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By *arriedwelshcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hello to all on this rainy day. We've been chatting about trying our first MFM and got really turned on by the idea.

Just wanted to get some advice really and ask if anyone has had one before and any tips they can share with what to expect or how to reach out to people?

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Just don't take it too seriously, it's all a bit of fun and the aim is to have a good time

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By *agic fingers 70Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Its all about finding the right man who has been with couples before and will go at you pace and understand its your first time .

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Its all about open and honest communication, set those boundaries loud and clear up front so everyone is playing off the same hymnsheet.

And enjoy. x

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By *weetnotinnocentCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

If you are interested just go for it along you both feel like that at the time! It's the only way your going to know!

Don't have to do anything you don't want to and don't have to try it again but at least you will know.

Our first meet was a MFMFMF and so nervous but just went for it and haven't looked back!

Even surprised myself how horny it can be watching the wife enjoying herself!

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By *reamsliceMan
over a year ago

st clears

Well find the man or couple that you have a basic attraction with

Meet up without expectations

If the chemistry/desire is there relax and let it happen … be the centre of attention for 2 men, feast on them . Above all enjoy

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By *orny43sumCouple
over a year ago

merthyr

A social 1st to see if there is a connection between all involved,

Hope you find what you seek and have lots of fun

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By *antasycouple31Couple
over a year ago

Between Pontarddulias and Gorseinon

Don’t throw yourselves in too fast. Go to a few socials events and just chat/ get to know people - you will soon tell the difference between those that understand that you are a couple and treat you as such, and those that just want to shag the mrs.

You’ll also get this vibe through messages and for us, those that don’t understand we are a couple we pass by as being respectful in that situation is important to us.

Infact I would say like 5% of men understand this, but it depends if your after a cuckold type situation so you may not mind the solo approach (it’s just not for us)

We did jump in both feet at a party and effectively had a mmfm situation, but in hindsight for both of us we should have built it up more/ made it abit more of a passionate situation than just the sex/ other stuff and it’s probably not something we would repeat in the same way.

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By *iscreetman09Man
over a year ago

cardiff

It's about finding the right guy who will respect your boundaries, knowing he is their for your pleasure as much as his and the couple must also include the 3rd party too. A social is ideal first find out what all parties are after to really enjoy the experience.

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By *AZTASTICMan
over a year ago

Barry

Can I speak from the guest male perspective. It's fun but need that attraction and spark and need to get on with everyone in the mix.

Biggest part is trust.

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

Discuss your boundaries.

Your hubby may know what you like but the guy doesn't.

Also, the guy won't know if he's going to do something to piss hubby off so I'd be fair and tell him what you expect and what he's not to do. Eg kissing, smacking, hair pull etc

Then it's all about finding a guy you both get on with

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By *AZTASTICMan
over a year ago

Barry

And guy's always have a social first, talk what everyone wants. Boundaries etc, Kissing in particular some love it some it's a no go. And always ask if it's still OK as things heat up

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By *oy_boyxMan
over a year ago

swansea

First at all your boundaries and rules. Good to have a bit of chat before and see if its suitable for all of you. Important to do not find a bull which would like to go through whole fab. Quality over quantity

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