FabSwingers.com forum: Childish rejection from "ADULTS"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't you love the temper tantrums people throw when you politely say "no, sorry your not our type"

Then they proceed to message you back just saying BLOCKED

Utter utter idiots!

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By *evilWoman16Woman
over a year ago

Maesteg

Truthfully it's now why I just delete the message if I'm not interested x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's funny how a grown adult, well a pair of grown adults act like such children! Pmsl!

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By *evilWoman16Woman
over a year ago

Maesteg

"It's funny how a grown adult, well a pair of grown adults act like such children! Pmsl! "

Yeah it's definitely gotten worse :/

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I get so much abuse when I say a polite "no thanks" so now I don't bother. As a BBW I know I'm not for everyone but I'm never abusive if they say no thanks, I always say happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's funny as hell! You've gotta just laugh at it! Tbh it's made my day (silver) knowing someone got so butt hurt from a polite no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Will you be willing to drop your age limit”

“No we tend to find younger a bit immature”

“I’m mature I promise”

“I’m sure you are but the face pic you’ve sent isn’t for us anyway sorry, best of luck though”

“I’m young and could fuck you for hours more than anyone on here”

“Exactly why we’ve set our age as it is, you let a lot of younger people down with you immaturity”

Happens weekly lol

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hate it when they can’t handle a polite “no thank you” and resort to abuse followed by an immediate block so you can’t even give them a piece of your mind back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We just had something like that ha!

Clearly states single women only in our profile so we get a message "definitely no couples" pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy message me, based on my pics.

He then sent a face pic, which I hadnt asked for.

I politely said he wasn't for me, then received all sorts of abuse.

These are the guys who ruin fab.

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By *o againTV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

I get loads of knock backs.. hey I get it I'm not for everyone. And that's OK. I'm always polite. And wish them well.

Jo x

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I just got sent a message saying "grow up and get a life"

Never had any type of interaction with him and he sends that. Obviously blocked the troll.

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t even open 95% because I literally can’t be arsed with this sort of shite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always polite and gracious that someone has even read my message and wish them well if I'm not for them. No takers yet but as a newbie with no veris I don't expect a flood of meets. Maybe it's just sheeer frustration that triggers such infantile behaviour. Anyway...thanks for reading and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it hard to use just some common courtesy and have respect for others? I know it's rampant around these parts, especially from us blokes but I really don't get the mentality behind it... It isn't going to change the situation, it isn't like you're gonna be yeah okay I'm down for it now you've been a tool... Just makes you look like a dick

Mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a girl block me the conversation was going really good then she asked for a face pic then instead block .... she could have said sorry not my type or maybe I might know the person but I thought just rude

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Egotistical nobs everywhere

thank goodness for the block and delete options

shame it doesn't delete them from society

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By *alleys VikingMan
over a year ago

Crumlin

Just had a guy message me. I said not for me sorry. His reply "Whatever Man" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate it when they can’t handle a polite “no thank you” and resort to abuse followed by an immediate block so you can’t even give them a piece of your mind back

Hey how are you both love your profile xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t even open 95% because I literally can’t be arsed with this sort of shite!

I've got too! curiosity gets the better of me and I want to know if it has more depth than "hey how are you guys"

Intellectual conversion is apparently to much for some as well

No I'm just being mean! ROFL

Maybe it's just me but any conversation I've started has been an actual paragraph relating to thier profile and our profile.

really have to get used to these forums aswell

pmsl

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

"Just had a guy message me. I said not for me sorry. His reply "Whatever Man" lol"
Yes, I’ve had similar “Love your cock, will you let me suckuoff”, when my profile doesn’t even hint at being bi. “Thank you for the offer but no thank you” was my reply. The response was a torrent of abuse and “I wouldn’t suckuoff if you were the last cock on earth! Thank god for that

. And the suckuoff phrase made me cringe.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

'i know you are only looking for women, but....'

'why don't you block men, if you don't meet them. You are wasting my time'

'wuut?'

'x' followed 10mins later by 'fuck u bitch'

'luv Ur pics, wanna meet'

'what u lookin 4'

I've filled in my profile to explain exactly what I do and don't seek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t even open 95% because I literally can’t be arsed with this sort of shite!

I've got too! curiosity gets the better of me and I want to know if it has more depth than "hey how are you guys"

Intellectual conversion is apparently to much for some as well

No I'm just being mean! ROFL

Maybe it's just me but any conversation I've started has been an actual paragraph relating to thier profile and our profile.

really have to get used to these forums aswell

pmsl"

It's SO hard sometimes! Like I get that we're all here for one thing, but arousal starts in the brain for me. Seems most people just can't grasp that. I can't handle vapid conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I finally plucked up the courage to message a lovely lady on here recently who I thought was well out of my league. After a few messages back and forth and face pics exchanged she told me that the attraction wasn’t mutual. This is absolutely no big deal at all. I thanked her for her honesty and ended the messages there. Absolutely no need for any tantrums whenever someone says you’re not their type. This is supposed to be an adult site after all.

