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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I sent a lady a nice email this evening stating that I had noticed her profile and that I thought the profile pictures we well composed and showed her bofy off perfectly.

In the email I stated I was not looking to meet up with her (way out of my league and she would not look at a chubby fella in anycase) and that I just wanted to complement her on her pictures.

The email was read and i was subsequently blocked by the lady.

If the lady did not want her pictures to be viewed and comments made why put them on show in the first place and secondly, why when you get a compliment do you feel the need to block me ??

Glad she would not meet me as she is obviously so far up her own arse she could not hold a decent conversation anyway.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I sent a lady a nice email this evening stating that I had noticed her profile and that I thought the profile pictures we well composed and showed her bofy off perfectly.

In the email I stated I was not looking to meet up with her (way out of my league and she would not look at a chubby fella in anycase) and that I just wanted to complement her on her pictures.

The email was read and i was subsequently blocked by the lady.

If the lady did not want her pictures to be viewed and comments made why put them on show in the first place and secondly, why when you get a compliment do you feel the need to block me ??

Glad she would not meet me as she is obviously so far up her own arse she could not hold a decent conversation anyway."

well i have to say our profile and pics are there for us to find the people we want to meet and not for others to view just for the sake of it.. however we can't select that the profile is only viewed by those that we would consider meeting so if we get people who are not what we would meet viewing time and time again we block them.

Would we block after a message like that no maybe not but if it followed or preceeded lots of profile views then yes

We probably would. Yes we have public pics but there are only there to find playmates they are not there to provide material for guys and couples we wouldnt meet to wank over in all honesty. If we wanted that we would put them on other sites.

She could well have read your message as a bit creepy and possibly even hopeful that she would meet you. thats just how it could be read from what you put here. she might have thought youd be back again and again viewing pics.. maybe she had something to use for subject and you didnt .. lots of reasons and none could mean she is up her own..you might have been the 20th message saying same thing in matter of minutes.. you werent looking to meet you said she wouldnt look at you so nothing lost anyway..

But as you said you were not looking to meet here anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

us single men get bocked for many other reason. live with it. we are here as the ladies or cpls play thing . not for our pleasure x

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

There are plenty of couples and single women on here who are proud of the large number of profiles they block. Sad!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sent a lady a nice email this evening stating that I had noticed her profile and that I thought the profile pictures we well composed and showed her bofy off perfectly.

In the email I stated I was not looking to meet up with her (way out of my league and she would not look at a chubby fella in anycase) and that I just wanted to complement her on her pictures.

The email was read and i was subsequently blocked by the lady.

If the lady did not want her pictures to be viewed and comments made why put them on show in the first place and secondly, why when you get a compliment do you feel the need to block me ??

Glad she would not meet me as she is obviously so far up her own arse she could not hold a decent conversation anyway.

well i have to say our profile and pics are there for us to find the people we want to meet and not for others to view just for the sake of it.. however we can't select that the profile is only viewed by those that we would consider meeting so if we get people who are not what we would meet viewing time and time again we block them.

Would we block after a message like that no maybe not but if it followed or preceeded lots of profile views then yes

We probably would. Yes we have public pics but there are only there to find playmates they are not there to provide material for guys and couples we wouldnt meet to wank over in all honesty. If we wanted that we would put them on other sites.

She could well have read your message as a bit creepy and possibly even hopeful that she would meet you. thats just how it could be read from what you put here. she might have thought youd be back again and again viewing pics.. maybe she had something to use for subject and you didnt .. lots of reasons and none could mean she is up her own..you might have been the 20th message saying same thing in matter of minutes.. you werent looking to meet you said she wouldnt look at you so nothing lost anyway..

But as you said you were not looking to meet here anyway.."

I only said she would not meet me having read her profile, its a case of manners in my eyes, all she had to do was say thankyou but your not my type, there are too many people with their heads up their arse on this site. I've made some good friends on this site and chat to many people who would not meet me and vice versa but we still speak and treat each other with respect.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

There are an awful lot really pissed off with the number of people that they have to block on this site.. It shouldnt have to be that way.. but sadly it is..lol if people used site as intended there wouldnt be the need for it.. bit hey some people will always spoil it for others thats the nature of the site...

But no one needs to put up with childish immature attitudes of alot of the people who see fit to conduct themselves in the manner they do..

