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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand that being attached puts a lot of women off, just wondering what the general consensus is ? Not here to be judged as we all have our reasons for being on here. Just asking for a general opinion really.

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By *inky B and kinky DCouple
over a year ago

pwllheli

For us it a big no especially if the wife or partner doesn't know,we have enough drama in our lifes to think about adding more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That makes sense, no one wants the drama, I get that, thanks

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

If I find out someone is attached, I don't get involved. I don't want an angry partner knocking on my door

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Cheaters no

Ethical non monogamy very welcome

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

Attached guys aren't what we are seeking. Definitely not wanting the drama.

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

Anyone whether male or female who are here without their partners consent is a big no for us.

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By *ameswills1Man
over a year ago

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Not my place to judge, we all have different reasons for being here. I've no issue meeting an attached person as long as they leave the drama outside the door!

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By *ouble_Trouble_X2Couple
over a year ago

caerphilly

Unfortunately it's not our thing, we would never knowingly play with someone attached man or woman. Even if discretion is assured you never know if you will get a message or knock on the door. Unfortunately it does happen if someone isn't forthcoming to begin with but that's the same concept for alot of other swinging/playing situations

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By *lanka300Man
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I’ve been told a few times that I’m a liar when I’ve given the reason why. To be expected I suppose, but sometimes not everything is black and white in that she doesn’t know.

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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago

my house

Big no from me.

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By *itaMiaWoman
over a year ago

Taffs Well

Major no from me. I will only consider if they are single or their other half knows. I don't like cheaters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big yes from me X

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By *icar73Man
over a year ago

near you check GPS location

Hi Slush, just read your post re cheating.

It's good to hear some honesty instead of all the preachy crap in most posts.

Just looked at your profile,was going to fab some pics but option not available.

Wishing you lots of fun down there in Wales

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Slush, just read your post re cheating.

It's good to hear some honesty instead of all the preachy crap in most posts.

Just looked at your profile,was going to fab some pics but option not available.

Wishing you lots of fun down there in Wales

xx"

Thanks, it's not a popular view but at least I'm honest & yes I've been both sides of this particular fence X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't understand why some people get so up themselves and judgemental. This is a swinging site - there are a lot of people in the vanilla world who would cast a very negative view of absolutely anyone using a site like this full stop, regardless of whether they are "cheating" or not. The reasons for those who "cheat" are not always as black and white as some this site's "morality Police" might like to think - there can be a whole host of reasons and it is not for anyone else to judge, especially when you have absolutely no idea of circumstances. I am not condoning "cheating", but to paraphrase a well-known book "let those without sin cast the first stone"...

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Cheaters no

Ethical non monogamy very welcome"

Pretty much the above. If people want to cheat thats up to them (no judgement) but we do not want to get involved where we might get hassle off their partners.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Personally I don't understand why some people get so up themselves and judgemental. This is a swinging site - there are a lot of people in the vanilla world who would cast a very negative view of absolutely anyone using a site like this full stop, regardless of whether they are "cheating" or not. The reasons for those who "cheat" are not always as black and white as some this site's "morality Police" might like to think - there can be a whole host of reasons and it is not for anyone else to judge, especially when you have absolutely no idea of circumstances. I am not condoning "cheating", but to paraphrase a well-known book "let those without sin cast the first stone"..."

Ok but we swingers have the right to meet/not meet who we dont want to just like vanilla people. Even in vanilla life id not meet a guy who was playing without their partners knowledge.

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