s a term I’ve made up). As such, I have developed quite a detailed scenario in my head that I’m very intrigued by and curious to see if it’s something that can be made a reality.

The scenario you have in your head Cally sounds like heaven to me.

I miss close warmth and cuddles the absolute most

Hope you find a trusted person to share you’re scenario with

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Yeah cuddle buds are a thing.

As are cuddle puddles, but I guess that's not specific to your current needs.

Still, it's always a good yum to get, g'luck with it

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I don't think it's strange at all. Totally understand the want for this. Personally, it couldn't be a stranger for me though. I'd need to have chemistry/genuinely like someone to allow them to get that close to me. Keep us updated x"

This for me too ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus morning sex is my absolute favourite. So if I woke in the arms of a strong man it would be me pestering for more

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By *coutDWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Sounds lovely but personally I’d want to really know and trust them before letting them in my house to be there whilst I’m sleeping.

As someone has suggested a certain kink site might be a better place to be looking. Feel free to dm for the name

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

That's us nearly every night. Hannah goes to bed, falls asleep, I go up when she is asleep, lay next to her listening to her breathing, smell her, drift off. I then wake up, roll over and feel her warmth before I get up to go for work, leaving her there to sleep.

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By *izzly1Couple
over a year ago

here

Its a really nice idea. From the psychological aspect of it, it has its merits in good practise, however in today's reality it unfortunately has its flaws. Its the dishonesty of men, and I speak as one. With all the will in the world, a swingers/sex site will only get men who feel they fit the bill. The aspect of cuddling up to a nice warm lady has the hall marks of "yes I'm a nice guy.. no of course we won't have sex, oh sorry my hand touched your breast etc etc" the stranger aspect allows the deviant nature to take over, "she doesn't know me, it's only a hard on pressing into her, it's all innocent"

I not putting the dampers on, I think if you have someone you trust, preferably impotent, then it's a starting point. Or if you had a friend who could stay the first few times, or even vet the guy so you wouldn't need to meet him, then it's doable.

I know some men would be reasonable in their behaviour, and some say they would but, and I say this with respect, have you thought about the what it's? What if YOU decide that you want sex, or that you feel pressured, what is the safety aspect? This man will know your address, and as peachy says, it goes from once a week to a connection very hard to break if one of you gets addicted to it, or the other.

I think it could be done with the right safety involved. For example, my best friend messages me with an address, photo and various details before she used to go and have some extracurricular fun, and codes would be used. Only once did I have to intervene.

Honestly good luck with it.. some might think I'm talking bollocks, and I accept that. I'd be willing to talk it through with you, but I don't think I could be a person you could consider, and this is from a man who is terrible at intimacy.. I hold a boob at night to help me relax enough to sleep.

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By *arriet54Woman
over a year ago

Newport

I'd be way to nervy for this, the scenario is so lovely but I wouldn't rest, trust is the key and at some point there would be an expectation of more..

Read a thread not so long back about a woman having a meet that went awful, let alone knowing where I live and that I live alone!

I hope you find said person, take care and be safe

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

I do love the sound of this, but would you tollerate his alarm going off because he has to leave early for work ?

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By *arriet54Woman
over a year ago

Newport

Up at 5.30am CJ..

Can you beat that?

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"Up at 5.30am CJ..

Can you beat that?"

on a regular basis

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By *arriet54Woman
over a year ago

Newport

Fair!

That's you out then

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Up at 5.30am CJ..

Can you beat that?

on a regular basis "

Dont think she means your cock CJ

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By *arriet54Woman
over a year ago

Newport


"Up at 5.30am CJ..

Can you beat that?

on a regular basis

Dont think she means your cock CJ "

Very true, I didn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do love the sound of this, but would you tollerate his alarm going off because he has to leave early for work ? "

If he's the type that has 5 alarms, each 5 minutes apart. Hard no haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess this is kind of a human nature kind of thing, I think most people want that comfort from someone and to be close to someone. I’m not sure how it would feel being a stranger though, I guess it depends whether you would have the same level of closeness to a stranger rather than someone you have a bit of a connection to already. It’s definitely not strange though. Pretty much all my evenings are alone and that company, connection would be a nice thing to have.

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By *leefMan
over a year ago

Swansea

OP, I've seen your pictures and I absolutely cannot help with that. I'd end up with a priapism....and it's a medical emergency!

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

No sex and a night of having the duvet taken off me

In winter?

Get fucked lol

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I love closeness and the intimacy of a cwtch, but, when I'm ready to sleep I need my space..I get too hot if all wrapped up, factor a guy with a furry body and one of us has to go in the spare room lol..

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By *laytonAMan
over a year ago

Newport

Not strange at all, I just don't know that many could remain totally platonic or not be tempted to take it further either with conversation or trying to be sexual. As some have said it would have to be very trusted I think to work. I used to stay at a female friends on nights out and we'd share a bed and occasionally wake up cuddling but with a stranger is a very different dynamic. It's a fascinating scenario should be a TV show!!

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By *xperienced Role PlayerMan
over a year ago

Neath

Nothing Strange about that, I agree with all the previous posters.....But you would have to vet the person some how, maybe get someone you know on here to recommended someone you've not meet yet.

I'd be well up for this if it was a city I didn't have a base in a needed to visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem here is it’s impossible to be cwtched up, spooning a beautiful lady & not get turned on. It would take some serious will power on both sides not to react to the very hard penis sleeping between you.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I think the problem here is it’s impossible to be cwtched up, spooning a beautiful lady & not get turned on. It would take some serious will power on both sides not to react to the very hard penis sleeping between you. "

That said…

That moment you’re both in bed & the light goes off. I’m wrapped around her so close our body temperatures begin to boil. My arms cocooning her tightly, my hand cupping her boob. She feels the comforting tickle of my breath on the back of neck. Few words are said and you & your little bear bear melt away in to the night.

You just can’t beat that feeling.

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