You have never acted in that way to us chunky so that was a general observation not at the blocking you had from the message you sent to that member..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"us single men get bocked for many other reason. live with it. we are here as the ladies or cpls play thing . not for our pleasure x"

I'm not bothered Colin in fact if that is the person she is im happy - my point is more about the respect that is afforded to members of the site. There are to many members that lack decent manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are an awful lot really pissed off with the number of people that they have to block on this site.. It shouldnt have to be that way.. but sadly it is..lol if people used site as intended there wouldnt be the need for it.. bit hey some people will always spoil it for others thats the nature of the site...

But no one needs to put up with childish immature attitudes of alot of the people who see fit to conduct themselves in the manner they do..

You have never acted in that way to us chunky so that was a general observation not at the blocking you had from the message you sent to that member.. "

will always respect the decent people on here fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are plenty of couples and single women on here who are proud of the large number of profiles they block. Sad!"

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I sent a lady a nice email this evening stating that I had noticed her profile and that I thought the profile pictures we well composed and showed her bofy off perfectly.

In the email I stated I was not looking to meet up with her (way out of my league and she would not look at a chubby fella in anycase) and that I just wanted to complement her on her pictures.

The email was read and i was subsequently blocked by the lady.

If the lady did not want her pictures to be viewed and comments made why put them on show in the first place and secondly, why when you get a compliment do you feel the need to block me ??

Glad she would not meet me as she is obviously so far up her own arse she could not hold a decent conversation anyway.

well i have to say our profile and pics are there for us to find the people we want to meet and not for others to view just for the sake of it.. however we can't select that the profile is only viewed by those that we would consider meeting so if we get people who are not what we would meet viewing time and time again we block them.

Would we block after a message like that no maybe not but if it followed or preceeded lots of profile views then yes

We probably would. Yes we have public pics but there are only there to find playmates they are not there to provide material for guys and couples we wouldnt meet to wank over in all honesty. If we wanted that we would put them on other sites.

She could well have read your message as a bit creepy and possibly even hopeful that she would meet you. thats just how it could be read from what you put here. she might have thought youd be back again and again viewing pics.. maybe she had something to use for subject and you didnt .. lots of reasons and none could mean she is up her own..you might have been the 20th message saying same thing in matter of minutes.. you werent looking to meet you said she wouldnt look at you so nothing lost anyway..

But as you said you were not looking to meet here anyway..

I only said she would not meet me having read her profile, its a case of manners in my eyes, all she had to do was say thankyou but your not my type, there are too many people with their heads up their arse on this site. I've made some good friends on this site and chat to many people who would not meet me and vice versa but we still speak and treat each other with respect.

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yep get that but you have to see it from her side too we reply to all including winks and invites however in doing so our block list grows quicker as we are inundated with why ... just meet me.. im normal .. replies and repeated messages from guys we have said no to.. now yes in an ideal world she would have said thanks but no thanks .. however she was not to know that you were not the sort to push it.. you can never tell from a first message which ones will be the ones that wont take no for an answer.. she could have had loads that day... if you could see the ones we get that go on and on and on trying to force s meet you might see that there maybe a reason behind it..

we would love to have no one on our block list but nature of alot of members usually brief members but not always mean its not possible...

Honestly even if just being nice best not to message unless looking for meet.. we messaged a new guy long time ago just said high welcome to site happy swinging.. nothing else got very abusive reply... so its not that sort of sort of site far too many rude people..

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Surely tons of not wanted messages makes one acting blunt and blocking everyone undesired regardless them being polite. This is called frustration.

Careful though, if frustration justify being blunt and ignorant, it might justify the poor fella getting upset after being rejected by everyone too..

It's bit of a double edged sword..

Of course this is just a consideration. I am not having a dig at anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"us single men get bocked for many other reason. live with it. we are here as the ladies or cpls play thing . not for our pleasure x"

And just you men remember it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you make it absolutely clear that you weren't trying to hit on her?

Did you read her profile clearly and meet the criteria she specified in a person even though you weren't trying?

Even if it is bad mannered, nobody owes you anything on this site and the block button is there to filter out incompatibility. Some use it, some don't. She did.

Grow a thicker skin, stop whining, accept that its something you can't change on here, and move onwards and upwards.

