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By *iguy1130 OP   Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly borough

People that put an age restriction could be losing out.. surely attraction should be more important than age..I see people stating ages they are maybe attracted to..what if a person is older than what they are looking for and could be a better match up.. age is a number..attraction is the important part.. but I agree its the choice of the people..what do you think??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most state younger than my age but it’s their preference

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I have my age range set as thats the age group I am attracted to. However, meeting in person at a group social can bend those rules a little.

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By *owacoupleCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

The flip side is, the restriction stops people messaging you, doesn’t stop you looking and messaging them.

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By *iguy1130 OP   Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly borough

I have seen some people wanting to attend socials,to be told that organiser can't message them because they blocked everyone over a certain age..oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I`ll stick with my 50 & above i`m sick of you guys not taking no for a answer. that s why i have 50s and above guys who are more mature. Karen

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I can see the reason for it, pontless wasting everyone's time

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By *nsatiables21Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

The flexibility of somebody's age restrictions/preferences will vary.

Ours are not set in stone by any means

Mrs

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Sounding a little aggrevied OP. Everyone is entitled to preferences. Some may set there ages for different reasons.

I personally don't want to fuck anyone that's young enough to be my kid and the other end of the spectrum I don't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my Dad!

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By *iguy1130 OP   Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly borough

Not aggrieved..I do ok. But can't understand the logic....everyone to their own choice..but imagine someone say 40 is maximum..then some good looking male/female age 41 or 44..I understand your right to set your age limit..like I said,age is just a number.. not bitching at anyone..its your choice..

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By *owacoupleCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

The logic,

We started without a filter. As a couple, with a couples profile, and I’d imagine women’s profiles are the same, the inbox becomes almost unmanageable. So we scanned through the messages we had, marked off where the attraction generally started tailing off and set the filters up accordingly. We now have a slightly more manageable inbox, with more replies on average than before.

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By *iguy1130 OP   Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly borough

Like you said "ATTRACTION " I am not having a go at people..its your choice..Good luck to anyone who gets a good meet.. I have done well throughout my life..and still doing OK.. not a disgruntled op..age is just a number..as you will find out in time

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By *owacoupleCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

You said you didn’t get the logic, so I explained our logic.

You keep saying age is just a number. But when a 30 year old couple start getting messages from men old enough to be their grandparents (75+), I can absolutely assure you there will be zero attraction there. You have to set a limit some where. Yes, we may miss out on a potentially compatible person just outside those limits. But there’s plenty more inside the limits, we’re not here to find the perfect person, soul mate etc. so it’s worth the trade off of an unfiltered mailbox.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

My age limit is set because as a rule I'm not usually attracted to older men. Yes, I'm in my 60's but for a lot of us fab is about fantasies and maybe something that wouldn't happen in the "vanilla " world. If I met someone over 60 at an organised social and there was a spark, then so be it. I'm quite young in my outlook and music choices too. What guy in their 60's would understand or even know about Stormzy? My good friends know this.. so yes, my age preferences are under 60

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

There are some under 50s that can take a "no thanks" without the abusive reply. Not all of us are immature

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"The logic,

We started without a filter. As a couple, with a couples profile, and I’d imagine women’s profiles are the same, the inbox becomes almost unmanageable. So we scanned through the messages we had, marked off where the attraction generally started tailing off and set the filters up accordingly. We now have a slightly more manageable inbox, with more replies on average than before. "

Pritty much what we had to do.

Spent time to write what we interested in on the profile (that no one reads especially single males ) still got loads of messages and when told a polite no thanks, got abuse so filters in place now.

PS. There should be a option to only have bi people able to message .

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The logic,

We started without a filter. As a couple, with a couples profile, and I’d imagine women’s profiles are the same, the inbox becomes almost unmanageable. So we scanned through the messages we had, marked off where the attraction generally started tailing off and set the filters up accordingly. We now have a slightly more manageable inbox, with more replies on average than before.

Pritty much what we had to do.

Spent time to write what we interested in on the profile (that no one reads especially single males ) still got loads of messages and when told a polite no thanks, got abuse so filters in place now.

PS. There should be a option to only have bi people able to message .

H x"

Totally agree with that last point X

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