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To wink or not to wink

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By *ommy2125 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport

I suspect that few review the winks given that many are bombarded by penis mail.

However I enjoy a good wink. And I think its quicker and less frustrating to not get a reply, so

How many actually review winks and is it worth it?

Or is a short polite message a better way of starting a conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a wink to show interest.

I understand women get bombarded with messages so I tend to use this method rather than sending a message, they can then view my profile and if interested wink back/message.

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By *ommy2125 OP   Man
over a year ago

newport

I tend to do the same, if I read a profile send a quick wink. But those I met say prefer a message.. Guess I'm answering my own question. Haha

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By *lmond SkinMan
over a year ago

Wales

I prefer to wink first due to volume of messages women get its unreal. A suttle approch fist then a polite message after if there is interest. But some like it some dont catch 22 situation.

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By *agicman2525Man
over a year ago

South Wales

The problem with the site is volume. Too many single men who bombard with messages (and more messages when they don’t reply) and then wink as well. The recipient ends up receiving a huge volume of winks and messages and can be overwhelming. Your message or wink often gets lost or ignored

I prefer a wink as it subtly shows you’re interested. The site should restrict how many winks you have so that the person receives know it comes from a genuine interest and also the same for messages. Once someone replies

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I find them somewhat unavailing. The last time I sent a wink was two weeks ago, at around 2.00am, a reciprocal gesture from a woman who was equally bored in the early hours.

That was the first wink I had sent in over two years.

I often receive winks but rarely look at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is where winks come to die

I'd rather a well thought out message but seems some men don't have the capability to write one.

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By *idnight0810Couple
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

We prefer winks, gives us chance to look at the profile before we wink or message back. Saves them having to write something out if we aren’t interested etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to wink first. Seems a massive waste of time writing something of substance, only for it to get read and instantly deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks, I check out the account and if I like what I see I wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer giving and receiving winks. It gives the recipient a chance to see if we offer anything of interest to them and vice versa. We know how it can get with messages getting lost so it helps people stand out in our opinion

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I check any winks sent, have a look at the profile and pics and then if I'm interested I'll return the wink

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Winks and fabbed pics is the best way to show interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer winks, I tend to pay more attention to them than messages.

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By *reen EyesMan
over a year ago

where you want me

I like to wink then chat if there is any interest as lad8es havea h4d time here. If they want to chat they can then

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By *reen EyesMan
over a year ago

where you want me

Oops excuse my typing thats why I wink

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By *woscoopsswanseaMan
over a year ago

swansea

I always wink.

If I like a profile, I’ll send a wink. If I get a wink back then I’ll compose a message knowing that the recipient is at least a bit interested.

People here get bombarded. This way at least they can messages from people they may be interested in.

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By *utty200Couple
over a year ago

nearby

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By *utty200Couple
over a year ago

nearby

We don't mind winks at all , sometimes you feel obliged to reply to a message , especially if its a nicely worded polite message even if the sender isn't your cup of tea but a wink lets you know someone is interested so you can check out the profile without feeling obligated to return the gesture

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"We don't mind winks at all , sometimes you feel obliged to reply to a message , especially if its a nicely worded polite message even if the sender isn't your cup of tea but a wink lets you know someone is interested so you can check out the profile without feeling obligated to return the gesture "

Exactly this ^^^

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By *hubby11977Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I prefer winks

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Wink away

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