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By *etlinkMan
over a year ago

cardiff


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Grow a thicker skin, stop whining, accept that its something you can't change on here, and move onwards and upwards."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not whining been shunned by better people before and will no doubt will be again, but people just have some manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you make it absolutely clear that you weren't trying to hit on her?

Did you read her profile clearly and meet the criteria she specified in a person even though you weren't trying?

Even if it is bad mannered, nobody owes you anything on this site and the block button is there to filter out incompatibility. Some use it, some don't. She did.

Grow a thicker skin, stop whining, accept that its something you can't change on here, and move onwards and upwards."

Not whining about it, been shunned buy more attractive people such as yourself, but the difference was you had the manners and respect to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people block for all sorts of reasons.

personally, i get repetitive msgs from same guys so now i just block to save them from msging me again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"people block for all sorts of reasons.

personally, i get repetitive msgs from same guys so now i just block to save them from msging me again."

That I can understand cariad. From what I know of you in the chat room though I'm sure you would have replied with respect in the first instance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You keep harping on about respect, yet you have made a conscious decision to not respect the lady in question.

Instead of graciously respecting the fact she has blocked you and wants nothing to do with you. You post asking why, complaining about how she has shown no manners or respect towards you.

Why the fuck would she? Quote “way out of my league and she would not look at a chubby fella in any case”. Then you proceed to slate her by declaring, “Glad she would not meet me as she is obviously so far up her own arse she could not hold a decent conversation anyway”

Let’s look at YOUR statements, you have not given her any reason as to why she would want to respect you, then you openly condemn the lady by saying she’s up her own arse. Where’s the respect from you? There is none

Another thing respect is earned not given, just because you are sitting behind a screen doesn’t mean people have to be respectful or polite to you.

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By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

neath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some ppl block just cos they aint interested and they dont want the member to keep messaging them. Thats why we got the choice to block love. Dont worry about it and move on CAT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You keep harping on about respect, yet you have made a conscious decision to not respect the lady in question.

Instead of graciously respecting the fact she has blocked you and wants nothing to do with you. You post asking why, complaining about how she has shown no manners or respect towards you.

Why the fuck would she? Quote “way out of my league and she would not look at a chubby fella in any case”. Then you proceed to slate her by declaring, “Glad she would not meet me as she is obviously so far up her own arse she could not hold a decent conversation anyway”

Let’s look at YOUR statements, you have not given her any reason as to why she would want to respect you, then you openly condemn the lady by saying she’s up her own arse. Where’s the respect from you? There is none

Another thing respect is earned not given, just because you are sitting behind a screen doesn’t mean people have to be respectful or polite to you.

"

If I was not showing respect then I would have named her in the post but that is against the forum rules im merely stating my opinion that people lack respect and manners on time - just because I might be out of her league it does not mean she should act that way towards me and others.

Yes she is entitled to act the way she wants it does not mean I have to like it and yes if I want to have an open discussion in the forums about manners when being messages it's my choice. I did not disrespect the lady in anyway so why should she be allowed to disrespect me without a right of reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always block guys I'm not interested in. Get so many messages (50+ per day), and so many send repeat messages, its easier to just block them... Why should I have to reply to them all?! It's totally unrealistic to think we owe anything to one-annother! After all, I'm not here to make "friends", I'm here to find what I am looking for.. I don't need people telling me I'm attractive etc etc, I'm not here for an ego boost. So maybe she feels the same?

Don't take offence, If you aren't interested and she isn't either, then what's the problem?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over it, lots of assholes everywhere! Don't upset yourself over someone who  doesn't know you. Take it as a rejection and move on. Been here for forever, not a single meet! Lol!

Feeling too horny, go knock one out!

Let's move along, everyone makes mistakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your sentiments fella, manners cost not a jot and as long as you were being courteous I really don't understand the need for blocking.

A polite no thanks goes a long way, if it is diregarded then of course expected to be blocked. No loss though mate, and to those who endorse this level of discourtesy ask yourself if you would be happy with being facepalmed for saying hello on a face to face basis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get over it, lots of assholes everywhere! Don't upset yourself over someone who  doesn't know you. Take it as a rejection and move on. Been here for forever, not a single meet! Lol!

Feeling too horny, go knock one out!

Let's move along, everyone makes mistakes! "

also what he says dickheads will be dickheads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You keep harping on about respect, yet you have made a conscious decision to not respect the lady in question.

