FabSwingers.com forum: First experiences

By *aby-girl and b OP Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Hey first time writing on a forum but as I'm new to this lifestyle I'm interested in what everyone's first experience was like? As I'm still very nervous and only done social events so far x

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By *wzerMan
over a year ago

Milford Haven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first experience was a voyeuristic one with another couple where we just played with our own partners on the same bed, it was extremely erotic..

Our first mfm was with a fella from this site, had a social in a pub then decided to take him home for a play meet once everyone was relaxed.

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By *saucyHPCouple
over a year ago

conwy

Our first experience was a MFM, we’d met in a hotel that had been at a midway point to us all, hubby and I met him in the bar, we had a few drinks and then proceeded up to the room. The experience was amazing, the combination of nervousness and excitement was quite honestly hedonistic and what a euphoria.

I personally did feel a moment of guilt/ worry come the morning as I had enjoyed myself so much and was worried that something might have changed in the relationship between hubby and I, but he quickly put those thoughts to rest. I think they key to it is being open in your discussions as a couple and enjoy. X

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By *weetnotinnocentCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We had our first play last week which was straight in the deep end with two other couples and loved it! Go for it!

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By *inx and ViperCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

A good idea would be to have a social with a couple get to know them abit

When you all feel happy move things to the bedroom even if it’s just to have sex next to the other couple while you guys have sex (clubs are good for this)

You can progress then on to soft swap then full swap if all parties are happy

One bit of advice from us is that you have a safe word that anyone can use if they are not happy or enjoying and if the word is spoken all play stops and no one is funny etc

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By *aby-girl and b OP Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"A good idea would be to have a social with a couple get to know them abit

When you all feel happy move things to the bedroom even if it’s just to have sex next to the other couple while you guys have sex (clubs are good for this)

Thank u that is great advice

You can progress then on to soft swap then full swap if all parties are happy

One bit of advice from us is that you have a safe word that anyone can use if they are not happy or enjoying and if the word is spoken all play stops and no one is funny etc "

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By *aby-girl and b OP Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"A good idea would be to have a social with a couple get to know them abit

When you all feel happy move things to the bedroom even if it’s just to have sex next to the other couple while you guys have sex (clubs are good for this)

You can progress then on to soft swap then full swap if all parties are happy

One bit of advice from us is that you have a safe word that anyone can use if they are not happy or enjoying and if the word is spoken all play stops and no one is funny etc "
thank u

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just a so ial for our first experience but then met the same couple a few months later for food and went back to their hotel where we did a little sift swap. Had a really good evening, and met them a few times after.

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By *holelotofrosieCouple
over a year ago

newtown

We’ve just had our first meet and it was fantastic , messaged and talked to the other couple a lot beforehand , discussed likes and do’s and dont’s , think we struck particularly lucky !

We also went to the Newport social and met loads of lovely couples and would highly recommend going !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was originally just meant to be a social but after a few drinks and great conversations we decided to get a hotel and had a great night.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Our first one was at a local club. We'd been talking about it for a few weeks and decided one night to take the plunge. We were so nervous! Took us forever to get the nerve to ring the doorbell once we got there!

When we arrived, we had a tour, said hi to some people and then stripped off and jumped in the massive hot tub

Later, we found a private room for ourselves and had a very noisy shag listening to an orgy in the room next door! Then we went home

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By *aby-girl and b OP Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

"We’ve just had our first meet and it was fantastic , messaged and talked to the other couple a lot beforehand , discussed likes and do’s and dont’s , think we struck particularly lucky !

We also went to the Newport social and met loads of lovely couples and would highly recommend going ! "
yeh we’ve been to Newport social really enjoyed it

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