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By *BW EVENTSWoman
over a year ago

The twilight zone

"I finally plucked up the courage to message a lovely lady on here recently who I thought was well out of my league. After a few messages back and forth and face pics exchanged she told me that the attraction wasn’t mutual. This is absolutely no big deal at all. I thanked her for her honesty and ended the messages there. Absolutely no need for any tantrums whenever someone says you’re not their type. This is supposed to be an adult site after all. "

I wish everyone had this mature attitude.

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

I received a message last night from a guy saying that "Need a lady I can wine and dine fill her with rich food so she can flatulence all over me ok" and when I ignored the drivel he messaged again saying "you not getting it either pudding".

Wtf was the point? This is why I delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's unfortunately the reason we can't offer a polite no anymore.

We tried our hardest at the start, we now delete and block anyone that messages that we aren't interested in.

If it's a well put together message we will respond, but it's just not worth the hassle, unfortunately.

We know it's not all people and we sympathise, but the abuse isn't worth it.

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By *uankerr79Man
over a year ago

Torfean

personally i answer every message i get sent! theres that few of them i figure that even the ones that say fuck off you big fat ugly bastard mean that they took the time to actually look at my profile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not alone there Juan. Even a no not for me message shows they care ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I message anyone and they just delete it then I understand I’m not what they’re looking for so I block them but that’s so I don’t send a message again wasting their and my time not for any other reason I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and I understand that

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

I do this. I'm greatful for the reply. I always give a polite response back and wish them all the best. Its how I am in real life, no reason why i shouldn't be like it here. So I'm not somebody's type, won't be the first time and it won't be the last.

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By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Brixham

I've done exactly this. Actually had a great conversation afterwards knowing it wasn't going anywhere other than a chat. Getting nasty is pointless

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I don’t even open 95% because I literally can’t be arsed with this sort of shite!

I've got too! curiosity gets the better of me and I want to know if it has more depth than "hey how are you guys"

Intellectual conversion is apparently to much for some as well

No I'm just being mean! ROFL

Maybe it's just me but any conversation I've started has been an actual paragraph relating to thier profile and our profile.

really have to get used to these forums aswell

pmsl"

The art of intellectual stimulation and conversation is a lost art at times!

My engagement with messages changes like the weather

however more often than not it’s a disappointment

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By *ing-louisMan
over a year ago

Brixham

The art of intellectual stimulation and conversation is a lost art at times!

My engagement with messages changes like the weather

however more often than not it’s a disappointment

Well thanks a bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just need to block with no dialogue X drama queens

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't see the point of throwing your toys out if someone doesn't have an attraction towards you. I just move on if there is no reply or they say not interested etc.

I have had people get the hump with me but I guess being male I'm meant to be willing to stick my penis in every hole I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting blocked immediately after a face pic can be a knock to confidence, but I understand why people do it.

Just because one person reacts appropriately to a "Sorry not interested", doesn't mean another person won't throw their toys out of the pram.

Its my own fault for being a big babyface!

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By *erald 1999Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

I guess some blokes can't take rejection....just got to remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger

But I do understand I was amazed how many gay / bi guys wanted to suck me off ..when I first joined after a year I decided to stop males messaging me no offence but I wasn't even offered a bunch of flowers or a meal or anything ha ha ha

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

"I guess some blokes can't take rejection....just got to remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger

The women dont get offered that either

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"Don't you love the temper tantrums people throw when you politely say "no, sorry your not our type"

Then they proceed to message you back just saying BLOCKED

Utter utter idiots! "

Surely a no means no the same as if you are in a social gathering and someone asks you out, if you arent interested they wouldnt blow up then, why is it different over the internet. I think they have the courage of not being found out as its a 121 message. In real life they would quickly be ostracised.

We arent all like these idiots.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

"Don't you love the temper tantrums people throw when you politely say "no, sorry your not our type"

Then they proceed to message you back just saying BLOCKED

Utter utter idiots! "

We arent all like these idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's unfortunately the reason we can't offer a polite no anymore.

We tried our hardest at the start, we now delete and block anyone that messages that we aren't interested in.

If it's a well put together message we will respond, but it's just not worth the hassle, unfortunately.

We know it's not all people and we sympathise, but the abuse isn't worth it."

I’d actually encourage people to take this approach and NOT give a polite no.

My reasoning is this…

Anyone who will take a polite “No” with grace and humility will also not get bothered by no response at all.

Whereas those not inclined to take a polite “No” well will either attempt to persuade you that you should reconsider and hassle you, or just outright slag you off.

A polite no just opens you up to abuse

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