Instead of graciously respecting the fact she has blocked you and wants nothing to do with you. You post asking why, complaining about how she has shown no manners or respect towards you.

Why the fuck would she? Quote “way out of my league and she would not look at a chubby fella in any case”. Then you proceed to slate her by declaring, “Glad she would not meet me as she is obviously so far up her own arse she could not hold a decent conversation anyway”

Let’s look at YOUR statements, you have not given her any reason as to why she would want to respect you, then you openly condemn the lady by saying she’s up her own arse. Where’s the respect from you? There is none

Another thing respect is earned not given, just because you are sitting behind a screen doesn’t mean people have to be respectful or polite to you.

If I was not showing respect then I would have named her in the post but that is against the forum rules im merely stating my opinion that people lack respect and manners on time - just because I might be out of her league it does not mean she should act that way towards me and others.

Yes she is entitled to act the way she wants it does not mean I have to like it and yes if I want to have an open discussion in the forums about manners when being messages it's my choice. I did not disrespect the lady in anyway so why should she be allowed to disrespect me without a right of reply "

you would not have named her in the post BECAUSE THAT WOULD BREAK FABS RULES AND YOU WOULD BE BANNED get a bliddy life and move on. WE ALL HAVE A CHOICE IF WE WANT TO BLOCK WE CAN END OF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol this is enough to make me block him!? Hahaha oh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it's nice to know a forum post can raise so many opinions. Does make me question the attitude of people on here. It's each to their own but I'm glad I have my manners and the many friends I have made on the site appreciate me for the respect I show them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are not 'dickheads' or 'assholes' because they choose to block incompatible people. I get a shit-ton of messages per day, even with my filters on maximum. Most haven't bothered to read my profile and are, thus, deleted unread. If I'm not interested, do I have to reply to ALL of them if I'm not attracted, or if they don't match my criteria? Do I bollocks.

Some people on here need to reach down their pants, check their balls are still there, and lose their deluded sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's not to the OP as such, more of an open letter to all the whiny men on Fab.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Well it's nice to know a forum post can raise so many opinions. Does make me question the attitude of people on here. It's each to their own but I'm glad I have my manners and the many friends I have made on the site appreciate me for the respect I show them. "

Attitude?

Like the one that made you say she had her head up her arse?

"...I'm glad I have my manners...", well, your definition of manners and mine differ then, if thats what they make you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are not 'dickheads' or 'assholes' because they choose to block incompatible people. I get a shit-ton of messages per day, even with my filters on maximum. Most haven't bothered to read my profile and are, thus, deleted unread. If I'm not interested, do I have to reply to ALL of them if I'm not attracted, or if they don't match my criteria? Do I bollocks.

Some people on here need to reach down their pants, check their balls are still there, and lose their deluded sense of entitlement. "

I like this girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people block for all sorts of reasons.

personally, i get repetitive msgs from same guys so now i just block to save them from msging me again.

That I can understand cariad. From what I know of you in the chat room though I'm sure you would have replied with respect in the first instance "

I have exactly the same problem, I've tried the polite thanks but no thanks and for my efforts have had everything from the nice thank you for replying, to the nastier messages passing comment on my sze, my looks and my ability to attract a guy. There is no way to predict who will be nice and who will be nasty, so to prevent my self esteem from being damaged I block. This ensures that both parties are clear we're not for each other. Sorry if that offends but I'm here to enhance my fun not leave myself open for abuse xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whoa horsey! where's all this hostility come from?

maybe wrong choice of word to use dickheads but good manners are the axle grease for the wheels of any good society even this one I'd suggest. Peachyboo does make a good point, and do you know what the people being rude to her are deplorable dickheads. However to block anyone for a polite (assuming it was polite) compliment isn't a great approach really or am I missing something? Surely the bottom line is everyone is here for one reason, that reason demands attracting attention to yourself, if when receiving that attention you chuck your toys out of the pram, well it is a bit like visiting a prostitute then spitting in her face in disgust at your own uncontrollable need for vice?!

Ava we have chatted in the past and I have found you to be a most polite and charming woman so don't think i'm digging you or anyone really, I just happen to think "polite indifference" as Atticus Finch put it, is far preferrable to outright bad manners.

just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hostility, just calling things as I see. Debate is always good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how are you anyway Ava? You good?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it's nice to know a forum post can raise so many opinions. Does make me question the attitude of people on here. It's each to their own but I'm glad I have my manners and the many friends I have made on the site appreciate me for the respect I show them.

