FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By *orgeous_Babe OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Another one! Said no to a friend's request prior to a meet, chucked his dummy out of the pram and blocked me. Brilliant! Starting to get amusing.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I've had it a number of times. People can be arseholes.

That's why I just meet at organised socials these days. If they don't show, still have plenty of company.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

"I've had it a number of times. People can be arseholes.

That's why I just meet at organised socials these days. If they don't show, still have plenty of company."

Don't blame you. Have fun! xx

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By *ampy and zxrCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

Must be bonkers not to turn up to meet u

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

Welcome to the club. Keyboard warriors are a waste of time.

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By *orgeous_Babe OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

Must be bonkers not to turn up to meet u "

Thanks, both. Very delicious pics btw xx

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By *ampy and zxrCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

Must be bonkers not to turn up to meet u

Thanks, both. Very delicious pics btw xx"

Ty urs too xx

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By *orgeous_Babe OP Couple
over a year ago

Near Caerphilly

"Welcome to the club. Keyboard warriors are a waste of time. "

Getting used to it now. They tell me they have the biggest cock and I'll get the best fuck I've ever had, and then they're a no-show.

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By *ampy and zxrCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

Wouldn't mind us both bumping into u out dogging

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By *orthMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Their loss, not that it makes up for the let down, but as said before they must be bonkers to turn a meet down with yourselves. Take it easy

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"Just got blocked by an arsehole who didn't turn up for a meet last night. Confirmed he was on his way and a couple of hours later, I was still waiting. Didn't bother apologising, simply blocked me. Fed up of time wasters on here. "
had that lods of times, even had occasions I've gone out to meat people for them not to turn up and not reply, I've pretty much given up on this place for meats unfortunately.

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By *nitadwon2020Man
over a year ago

aberystwyth

Did they have veris and were found to be genuine and reliable?

And when someone says they ‘have the biggest cock and will give a great time’ alarm bells ring for me for sure!!

My opinion is this is a massive gripe because anyone who looks at my account would see my veris and not a time waster at all, I’ve sent numerous messages and seem to get nowhere and then see posts like this, so maybe people need to look a bit deeper into things…..

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

To me it makes absolutely no sense at all. Why spend time chatting to someone, finding a connection that makes you both want to play and then not turning up! Is it just me or has the fab world gone mad?

As has previously been said, definitely their loss and sounds like a lucky escape for you!

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By *inkytoggerMan
over a year ago

Tarporley

Ironically I've just had the opposite.

I initiated things and started chatting with a couple who stated the same as you, sick of time wasters.

We arranged to meet. On the day, I messaged at lunch to confirm things and they said yes fine after 4pm they will let me know when they're free.

Half hour later THEY blocked ME.

Which is really odd. If you change your mind or get nervous just be honest and apologize.

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By *olejojoWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

A lot of ppl on here are either keyboard warriors or want to try this lifestyle out but in reality can’t go through with it - the amount of time wasters I ve had is unreal .

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By *oaming doggerMan
over a year ago

manchester

I had 2 no shows in 1 day last week, i had travelled an hour to meet someone for a social, they then blocked me when i asked what time they would be coming.

Arranged another meet for on the way back and again no show amd ghosted.

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By *ental monkeysCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

We’ve been let down many times.

We decided after a break from meeting single men we would start meeting again. We went away to west wales and met a bloke for a social on the Friday night. We agreed to meet on the Saturday for fun. Gave him the address and said come over about 7. Up until 3 he was excited to come. Then just didn’t turn up, no call, text or message on fab. Then no apology!

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

And that’s one reason why genuine men have a hard time meeting on here sometimes

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over a year ago

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By *inkytoggerMan
over a year ago

Tarporley

"And that’s one reason why genuine men have a hard time meeting on here sometimes "

This.

I imagine those who time waste are the ones just want a convenient quickie and have either had a "better offer" or has a wank and changed their mind lol

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By *wansea_richMan
over a year ago

swansea

Lots of threads of guys compliant of inability to get a meet. Perhaps try those?

Patience is a vertue,

Possess it if you can,

You'll find it in a woman,

But rarely in a man.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss if you ask me

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

Name and shame I'd say. As guys like him are ruining it for the genius tidy guys

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

There are also plenty of couples and women who mess the guys around. Although I do believe many men are genuine on here but also many lack the ability to follow through in person.

