FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By *hickdickwales OP Man
over a year ago

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Hey all. First time posting in the forum. I'm looking for advice on my profile to improve chances of replies and messages etc.

Happy for any feedback positive or negative.

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

First thing. Change the profile pic. Try and limit the amount of dick pics you put up. It puts a lot of people off. This place isn’t about quick hookups, you have to sell yourself.

Your bio is pretty decent though. If you want to have an impact, get yourself to the socials. Best way to meet people. Good luck OP

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By *ental monkeysCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

For me a dick pick as a profile photo is off putting. I always look for more tasteful photos as a profile photo. Dick picks could be kept in your friends only photos. More photos definitely needed.

Attend an organised social to get some veris and people may be more interested in giving you a chance.

Everyone looks for different things, this is just my opinion.

Mrs monkey xx

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By *hickdickwales OP Man
over a year ago

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Thanks for the feedback it's appreciated!! What would get attention as a profile pic. I'm dubious about using a face pic straight away as I work in public facing job so could be awkward at some points lol

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Chest pics, ass etc anything but a dick pic. Im put off by your profile pic and you dont do safe sex but some people like that, its just a personal preference.

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By *hickdickwales OP Man
over a year ago

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I didn't even realise safe sex was an option on there. I breezed straight passed that one, my bad. But I will take that on board too! New profile pic to follow lol

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By *ental monkeysCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

"Thanks for the feedback it's appreciated!! What would get attention as a profile pic. I'm dubious about using a face pic straight away as I work in public facing job so could be awkward at some points lol "

You don’t need a face photo! Never put your face on display if you’re not comfortable with it! Keep one in your friends or private list. So

Exactly what Draig said, chest, arms bum etc etc

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By *hickdickwales OP Man
over a year ago

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Love the constructive feedback thanks. Need to get to socials now too. They mostly get arranged in the forum too?

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

"Love the constructive feedback thanks. Need to get to socials now too. They mostly get arranged in the forum too? "

Yes they do. Some of the bigger socials you will need to be verified but there are smaller ones that you can put your name down for if you are not verified. If you do put your name down for a social, just be sure to always let them know if your plans change and you can’t make it.

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By *hickdickwales OP Man
over a year ago

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Oh yeah I wouldn't just not turn up without letting people know not really my style anyway to be honest. Never been to a social either so will figure out how they work too!

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

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"Oh yeah I wouldn't just not turn up without letting people know not really my style anyway to be honest. Never been to a social either so will figure out how they work too! "

Just be sure to go and see introduce yourself to people. Don’t sit in a corner waiting for people to approach. Remember that the socials are not about the naughty side of fab but the getting to know people side. Talk to anyone and everyone. It’s always appreciated when 1st timers (especially single males) make an effort to be social at these events. Sure you will do fine.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

2 days ago a profile with the username Mark201181 started a thread asking for people’s opinion of his profile as well, his bio was exactly the same as yours, word for word…

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By *uck300Man
over a year ago

cathays

I could appreciate some help too guys please. Thanks

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

"2 days ago a profile with the username Mark201181 started a thread asking for people’s opinion of his profile as well, his bio was exactly the same as yours, word for word…"

Just checked this out and you are right. Both of those profiles blocked now. Damn fakes everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this what this site has become. Fakes and people trying to out you. Thought we were all here for fun with no drama.

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Penclawdd

"I could appreciate some help too guys please. Thanks "

Start your own thread so the replies don’t get confused.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I could appreciate some help too guys please. Thanks "

Read the advice given higher up in the thread. And put the dick pics in your friend's file. Dick pics are very off putting to lots of people

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By *hickdickwales OP Man
over a year ago

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Okay that's great advice thank you!! If I manage to attend one soon I will definitely do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read all comments and taken that on board. I was the same as u lol. See us bloke will never know what a girl really wants unless we ask lol

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Hey all. First time posting in the forum. I'm looking for advice on my profile to improve chances of replies and messages etc.

Happy for any feedback positive or negative. "

Dick pics put most ladies off on here. If they ask for one then thats ok but having one as a profile pic would definately put me off.

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