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By *hriscaroline36 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Treharris

Rant of the day. Why do people on here think its acceptable to send a friend request to you when they've never once engaged in conversation with you, do you really think we will accept?

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Because they can I suppose is the simple answer. I wouldn’t do it as I like to get to know the people that I’m speaking to first and then see if there’s a connection. I don’t think I’ve ever asked someone to be a friend before they have because I also wouldn’t want for the lady or couple to feel pressured but not everyone recognises the difference between a swinging site and a pick up site

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By *hriscaroline36 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Treharris


"Because they can I suppose is the simple answer. I wouldn’t do it as I like to get to know the people that I’m speaking to first and then see if there’s a connection. I don’t think I’ve ever asked someone to be a friend before they have because I also wouldn’t want for the lady or couple to feel pressured but not everyone recognises the difference between a swinging site and a pick up site"

Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should, it's almost an instant block for us, as we assume their just picture harvesters

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

I agree but try telling the masses on here

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I always ask if I can send a friend request if we've been chatting for I bit, even then I never assume they'll say yes.

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

It’s also a matter of respect and trust no one in their right mind will share their private media with an absolute stranger

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By *arri54Woman
over a year ago

Highway to Hell


"Because they can I suppose is the simple answer. I wouldn’t do it as I like to get to know the people that I’m speaking to first and then see if there’s a connection. I don’t think I’ve ever asked someone to be a friend before they have because I also wouldn’t want for the lady or couple to feel pressured but not everyone recognises the difference between a swinging site and a pick up site

Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should, it's almost an instant block for us, as we assume their just picture harvesters "

Block from me too! Engage in a conversation at least..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the friend requests without reading our profile first for us, or the ones who message and don’t get a reply and still send one like, why! Really do not understand x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die "

100% this there are so many in my unaccepted box

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By *hriscaroline36 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Treharris


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die "

We haven't tried this strategy, might use it now, it's genius

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die

100% this there are so many in my unaccepted box "

See, I'm not so daft after all...am I Snow? Lol...

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
over a year ago

Ammanford


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die

100% this there are so many in my unaccepted box

See, I'm not so daft after all...am I Snow? Lol... "

Up there for thinking, down there for dancing

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die

100% this there are so many in my unaccepted box

See, I'm not so daft after all...am I Snow? Lol... "

Omg Mama I didn't realise that I've been deleting them & they're relentless. Every day is a school day, thanks Mama X

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I have a backlog, now and then I accept if I'm interested in seeing their friends only photos and vids but mostly they seem to come from people without any friends only content and no profile photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might think it's like Facebook and people can only reply to messages from Friends.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die "
I didn’t know this you learn something new every day ..We are definitely going to do this now x

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I didn't know that either so my friends request list will now become a graveyard wonder if it works for winks too?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I didn't know that either so my friends request list will now become a graveyard wonder if it works for winks too?"

Winks are restricted to once every 3 months

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die

100% this there are so many in my unaccepted box

See, I'm not so daft after all...am I Snow? Lol...

Omg Mama I didn't realise that I've been deleting them & they're relentless. Every day is a school day, thanks Mama X"

She taught me well

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey


"I didn't know that either so my friends request list will now become a graveyard wonder if it works for winks too?

Winks are restricted to once every 3 months "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know that either so my friends request list will now become a graveyard wonder if it works for winks too?

Winks are restricted to once every 3 months "

See, I love a wink & an more likely to take a look & respond. I find it less intrusive, we're all different eh X

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I didn't know that either so my friends request list will now become a graveyard wonder if it works for winks too?

Winks are restricted to once every 3 months

Thank you "

You're welcome

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I didn't know that either so my friends request list will now become a graveyard wonder if it works for winks too?

Winks are restricted to once every 3 months

See, I love a wink & an more likely to take a look & respond. I find it less intrusive, we're all different eh X"

I've had winks and messaged if interested in meeting them and then nothing back, I'm assuming they died from shock or something

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I just leave unsolicited friend requests sitting there. If I don't delete it means they can't re-send... it's where all the requests come to die

100% this there are so many in my unaccepted box

See, I'm not so daft after all...am I Snow? Lol...

Omg Mama I didn't realise that I've been deleting them & they're relentless. Every day is a school day, thanks Mama X

She taught me well "

I sure did my girl

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Get them all the time. States the outcome on our profile = block..

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