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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i'm strongly thinking of meeting a bi couple to see if I would enjoy the experience can anybody advise please or is it best to just find someone and ask......not sure whether i'm nervous, excited or nervously excited.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm strongly thinking of meeting a bi couple to see if I would enjoy the experience can anybody advise please or is it best to just find someone and ask......not sure whether i'm nervous, excited or nervously excited..... "
do you ask at the postoffice whats it like to lick a stamp or what?

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"i'm strongly thinking of meeting a bi couple to see if I would enjoy the experience can anybody advise please or is it best to just find someone and ask......not sure whether i'm nervous, excited or nervously excited..... do you ask at the postoffice whats it like to lick a stamp or what?"

pmsl you dont have to lick stamps any more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i'm strongly thinking of meeting a bi couple to see if I would enjoy the experience can anybody advise please or is it best to just find someone and ask......not sure whether i'm nervous, excited or nervously excited..... do you ask at the postoffice whats it like to lick a stamp or what?"

Dont get you......this isn't a post office its a swingers site......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wondered why I couldn't find the stamps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wondered why I couldn't find the stamps "
they have all been licked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just go meet a couple and try it out after all we are s swing site. Go to a swing club or party and give it a try if you think your a bit bi

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By *pbiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

I've heard that chams has a bi night on a Monday? Other than than go to the gay night and try guy on guy see if you can

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Chams on a monday....thanks guys

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

According to the Chams website there is no Bi night in Newport on a Monday as it operates as the Greenhouse gay sauna other than on Friday and Saturday nights. Darlaston has Bi night on Mondays though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard that chams has a bi night on a Monday? Other than than go to the gay night and try guy on guy see if you can "

Not Newport Mond to Thur homosexual men only

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks......its the having a woman there as a safety net so to speak i was looking for.....que sarky answer from group4 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks......its the having a woman there as a safety net so to speak i was looking for.....que sarky answer from group4 lol "

I think a lot of couples will see this as a guy claiming to want to try bi in the hope that it will get u some action with a woman hence the woman as a safety net comment, this isn't a criticism just pointing out that this is plot used by many a guy , if you're really looking for bi fun then good luck to u i hope it works out but i think u need to decide either u want to do it or u don't , i don't think a couple will be too pleased if they meet u expecting u to play with them both only for u to decide half way through that u only want to play with the lady .

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans


"Chams on a monday....thanks guys "

yea newport chams is only open friday/saturday nights

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks......its the having a woman there as a safety net so to speak i was looking for.....que sarky answer from group4 lol

I think a lot of couples will see this as a guy claiming to want to try bi in the hope that it will get u some action with a woman hence the woman as a safety net comment, this isn't a criticism just pointing out that this is plot used by many a guy , if you're really looking for bi fun then good luck to u i hope it works out but i think u need to decide either u want to do it or u don't , i don't think a couple will be too pleased if they meet u expecting u to play with them both only for u to decide half way through that u only want to play with the lady

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thanks for the advice

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

neath


"Thanks......its the having a woman there as a safety net so to speak i was looking for.....que sarky answer from group4 lol

I think a lot of couples will see this as a guy claiming to want to try bi in the hope that it will get u some action with a woman hence the woman as a safety net comment, this isn't a criticism just pointing out that this is plot used by many a guy , if you're really looking for bi fun then good luck to u i hope it works out but i think u need to decide either u want to do it or u don't , i don't think a couple will be too pleased if they meet u expecting u to play with them both only for u to decide half way through that u only want to play with the lady

. thanks for the advice "

lmmfao sad

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


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I think a lot of couples will see this as a guy claiming to want to try bi in the hope that it will get u some action with a woman hence the woman as a safety net comment, this isn't a criticism just pointing out that this is plot used by many a guy , if you're really looking for bi fun then good luck to u i hope it works out but i think u need to decide either u want to do it or u don't , i don't think a couple will be too pleased if they meet u expecting u to play with them both only for u to decide half way through that u only want to play with the lady ."

We totally agree with this comment and will not meet any guy that says that he wants to try bi fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're exactly the same. So many straight guys saying they want to try bi or help us out but want to fuck the Mrs first. Like he isn't going to make an excuse after fucking the Mrs.

We'd need someone that is openly bi and is willing to play with both of us.

Mr has had a few experiences on his own with guys without having to 'have a safety net'. If you wanna go play with a guy like someone already said go to a gar bar or try Gaydar. You'll soon find out whether you want to do it or not without turning around and playing with the Mrs only. If that did happen you might get a surprise and find Mr has stuck his cock in your ass while licking stamps watching Postman Pat porn!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks......its the having a woman there as a safety net so to speak"

Classic

I don't know who will feel the most used. The lady for being there as a "safety net" or the guy being a test subject then being rejected if the op doesn't like it.

I wonder though if the op would be so enthusiastic to meet if the stipulation was to play with the guy while the lady only watches?

I do like the cunning plan! it was working well until you mentioned "safety net"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are ever going to have any meaningful bi experience with a couple, you have to win the male half over first.

I can speak having experienced it as part of a couple myself.

Too many people think that saying they are bi will double their chances of getting 'that' couple into bed. The reality is, you have to win their trust, make them realise that you aren't just saying something and then when you get into the situation you just 'go to work' on the female and ignore the male.

A good test we used to do was to try and involve the two males before the woman even gets involved. It could just be a kiss, some rubbing through clothes, anything, just to see if they flinch or enjoy it!!!

Now I'm single, I know the onus is on me to prove myself.

Remember, the couple are letting you into their relationship, you are the priviliged one.

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