FabSwingers.com forum: Sugar Daddy question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When a profile says 'Sugar Daddy Wanted', that's just code for 'I want to be paid for sex', right? I enjoy ddlg relationships, but paying someone for their time seems pointless to me

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By *reamsliceMan
over a year ago

st clears

That’s what I understand too

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By *ubyRichardsWoman
over a year ago

swansea

If it’s pointless to you and you’re not interested then just hit the block button and move on. It clearly works for some people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong, i have nothing against people doing it, I just don't want to waste their time messaging back and forth before they ask for money.

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By *ove to exploreMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

“In the event that sex is offered in exchange for payment in a sugar dating relationship, it would be illegal and covered by prostitution laws in Wales, England and Scotland”

In essence, my understanding then is sugar dating relationships are and must be more about companionship.

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By *ove to exploreMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Don't get me wrong, i have nothing against people doing it, I just don't want to waste their time messaging back and forth before they ask for money."

In all honesty, if someone’s throws in money late into a conversation under the guise of being a sugar baby that’s red flag galore of prostitution or more likely a scam.

I genuine sugar baby will be clear from the outset on what they seek.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Pleasure kinks are powerful things. We have a friend who does cam work. She has two sugars overseas who send her expensive gifts and pay for things for her.

They've never met but they have cam chats regularly. They started off as strip/play performances for money but more often than not now, it's just a regular conversation.

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

A lot of sugar daddies don't actually want sex.

It's the attention, affection and access to someone's time they want.

A lot of sugar daddies are submissive in my experience and what to hear about shinanigans and help towards lingerie and things like that.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Over the years I've had a few younger ladies ask me to play the role of Sugar daddy, and the subject of Rent-A-pussy has never entered the scenario. It's invariably been a case that whilst they are ticking the box of exploring the eroticism of sex with a mature guy, it's also been that they preferred the company of a guy who is an honours graduate of The university of life, and a dinosaur from the era when hardware was something that you got, and the only software around was located between old men's legs before viagara was invented, when it was also hip for a guy to take a lady out who had gone to a bit trouble to look her best for the occasion, and not expect her to have a pocket calculator in her handbag to work out her share of the tab.

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By *iguy1130Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly borough

Make no mistake,there are quite a few on site charging for their adult services,so to speak..also there are apps that you can go on to pay someone for their adult services..that's OK if you willing to pay..but a swinging site should be for the purpose of meeting people with same interests..but if people want to pay,that's their choice.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

"Make no mistake,there are quite a few on site charging for their adult services,so to speak..also there are apps that you can go on to pay someone for their adult services..that's OK if you willing to pay..but a swinging site should be for the purpose of meeting people with same interests..but if people want to pay,that's their choice."

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“In the event that sex is offered in exchange for payment in a sugar dating relationship, it would be illegal and covered by prostitution laws in Wales, England and Scotland”

Prostitution is not illegal in England and Wales

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By *ove to exploreMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"“In the event that sex is offered in exchange for payment in a sugar dating relationship, it would be illegal and covered by prostitution laws in Wales, England and Scotland”

Prostitution is not illegal in England and Wales"

Your Correct “Prostitution is not illegal in England and Wales”

Also correct “In the event that sex is offered in exchange for payment…it would be illegal”

It’s a little nuanced I agree, but the act of prostitution itself isn’t illegal, but there’s still prostitution laws around it. It’s soliciting sex under the wider prostitution laws that can be illegal in a sugar relationship but there’s ways around this.

It’s pretty irrelevant anyway as there’s no appetite from participants nor the authorities in acting on these laws.

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