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Just had the same happen to me. Been chatting for a while to a single lady, swapped pictures arranged meeting this afternoon, spoke this morning now just tried to message and I’m blocked

What a waste of time!!!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We had more cpls than singles waste our time. We chatted to a few for weeks and then they ghost you for no reason what so ever. Chin up lovely you are not the only ones on here being messed about. Joanne.x

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Thanks Joanne not upset just annoyed because of the time and planning I put into arranging it inc hotel which luckily I could cancel x

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By *heoriginalCJMan
over a year ago

mystic valley

"Just had the same happen to me. Been chatting for a while to a single lady, swapped pictures arranged meeting this afternoon, spoke this morning now just tried to message and I’m blocked

What a waste of time!!!"

i had exactly the same happen last night from a couple. literally an hour befor meeting and blocked ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a good read. Everyone has a valid point here, and all are correct! I've personally given up on couples profiles due to it mainly being a man. Barely bother with any new profiles as it's just people who can talk the talk and not walk the walk or... is a man. Do love those profiles where it states a couple but when you read the bio... "really want my wife to cheat on me but she needs persuading" they make me chuckle. I can't talk for the whole of Wales but west wales is a shit show for fake/useless/time wasting accounts.

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By *erlin57Man
over a year ago

anerdare

Know it’s shite, but his loss you look fab

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Often get blocked by being polite on here stay on because there is actually some decent friendly people on here

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By *onwelshMan
over a year ago

Where the Dragons Live

"Another one! Said no to a friend's request prior to a meet, chucked his dummy out of the pram and blocked me. Brilliant! Starting to get amusing. "

This place is full of time wasters unfortunately. I have turned up to so many places and been stood up, you wouldnt believe some of the excuses ffs.

I pride myself on being genuine and dont understand why so many people mess others around.

If you want to chat to a decent respectful guy sometime, just let me know x

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We get loads per week. We even have them saying on thier way, pulled up in road, I'm outside only to find they must be the invisible man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with what's been said here.

Too many non genuine people on here acting like kids, and giving those genuine playmates many reasons to leave the site.

It's the few that do stick to their word, and show some respect, that keeps us from leaving x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think couples are the worst for this l've had one couple send me their address and when I turned up and knocked the door an old lady answered I felt terrible low and behold I'd been blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Now that's a new low I've heard of on here! That's disgusting. You can still report profiles that have blocked you can't you? I've not tried before so not sure but for something like that I certainly would have! Disgusting behaviour.

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By *ikesfun1Man
over a year ago

around and about

Unfortunately there are so many time wasters and the worst are the ones that let you drive 30 plus miles to then ignore or block you absolutely infuriating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also like to add... when you get blocked after talking for a couple of days and get to the point of showing a face photo and straight after your blocked because they haven't the balls to tell you sorry you're not for me. Thats just happened this morning. Infuriating!

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By *exySiren01Woman
over a year ago

RCT

I've been on the site for 10 years and have really noticed a difference in the amount of timewasters and fakes increasing. Even though I try my best to them out I've still had many meets cancelled last minute, even when I've been on the way to meet them and this has included verified people. I really don't see a solution to the issue it's just one of the drawbacks of the lifestyle and being on here you've got to take the good with the bad and some can talk the talk but can't walk the walk when it comes to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me a few time then I get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have returned to the site and it is frightening how many fake profiles are on here. I agree with everyone has said look at veris.

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Am I able to name and shame or is that not allowed?

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By *ubyRichardsWoman
over a year ago

swansea

I’m finding more and more that the way forward is arranging a play date with someone you’ve met at an organised social event. Way too many dreamers on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be able to name and shame them even if it's just to worn people

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Naming and shaming is banned because it would be abused by the same type of people that waste people's time not going through with meets.

For every meet I've had there's many more that it was talked about but didn't get far. After a while you can pick up the red flags of a time waster.

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By *icheal99Man
over a year ago

newbridge

Happens to me all the time

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

"Naming and shaming is banned because it would be abused by the same type of people that waste people's time not going through with meets.

For every meet I've had there's many more that it was talked about but didn't get far. After a while you can pick up the red flags of a time waster."

Ok thanks thought it was but just wanted to check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant to have a meet last week

Confirmed time and everything

Admittedly I may have been a tad persistent (not pushy more down to them being late) they explained that it was a family entanglement but still never showed

Haven't heard from them since

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Am I able to name and shame or is that not allowed?"
not allowed. Can get you banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only is it disrespectful but it's also really rude, why make plans to just flake?

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By *riggs69Man
over a year ago

Swansea

That's shocking x

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
over a year ago

Merthyr Tydfil

"Am I able to name and shame or is that not allowed? not allowed. Can get you banned. "

Ok thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most prob a shit shag with a little tic tac lol. X

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By *ohnbr2023Man
over a year ago

nottingham

So sad when there is geninue males who will turn up.

In barmouth for couple weeks soon.

I will turn up if asked

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By *olejojoWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I couldn’t write it since coming back on here - key board warriors who have no intention of meeting . I had a meet lined up this week organised then nothing no reply … i think I may stick to clubs and venture to new ones .

