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By *ltcoupleswansea OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

Why do people get so offended when you turn down their proposition and instantly go into attack mode.

We had a couple message us asking for V to be used in a glory hole and for gangbang for them and their friends with no prior messages, we politely decline then all of a sudden people in Wales and welsh people are “no fun and all have the same temperament and closed minded” and apparently we’re all backwards and living like it’s the 1970s.

Account seems like a fake couple account with no verifications, minimal pictures etc and before you can even respond to their not very nice reply they my block you lol

We will never understand why people act this way and throw their toys out of the pram when they don’t get the response they want and it’s not even 9am haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get that sometimes and they even gone and blocked us just for turning them down .

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

My view, for what it’s worth, is that a lot of people on this site don’t understand the concept of swinging, They purely think that it’s a ‘fuck and go’ opportunity, rather than the potential of getting to know people who there may be a physical and mental connection with and then maybe more

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By *ltcoupleswansea OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea


"My view, for what it’s worth, is that a lot of people on this site don’t understand the concept of swinging, They purely think that it’s a ‘fuck and go’ opportunity, rather than the potential of getting to know people who there may be a physical and mental connection with and then maybe more"

This 100%! Some people think this site is simply click a profile for instant sex exactly how you fantasise about with zero resistance and everyone has to go along with it regardless if you’re into that kinda thing or even attracted to them haha

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We get the same, tend to just ignore it now.

Even been told the H cock is small and Z would love this other guys cock

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By *bw.BratWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

I think I know the profile! I've had the same message. Actually they keep messaging - I keep declining lol

Try not to let it get to you

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By *ltcoupleswansea OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swansea

It just annoys me the entitlement of some people and the fact they throw their toys out of the pram when you say no thanks is just funny.

Some people need to learn that this isn’t just a click and fuck website and not everyone is going to be into everyone or every sexual act

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley


"We get the same, tend to just ignore it now.

Even been told the H cock is small and Z would love this other guys cock "

Small ? It's like a baby's arm

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By *ust-a-GuyMan
over a year ago

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"We get that sometimes and they even gone and blocked us just for turning them down . "

Some people use the block to stop them remessaging someone that they have already found incompatibility with.

Being abusive first is a dick move though.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Some people have big dicks and others are just big dicks, also some have big dicks but only think with them.

I don't know why but just dicks

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"We get the same, tend to just ignore it now.

Even been told the H cock is small and Z would love this other guys cock

Small ? It's like a baby's arm "

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Because some people think they are entitled to something and have a huge chip on their shoudler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proactively using thy block button helps, its there as another filtering tool. There's no point replying to anyone you're not interested in, you just open yourself up unfortunately. It's you profile use it as you see fit, but it is an easier way to manage the abuse X

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By *urrey_2011Man
over a year ago

Dorking

Some nice people on here but some very strange ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a man thing lead by there dicks then they get butt hurt. Karen

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By *bw.BratWoman
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

I have a " message status " on my profile so that I know if people have read it or not.

I always reply to people who haven't read mine politely to say " you've not read my profile but happy fabbing " and you should honestly see the abuse I get ! it's amusing x

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place


"I have a " message status " on my profile so that I know if people have read it or not.

I always reply to people who haven't read mine politely to say " you've not read my profile but happy fabbing " and you should honestly see the abuse I get ! it's amusing x "

People never cease to surprise me ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a " message status " on my profile so that I know if people have read it or not.

I always reply to people who haven't read mine politely to say " you've not read my profile but happy fabbing " and you should honestly see the abuse I get ! it's amusing x "

I wouldn’t even bother replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when you say no thank you then get personal insults

Like that’s going to make me change my mind

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By *antasycouple31Couple
over a year ago

Between Pontarddulias and Gorseinon


"I have a " message status " on my profile so that I know if people have read it or not.

I always reply to people who haven't read mine politely to say " you've not read my profile but happy fabbing " and you should honestly see the abuse I get ! it's amusing x "

So true, loads of single men complaining they don’t get a chance yet barely any of them actually read a profile.

Feel like we’re missing out of some of the abuse, may need to actually reply to some people no to make it a little more interesting ??

Shocking what happened though, does anyone actually report people for being dickheads or just block them?

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By *exyshortstuffWoman
over a year ago

south wales


"I think I know the profile! I've had the same message. Actually they keep messaging - I keep declining lol

Try not to let it get to you "

I get this.. I've started amusing myself offering helpful tips on how to improve their chances of getting interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I know the profile! I've had the same message. Actually they keep messaging - I keep declining lol

Try not to let it get to you

I get this.. I've started amusing myself offering helpful tips on how to improve their chances of getting interest "

I’ve done this a few times

Told them to change profile slightly and post pics that are not just dick pics

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By *orben dallas 52Man
over a year ago

llantwit major

I don’t get offended and I can’t understand why some people do.

What is annoying is when (as a male) you actually get a reply to a message and it’s one f**king word!

It’s like I know you have many messages to reply to but atleast try.

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By *unnybunsWoman
over a year ago

Between here and over there

To be honest I think they are either bored and sadistic or just winging it- not a clue how the site and lifestyle works.

The level of maturity when they cry about it and send abusive messages is just laughable.

Anyways the rest of you who are lush ….. happy fabbing you beautiful lot

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