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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or

Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?

I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not interested in someone then block them

Saves both parties any further unwanted contact

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Nearly daily. No one is owed a reply on here, it's in my profile that no reply means no thanks. I get more messages then saying I'm rude/obnoxious/bitch/c@@t etc for not replying and fat shaming as well. Not that many can put on their big boy pants and take rejection. The ones who shame and abuse are usually the ones that treat Fab like instafuck and not a swingers site.

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

It’s behaviour like that that give us men on here a bad name. It’s a shame that you’re getting such abuse BBW but as already said just block them x

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

All the time. Then they play the victim when I call them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proactively using the block button s out the shit, there's no point trying to be polite, just look after yourself & get your filters sorted so you're not being inundated X

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By *nthony76!Man
over a year ago

lligwy

Pay them no attention,

If they respond like that they are not worth your attention. It's sad that people feel scorned due to someone not wanting to fuck their brains out (we know it wouldn't take long!!) But it is a sad fact of life that some think they are gods gift.

As a man I obviously don't get many messages so replying is easier, but some messages just lack inspiration "fuck now"

Not even a question mark after (yes from men usually displaying that they are straight!!)

Politeness and patience cost nothing and I am hoping pay off lol

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

As everyone above has said just report and block any mindless miscreant that lands in your inbox. You don't have to reply or entertain any form of response.

I do the same — ignore and delete. Thankfully most of them are pleasant.

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By *coutDWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

If everyone bothered to read a profile it would help but so many don’t/won’t.

Im quite proactive with the block button now. If I see an Instafuck type of update i just block them to save the future hassle.

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By *wentcookieMan
over a year ago

Brynmawr

Ok blocked me for no reason

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or

Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?

I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply "

Am sorry that you’re experiencing this OP, no one on here is entitled to anything from anyone. Hopefully you are finding the block button a valuable accessory. Stick with it, lots of great, genuine people here

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport


"Ok blocked me for no reason"

I blocked you for being a complete pain and a timewaster...so not surprised others have done the same

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"Ok blocked me for no reason"

Highly doubtful that there was "no reason", maybe you just didn't fit what she was looking for?

A block isn't an insult, some use it as a way of slimming down the numbers on any searches etc that they do, no point in trawling through the list if some of the guys on there have already been rejected.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"Ok blocked me for no reason

I blocked you for being a complete pain and a timewaster...so not surprised others have done the same "

Ah....I should have scrolled to the last post before my comment above lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about hun, no loss, i know your not a time waster and a real gentleman. Find women worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok blocked me for no reason"

Dont worry about hun, no loss, i know your not a time waster and a real gentleman. Find women worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure its different for Women as you probably get thousands of messages and not all of them nice and loads of boring silly 'Hi how are you'messages, i understand you ignoring them. However as a male i answer all mine, if only to just say 'sorry not interested', takes 10secs to do. Theyve made the effort to contact you n showed interest in you so i feel i should reply with somat. If as a woman after your rebuttal you receive another message off them then just block, its what the button is for

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By *ust Us TogetherWoman
over a year ago

Newport

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By *laytonAMan
over a year ago

london

I personally think its fine to block people who you are not interested in there isn't another way to limit down what/ who you see unless you blanket restrict a particular group.

Even more so if they're rude or abusive.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Name and shame, this shit pisses me off as it spoils it for the normal guys without anger issues

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By *ougar1966Couple
over a year ago

Newport


"Name and shame, this shit pisses me off as it spoils it for the normal guys without anger issues "

Unfortunately when you do you then get personal abuse from people you have had no contact with...

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy


"Name and shame, this shit pisses me off as it spoils it for the normal guys without anger issues

Unfortunately when you do you then get personal abuse from people you have had no contact with... "

You can't name and shame in forums you'll get a ban. Unfortunately we just gotta put up with the fact that some people are just abject morons that haven't been taught basic politeness.

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By *oxy babeWoman
over a year ago

gower


"Ok blocked me for no reason"

Maybe you weren’t for them because your only pic is a bareback one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok blocked me for no reason"

There is always a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im sure its different for Women as you probably get thousands of messages and not all of them nice and loads of boring silly 'Hi how are you'messages, i understand you ignoring them. However as a male i answer all mine, if only to just say 'sorry not interested', takes 10secs to do. Theyve made the effort to contact you n showed interest in you so i feel i should reply with somat. If as a woman after your rebuttal you receive another message off them then just block, its what the button is for"

I truly need a faceplant emoji about now, there is no hope

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or

Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?

I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply "

We had our share of abusers. Most guys don't like a no thank you as a reply. Just block and move on how Hun.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place


"I’m getting a lot of abuse at the moment and people blocking me or saying that rude or

Ignorant, just cause I don’t respond to messages, does anyone else get this?

I don’t mean to be rude but sometimes it’s a case of if I’m interested I’ll message back or sometimes I open messages and forget to reply

We had our share of abusers. Most guys don't like a no thank you as a reply. Just block and move on how Hun."

This annoys me take rejection like a man and move on, fuck nobody is entitled to anything in life and not even the best looking person on the world will be everyone's cup of tea

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