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By *iscreetman09Man
over a year ago

cardiff

This is all I see now on the site. Think a lot just like to talk and the build but have no intention of meeting

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By *DfuntimesXXXTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I can’t begin to tell you how many times we’ve been messed about over the last year. As a slightly different profile, I think we get messed about even more. Yet again today booked a hotel for a meet then the person we meeting not free. Takes the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read somewhere that it's a case of postnut depression that causes men to back out last minute.

The surge of hormones they get thinking about the meet, they crack one off and then oops! The reality of the situation dawns on them and they panic. Their brain is telling them they got the release they needed. They panic about the situation and the promises they made and run away. Until next time they want to crack one off. Its sad that people can be that selfish

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By *agicmarcMan
over a year ago

tonyrefail

gives the genuine single males a bad rep then

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

If i arrange a meet ill show up even if theres no chemistry and it turns into a social, i love banter and getting to know people in the lifestyle, the main problem is the number of couples and single ladies (with good reason after some of the experiences ive heard about) wont contemplate a single guy.

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By *onwelshMan
over a year ago

Where the Dragons Live

Have had a few arranged meets waste my time recently. One in particular, made me drive to there house more than 40 miles away. But when I got there logged off and ignored me. Then messaged a day later saying that the female fainted just before I got there and they were waiting for an ambulance. Bit if a talk story as I sat there for a bloody hour and no sign of life anywhere from the house. Oh well.

Would drop you a private message to chat but you seem to have me blocked, not sure if its all single men or just me. Cant imagine why though as I am one of fabs genuine x

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By *reen EyesMan
over a year ago

Wales

Their loss as you look amazing. Its sad that people.do this. I wpuld not dream of doing it, if you have that connection and both agree then it is rude nkt to tuen up. It can have a real negative affect on some people sending them into a real downer.

I hope you find a new connection. I hope people learn something from all these posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had it on our old profile. Stayed up. Got ready. Only to be ignored. A lot of fantasists and talkers on here

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By *elshhorseMan
over a year ago

ogmore valley

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By *elshhorseMan
over a year ago

ogmore valley

For some unknown reason you have blocked me, timewaster I am not lol .

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By *urious-couple33Couple
over a year ago

Wales/ Tenerife

Had one recently. Met at the Swansea social, carried on chatting on here. Made plans to meet in ours. He did ask for a social on my own, which I declined. Few days before he said he’s hidden his profile but still there and looking forward the meet. Then completely disappeared just before the meet was to happen. Hmmm

I rather meet people in clubs. No planning.. just in the moment.

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By *ornyHumpyMan95Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

It's a shame really, many of us want to get along and send friend requests to network which could lead to a brilliant sesh, but all we get is ghosting, deleting and blocking...not on really.

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

What do they get out of it

Am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I able to name and shame or is that not allowed?"

Name and shame the best way I have the same problem spend so much money to travel to a meet up and they don't show up that why I don't accommodate or travel knaw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked by people that I have not even talked to also some dont even know why they have blocked me. But that's fine by me plenty of fish in the sea

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By *lattankMan
over a year ago

pontypridd

I had one this week. Chatted all day arranged a meet, that she instigated and then I got blocked!

Thanks for wasting my time

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By *nthony76!Man
over a year ago

lligwy

Had a number of people arranging meets then disappearing

Had 1 do it then message again the week after,,,,,

I thought let's see if they are serial and yup they did it again.

They have varies too, although hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so mamy on here lately! Its crazy, this site is going downhill

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over a year ago

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By *laytonAMan
over a year ago

Newport

Sorry to read this op. This has happened to me once they just disappeared off fab. I was in contact on another medium so asked why. Didn't get a response for months then had the cheek to ask to meet again no apology, so a polite no was given.

I guess there a some who choose to behave a certain way its a shame but just the way some are.

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By *oves2please2021Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I’ve had my fair share of time wasters, it’s made me abit wiser now.

I recently met a traveling Hotwife that was staying in a local hotel, for work. She was here Monday-Friday. She had arranged socials with 3 other guys and all 3 let her down.

In my eyes there needs to be a better verification process.

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We have had a few time wasters, it like their arranging meets n once it's arranged they get all excited about it, have a wank at the thought of it then not turn up.

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

I get it all the time message someone then get blocked or so something out for a meet then thay delete there profile

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By *yleighMan
over a year ago

bridgend

Site is full of fake time wasters

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

"There are so mamy on here lately! Its crazy, this site is going downhill"

Totally agree

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By *kpower1Man
over a year ago

anywhere

Spoils it for guys like me who would love to meet. Fingers crossed I get an Invite one day haha.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We sat in a pub for an hour once waiting for a single guy to turn up he didn't blocked him, his loss, you'd think single men would be a bit wiser!!

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