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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

There have been some real losers on here lately. You say to someone who lives miles away, 'no thanks' and then the abuse starts. I've just been told to change my body type from 'average' to 'large' just because I said no to them and I got blocked. What an arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called an idiot because I ignored a man's first message.

Gave him what for and then blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got called an idiot because I ignored a man's first message.

Gave him what for and then blocked him. "

If I call you a rude name will you put me over your knee and give me what for please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been some real losers on here lately. You say to someone who lives miles away, 'no thanks' and then the abuse starts. I've just been told to change my body type from 'average' to 'large' just because I said no to them and I got blocked. What an arsehole."

Large???

Christ we don't help ourselves some of us men do we?

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"I got called an idiot because I ignored a man's first message.

Gave him what for and then blocked him. "

I'm sorry to hear that. This isn't a swingers site anymore. There's no respect whatsoever. You look gorgeous x

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"There have been some real losers on here lately. You say to someone who lives miles away, 'no thanks' and then the abuse starts. I've just been told to change my body type from 'average' to 'large' just because I said no to them and I got blocked. What an arsehole.

Large???

Christ we don't help ourselves some of us men do we?"

Totally agree. Spoils it for the genuine peeps on here.

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t" "

I use fat cunt as a term of endearment but then I am Scottish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t"

I use fat cunt as a term of endearment but then I am Scottish "

I actually read that in a Scottish accent

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By *orgeous_Babe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly


"I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t" "

I should do the same, lovely and just press the delete button x

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By *ocas2Man
over a year ago

gwynedd


"I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t"

I use fat cunt as a term of endearment but then I am Scottish

I actually read that in a Scottish accent "
so did i!! Lol

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I got called 'another dreamer' because I said no thanks to someone. I tend not to even bother replying if I'm not interested these days. The abuse for saying no thanks is just dreadful. No more being polite for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t"

I use fat cunt as a term of endearment but then I am Scottish "

Another Scotsman in wales eh? We do get around ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t" "

It’s disgusting the abuse ladies get on here my wife no longer has a profile for that very reason…. Even when message filters, age limits etc was set, and a very very specific profile wrote, the arseholes still continued with the abuse similar to yours. Even with stuff such as “your marriage can’t be that good if you want extra fun”.

Unfortunately some people’s (both men and women, but mostly men) egos can’t take that rejection I always say they must of been interested and liked what they seen if they messaged in the first place

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've found I get less abuse if I ignore than if I try to provide a kind reason why it's a no and the only reasons why I would ignore is if they are rude, need too much from me or clearly aren't interested in me

When I have said no before, the torrent of abuse is crazy, it's scary to think, if that's how people deal with a no online, how would they react in person

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By *reen EyesMan
over a year ago

Wales

Thats another guy making the nice guys look bad. They deserve blocking and reporting. You look stunning xx

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By *reen EyesMan
over a year ago

Wales

I had something similar off a lady today, and even though you should ride the wave it can really take you down.

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By *erald 1999Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

It's a shame people have to insult if they get rejected.....like that's really going to help you ...they Need to pull up their big boy / girl pants and get over themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been abused by guys and called homophobic because I said I don't play with guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to even say "no thanks" anymore as when I do the message is pretty much the same "youre lucky I messaged you you fat c@#t" "

This for me, I'd rather be considered rude than walk into abuse. Plus the Fab rules are clear, a non reply should be considered a no, however, my personal gripe, men on here consider those who don't reply as lacking manners, talk about entitlement. A block is the only way to go nowadays X

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

Dont bite and let them win its fustrating but just laught it off childish behaviour

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

Smile and wave ladies ! smile and wave !

You have control of the site, men have no control and will do the most stupid of things when rejected.

The hard part for ladies on the site is to out the fakes

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"There have been some real losers on here lately. You say to someone who lives miles away, 'no thanks' and then the abuse starts. I've just been told to change my body type from 'average' to 'large' just because I said no to them and I got blocked. What an arsehole."

We had a few but I just block them instantly the moment they start and report them.

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By *udennudebillyMan
over a year ago

Nr Hythe

Always amazes me to hear that when people are rejected they send torrents of abuse, as above if they do it online what are they like in real life!

We’re all grown ups aren’t we, and not everyone likes the same cup of tea, or why else would anything other than Yorkshire gold exist…people really should get over themselves!

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By *elshunicornWoman
over a year ago

wales

Same!

I either say no Thankyou and get called a fat c u next Tuesday and how I should be grateful. And then if I ignore someone they just call me names and call me arrogant and stupid and obviously the fat word gets used a lot!

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By *tagVixCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Unfortunately it's just easier to block people you aren't interested in.it saves a lot of hassle. We don't like doing it, but as we found the tantrums and torrents of abuse from grown adults throwing their toys out of the pram is ridiculous.

Obviously not everyone is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had someone message abuse because we've said no, then a few days later message back apologising and asking to meet... Uhhh... No?

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By *elshguy999Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Got to love how the minority spoil it for genuine guys. If they aren't for you, just grow up and take it. Crikey.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"There have been some real losers on here lately. You say to someone who lives miles away, 'no thanks' and then the abuse starts. I've just been told to change my body type from 'average' to 'large' just because I said no to them and I got blocked. What an arsehole."

They have always been on here. But now most guys see fab as a hook up site with a guaranteed shag when you join. This was a real pure swingers site years ago but now many treat it as instashag.

Mrs

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"We've had someone message abuse because we've said no, then a few days later message back apologising and asking to meet... Uhhh... No? "

I lost count of the times I been called all sorts for saying no thank you or sorry you have not read out profile ect. I try to reply to the ones who send nice messages but some days I seriously have not got the time to reply to up to a hundred messages. When we first joined it was over three hundred the first day. Nobody can answer all them which some people just do not want to understand from our point of view.

Mrs

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By *AZTASTICMan
over a year ago

Barry

There are some right twats out there.

Please don't loose faith. There are some lovely people too x

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

See I love the abusers. Gives me chance to flex my sarcasm it's a little game I like to play Certainly don't allow the opinions of dicks on the internet cause upset, as they say opinions are like arseholes everyone has one. And the ones of randoms on here with their knickers in a twist definitely aren't worth that!

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By *ear SkillsMan
over a year ago

Pontypool


"See I love the abusers. Gives me chance to flex my sarcasm "

Wait your sarcastic?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"See I love the abusers. Gives me chance to flex my sarcasm

Wait your sarcastic? "

Only to the deserving to others it's banter

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By *ear SkillsMan
over a year ago

Pontypool

Haha I wouldn't have you any different!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Haha I wouldn't have you any different!"

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"I got called an idiot because I ignored a man's first message.

Gave him what for and then blocked him. "

And I’ve still not got over that blocking

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