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"No wimps? No such thing in the BDSM life style. Everyone has their own limits.." Well said | |||
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"No wimps? No such thing in the BDSM life style. Everyone has their own limits.." sorry wimps was the wrong definition let me refresh that no wannabes that have a light slap and cry all the way home as I start mild and will push your limits that we discuss beforehand | |||
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"No wimps? No such thing in the BDSM life style. Everyone has their own limits..sorry wimps was the wrong definition let me refresh that no wannabes that have a light slap and cry all the way home as I start mild and will push your limits that we discuss beforehand " If you discuss limits beforehand then there should be no pushing of them on a first session. They’re called limits for a reason. Hard limits should never be crossed, soft limits there is obviously some exploration possible but only with consent and NOT on a first play session. You don’t sound like a Dominant, you sound like an abuser | |||
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"No wimps? No such thing in the BDSM life style. Everyone has their own limits..sorry wimps was the wrong definition let me refresh that no wannabes that have a light slap and cry all the way home as I start mild and will push your limits that we discuss beforehand If you discuss limits beforehand then there should be no pushing of them on a first session. They’re called limits for a reason. Hard limits should never be crossed, soft limits there is obviously some exploration possible but only with consent and NOT on a first play session. You don’t sound like a Dominant, you sound like an abuser" I'm no abuser we start with an agreed safe word and discuss limits before hand and as soon as the safe word is said play stops I've had people male and female ask me to push them more I've orso stopped play due to the fact I could see the other was not enjoying it and it was only her partner who was getting of on the session the end of the day it has to be enjoyable for both parties | |||
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"No wimps? No such thing in the BDSM life style. Everyone has their own limits..sorry wimps was the wrong definition let me refresh that no wannabes that have a light slap and cry all the way home as I start mild and will push your limits that we discuss beforehand If you discuss limits beforehand then there should be no pushing of them on a first session. They’re called limits for a reason. Hard limits should never be crossed, soft limits there is obviously some exploration possible but only with consent and NOT on a first play session. You don’t sound like a Dominant, you sound like an abuser" Very well said. | |||
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