FabSwingers.com forum: A reminder to people to make sure you know you're being recorded

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I had a meet Thursday night with a couple and then again Friday morning. I wasn't aware till a friend on here said to me hay this looks like you in a video. So I took a look and yeah it's me. The couple had recorded the meet, hadn't told me they were doing so. They had edited enough to keep my face out of it mostly but I have a noticeable marking on my skin which is how my friend new it was me. Now I have nothing to hide but I keep my fab life and real life separate because of family, friends and work. The usual as is the case for most on this site full of collectors and fakes.

I reported the couple and looks like they've been removed quite swiftly. High 5 to fab for that but they'll be back ASAP and likely post it again. I've messaged them to say it was a dick move to record without telling me and even more so to post it publicly.

So just a heads up to everyone to make sure first you aren't being recorded. This couple had clearly hidden there phone and in a dark room you couldn't spot it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be reporting them to the police.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The thoughts crossed my mind but I can't be bothered with that. Stress that's just not needed.

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By *ittle_miss_sassy86Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

Omg that’s terrible xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah kinda annoyed about it to be honest. I don't think I'll ever meet a couple again. Nothing but a shit show

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By *oobyliciousnessWoman
over a year ago

outside Llanelli.

I’d name them on here !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No point they've been removed now. They'll be back I'm sure and then I might

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

This is my absolute worst nightmare, I'm so sorry that happened to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me before too. The revolution in tiny cameras is a huge risk with couples who want to share the experience. Probably didnt even think the harm they could cause. Sorry you had a shitty experience bud!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aww thank you. The response I got from the bloke of the couple was. Oh sorry I was pissed. Right OK, and??? That made you do all that did it and then post it... ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Crap innit. Ah well hopefully fab banned them from ever setting up another account If that's even possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea if they have that capacity but for your sake I hope they learnt their lesson.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Doubtful though isn't it. They lack any sort of consideration for others privacy. They'll be back. My worry is what other site they on and using that video. I'll never get that video deleted. That's what upsets me the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for warning others.

I am sorry that happened to you. would ask them to take it down, and make it clear to them that it is a criminal offence.

(And keep screenshots of the message)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I see it or them again I will be doing exactly that!

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By *ierced_VikingMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

I've had Friends of mine suddenly disappear off here! (A Couple too!)

Is it possible for you to DM me?

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport

And this is why we always accommodate, especially on the first couple of meets with new people. I find it mind-blowing that someone would think it's ok to secretly record someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeh I'm going to stick to accomdating. To be honest I'm now not looking to meet any couples. Never had a bad single meet. Had plenty of bad couple experiences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's nobody up your way so I don't it's linked.

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By *ierced_VikingMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

They don't live up my way! They live closer to you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK? Why would that mean I should message you about it? This post wasn't to broadcast of tell people who it was but to just remind people to make sure that they aren't being recorded against their will.

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By *ierced_VikingMan
over a year ago

Aberdare

Just trying to see if it was the same couple? I know them personally so it's a bit strange that they have just disappeared!!

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I’d name them on here !!

You'd be getting a Forum timeout if you did as naming and shaming is against Forum rules

OP has done the right thing reporting them, Admin removed and hopefully they don't come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP is just trying to move past it and wanted to spread awareness of the issue

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

This is always one of my worries! Hubby likes to play on some of the nude beaches but I find it hard to fully relax as worry about people videoing! Even worse when it’s people you’ve had a meet with doing it without your knowledge! Glad they got removed but guessing they’ll be back under a new name!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah ok well look, I'm not about to name and shame. I just wanted to create awareness

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I'm guessing they will be. Only time will tell. Fingers crossed they don't bother though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a heads up. Fab doesn't delete there profiles. Just suspends them for 5 days. Absolutely livid

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Just a heads up. Fab doesn't delete there profiles. Just suspends them for 5 days. Absolutely livid"

I am not Admin so don't know but think it depends on variety of factors including evidence, other reports and issues etc. This is from another post on how Admin handle things:

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Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

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PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

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