Attitude?

Like the one that made you say she had her head up her arse?

"...I'm glad I have my manners...", well, your definition of manners and mine differ then, if thats what they make you do.

"

Behaviour breeds behaviour and if there was some initial manners this post and discussion would not be required.

It's a sad reflection on society when common courtesy and manners are not given.

This is true about every day life not just fab I've worked in a customer facing environment for over 20 years and attitudes have changed and not for the better.

This is not aimed at anyone on this forum discussion as all opinions are valid. It's just mine differ from others and I'm entitled to voice mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it's nice to know a forum post can raise so many opinions. Does make me question the attitude of people on here. It's each to their own but I'm glad I have my manners and the many friends I have made on the site appreciate me for the respect I show them.

Attitude?

Like the one that made you say she had her head up her arse?

"...I'm glad I have my manners...", well, your definition of manners and mine differ then, if thats what they make you do.

Behaviour breeds behaviour and if there was some initial manners this post and discussion would not be required.

It's a sad reflection on society when common courtesy and manners are not given.

This is true about every day life not just fab I've worked in a customer facing environment for over 20 years and attitudes have changed and not for the better.

This is not aimed at anyone on this forum discussion as all opinions are valid. It's just mine differ from others and I'm entitled to voice mine

"

Can't believe Avo's answer is being classed as hostile. You all say people are entitled to their opinion yet when they give one, people moan.

Our profile says we prefer people of a similar size and shape plus we have an age restriction so if some old fat cpl mail us no matter how politely, I think we have every right to block them because they are either being cheeky fuckers or simply can't read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No hostility, just calling things as I see. Debate is always good "

Couldn't agree more, keep it up x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it's nice to know a forum post can raise so many opinions. Does make me question the attitude of people on here. It's each to their own but I'm glad I have my manners and the many friends I have made on the site appreciate me for the respect I show them.

Attitude?

Like the one that made you say she had her head up her arse?

"...I'm glad I have my manners...", well, your definition of manners and mine differ then, if thats what they make you do.

Behaviour breeds behaviour and if there was some initial manners this post and discussion would not be required.

It's a sad reflection on society when common courtesy and manners are not given.

This is true about every day life not just fab I've worked in a customer facing environment for over 20 years and attitudes have changed and not for the better.

This is not aimed at anyone on this forum discussion as all opinions are valid. It's just mine differ from others and I'm entitled to voice mine

Can't believe Avo's answer is being classed as hostile. You all say people are entitled to their opinion yet when they give one, people moan.

Our profile says we prefer people of a similar size and shape plus we have an age restriction so if some old fat cpl mail us no matter how politely, I think we have every right to block them because they are either being cheeky fuckers or simply can't read.

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Never stated Ava was hostile - i think that was other people - ive not debated the right to block peeple only stated that manners are missing from some people. Yes I agree if you have stated a preference and people do not read then yes block them but when you are paid a compliment and thats all to block someone say a bit a bit about the type of person they are.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Anyway you said you didn't want to meet her. Maybe she like you after all but was offended by you rejecting her already before even knowing her. Hence the B option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway you said you didn't want to meet her. Maybe she like you after all but was offended by you rejecting her already before even knowing her. Hence the B option

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fair dues... great point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single woman on this site, i like to get compliments about my pics and will answer with a polite 'thankyou' whenever anyone messages with one...i enjoy taking them and i like the feedback and it's only manners after all!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as a single woman on this site, i like to get compliments about my pics and will answer with a polite 'thankyou' whenever anyone messages with one...i enjoy taking them and i like the feedback and it's only manners after all!!

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Thank you Scarlett x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda see where you are coming from but at the end of the day this is a swingers site and everyone has a choice. I can only imagine how many messages couples and women of all shapes and sizes get on here (you're 10 could be my 6 or vica versa) so let them choose and more on.

I have messages from men that clearly don't read my profile where it says NOT INTERESTED IN MEN and times that by 50-100 a day and couples have to deal with that.

Going off tangent a bit here but to make the point again, it's a swingers site so I wouldn't worry about it. Plenty more fish in the sea I'm sure.

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