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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate you need to meet prior to anything happening but if someone offers you a 1 to 1 meet over a coffee what do you talk about?!

I'm pretty easy going but don't really want to talk work etc lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the socials Ive been on recently we've talked about anything and everything. No sex talk as such as trying to see if there is an attraction there and I find if a male starts sex talk early on its a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply!

Yeah I get that- can't just turn up and talk sex!

This is all very new to me, I'm from the pub/club days where you meet randomly after a few drinks, a bum squeeze either way and go from there....... times have definitely changed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as you would on a date I guess. Talking and getting to know each other. If someone started talking sex on a social first meet it would feel so awkward for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine usually go….

Vanilla:

“How’s your day been?”

If they’ve disclosed anything personal I.E family kids or work “Busy day in work?” “How’s your son daughter?”

Non vanilla then:

“How long you been on fab, how you finding it?”

“Any bad meets?”

“What’s been your best experience?”

“What is it ideally you’re looking for?”

These take a while to discuss and if I feel we’ve chatted enough I make my excuse stating “so let’s go away and review, don’t worry if I’m not for you, fine, if I am, I hope to see you again”

If I feel it’s a no, it’s the same as above expect I won’t add the “hope to see you again”

It’s a good chance to see if they are a good kisser. If I like them I’ll allow it. Know if that kiss will make me weak at the knees. If I don’t I’ll just keep a distance.

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By *ambsfunMan
over a year ago

visiting

You seem to have it nailed!

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By *edi123Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

That’s why we now prefer clubs. It’s easier just to walk up and chat to others, if you do t hit it off you just move on. If you do hit it off you can take it further in the play rooms….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great comments thanks- makes a change for here lol!

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