FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *erviceHer OP Man
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff

Does anybody still wink? Or is it a lazy way to try and grab attention? I still love reciving winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are wasted on me. I do think they're a lazy way of showing interest and don't often send one back.

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By *ilyandronCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We love a wink !

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

I like a good wink - had some good interactions and the odd meet from winking.

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I like winks, I can check out the account without worrying if I get abuse for ignoring a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Winks or Fabbing, best way to show interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather a wank then a wink

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

For me, I struggle to write a first message, and women and couples get bombarded anyway with messages, so a wink is a great way to show initial interest

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By *andAxxxCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We wink at people we are interested in, then if they wink back we'll send a message.

It let's us know there is mutual interest

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

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By *ockyroad666Man
over a year ago

Maesteg

I like to send winks

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By *umpybumpyMan
over a year ago

Newport

I often send a wink to show interest and if there’s a wink back or a fab back then follow up with a message!

Saves overwhelming already full mailboxes that way

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

"I often send a wink to show interest and if there’s a wink back or a fab back then follow up with a message!

Saves overwhelming already full mailboxes that way

This 100%

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"I often send a wink to show interest and if there’s a wink back or a fab back then follow up with a message!

Saves overwhelming already full mailboxes that way

This 100%"

I do this at times aswel. Doesn't work for me though

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By *elshhung50Man
over a year ago

caerphilly

There’s no harm in a little wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve actually had some amazing meets from sending a little wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most my meets have been via winks X

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

So people wink at me ,I'll either wink back or write a polite message , and never hear from them .

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By *hubby11977Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I like winking

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By *inx and ViperCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We like a good wink we send one out if we are interested and take a wink as someone is interested in us

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By *elsh1975Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think a wink is quite a good way of showing interest, especially if your a little shy or not quite sure what to write in a message, because saying hi or hello is somewhat frowned upon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am yet to receive a wink. Sent a few out, nothing seems to materialise from them (in my case anyway).

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By *ancardiff7Man
over a year ago

Near Cowbridge

I like to receive a wink, it's often a good conversation starter.

I'd rarely send one though, I figure women are inundated with winks and messages on here.

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By *aby-girl and bCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Yeh we tend to send a wink to show interest in profile as said previously people can have multiple messages on a daily show send a wink to show interest and if a wink back happy days if not then saves messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wink, usually to people i consider way out of my league. If i get a wink back then i..... um.... don't really know what id do as its never happened

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

We like a to wink as we use it to say 'hi' somerimes

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By *elshpaddleboyMan
over a year ago

bridgend

Like a wink. It's a start to something at least

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I used to bulk delete them without viewing, and I said that at the top of my profile. I even put that in my status at one point I think! There was just a stage where I had loads, but didn't see the point.

Then weirdly I realised I was starting to used them myself every now and again..

I think they are actually quite useful for 'poking' people who you think there may be an outside chance they are into what you are into etc (or might travel etc).

Of course you are taking a chance on them seeing the winks, but sometimes that doesn't matter.

Also, I have an old dom who winks at me every now and again just to say that he's about! -pt

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I love a wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a wink and do it to show interest….some consider lazy but I feel if a wink is reciprocated then it makes the opening message less pressurised and easier!!

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By *mNaugghtyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

There no harm in a wink

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By *hristian0305Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I generally only send a wink now and if I get one back start a conversation purely because I sick of spending time writing a decent messages and getting no reply

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By *unseekers2022Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don’t mind winks and sometimes we do wink back if interested/intrigued. However we prefer someone to have read our profile and send a sensible message with recent photos as this grabs our attention much more

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By *heLomsCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Love a cheeky wink,

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By *piphoneMan
over a year ago

across the universe

I don't mind them it's a start. sending a message then nothin a simple wink gets the ball rolling

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"We don’t mind winks and sometimes we do wink back if interested/intrigued. However we prefer someone to have read our profile and send a sensible message with recent photos as this grabs our attention much more

This pretty much sums us up also

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By *ima7893Man
over a year ago

Cardiff (Home) / London (Work)

I often receive winks from couples. Whenever I’ve dropped them a message as a follow up they never email back - that makes the wink frustrating!!

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By *otyouraverageguyMan
over a year ago

W Midlands & N Wales

"I often receive winks from couples. Whenever I’ve dropped them a message as a follow up they never email back - that makes the wink frustrating!!"

Yeah I've had this a few times recently from couples and singles. Massively frustrating!!!

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By *inger_80Man
over a year ago

Merthyr Vale

Never get a wink lol I see both sides though, I send it as a high but also get ppl see it as a lazy way of doing that.

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