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By *andering Welsh Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place

Been finding time to be a huge issue for me pretty much all of 2023 with a demanding new job.

So got me thinking, how often do you guys generally arrange a meet?

Anyone else struggling for time to fit anything in, let alone a fab meet?

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By *ubyRichardsWoman
over a year ago

swansea

If I’m meeting someone new then it’s a bit tricky getting diaries to align at first. But these days I mostly meet people I’ve played with before so it’s as/when a few times a week depending on who is available when I am x

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By *ouble_Trouble_X2Couple
over a year ago

caerphilly

We have just started enjoying a bit of new found freedom as our eldest can hold the fort for a few hours of an evening so we do try to meet/get to the club a few weekends of the month, it is harder to arrange 1-1 meets unless it's people we have been chatting too for a while. Day time is alot harder as Dutch works full time, however we do have next week with him working evenings so day time is looking more promising

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Not very often at all. Probably once a year or so. It's not always easy to make all the stars align...

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

2023 has been a bit of a bust for us, due to various factors.

Things seem to be heading back to normal now though.

When we are "on form" so to speak, we tended to visit clubs fairly often, and go to parties. So playing was usually something that happened there.

Then there are the socials, we usually book a local hotel so we can invite someone back if things go well, and there is usually a hotel-room party somewhere close by.

Actual organised meets...not so much, they do happen but between real-life and other swinging related shenanigans, finding time tends to get difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a lot easier Since I semi retired a few weeks back it's been great, the extra free time has given me opportunities to look around for some regular fun. I'm enjoying the seeking process

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By *edi123Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

We usually have a meet every four to six weeks depending on how our vanilla life allows

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By *antasycouple31Couple
over a year ago

Between Pontarddulias and Gorseinon

We just attend the socials and parties we get invited to. Tends to be our preference over 1 to 1 meets both due to our available time but also our preference for the way we like to meet/ chat to people (hence being quite quiet on messenger vs in person!).

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By *onesyf50Man
over a year ago

mid wales

Meeting someone new is tricky to find the time when you both can make it, with work, kids etc, but once you know what each other tastes and a friendship I guess, it's just a matter of popping in lol

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I have 1 or 2 evenings a week for possible meets but rarely fill them as week day meets can be tricky, I also have every other weekend I can sort meets out.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I try to get to a few socials a month, and meet my fab mates. Doesn't always work out. Sometimes I get to.loads, other times none

Private meets aren't so great due to my crazy work schedule at present. Also, I can't always accommodate, so that doesn't help.

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By *andering Welsh Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place

Glad it's not just me then guys, I see some people seem to get new verifications weekly and I have really limited time

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By *ichTea80Couple
over a year ago

Llanelli

We have found the same this year.

Spoken to a few people and then life has happened that has kept us away for weeks and sometimes months of 2023.

Desperately hoping to make up that with the rest of the year looking fairly chilled

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By *ozJackCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Feel like the odd one out but once a week. We live in the centre of Cardiff though and have a lot of people here for business and regulars that we see.

When we first started it was more like once every 3 months.

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

Tends to be organised socials events and clubs for us. Sorting anything else, isn’t impossible but is more difficult due to a lack of free time currently.

Red

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

I've recently put myself from meeting atm due to losing all my hearing.

But I would say that fab is very much up and down especially during holidays season. And people are busy with work and stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and arrange something once or twice a month , my problem is being let down on numerous occasions. My last 5 have all been last minute let downs including 1 today..

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I see my fwb every week and go to private fab parties and events once or twice a month

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By *carlet11Man
over a year ago

Pontypool, Llanelli, St helens

Even though I'm returning after a few years off, I'm finding it impossible to get any meets. Or even worse conversations going in the first place and I'm not entirely sure why.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I regularly meet. It's why my profile is still extant.

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