FabSwingers.com forum: Time Wasters and non swinging wankers !!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I looked on my (whos looked at me )option today and 35 out of 100 hundred people who viewed my profile had no verifications !!! hardley any friends !!!! not site supporters !!!! but have been on here more than 3 months most over a year !!!!....Some have fab body ,cock,face pics no woman would turn down so what they up tooooo??????.Not even Profile verified !!!

Well from now on im going to block them dailey so only genuine people will be able to veiw me and message me its time to clean up this site for genuine swingers only ... like it and lump it non verified guys ok .And i dont want to hear I cant get a meet ! mourn mourn mourn . go to a social meet people show your genuine then you can get verified easy !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And im not pointing the finger at just single guys for those of you that cant read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe there are a lot of curious people out there unsure about taking first steps. Without doubt there are people treating this as another porn site but I guess in the end are they harming anyone ?

Periodically I get looked at by people stating they are not looking for men and they have verifications.

Best to let it wash over us is my opinion as they aren't actually asking for meets then not turning up ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats my point i dont mind being looked at as ive put picks up .But i do mind fakers and time wasters who just want to find out who you are If your verified your a player too simple !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point taken. Guess its important not to reveal facts and only reveal information when you feel confident to.

Never give too much away in a pic ?

You'll never get rid of those people !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if everyone blocks them from looking they will have nothing to see and will get bored and go away .. No messages and requests wasting time x It works out about 30% of people looking are just never going to play !!! only with themselves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol you've studied this comprehensively ! Trouble is there will always be more joining.

Think if were not enjoying the site we should question why we stay, and the others will eventually leave from boredom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as you stated,just go to a social and then people know you are for real, we went along and met some nice people and got varified that we exist, simple! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see how they're timewasters if they're simply looking at you? Lurkers are always going to be on here, that's life...hardly worth ranting and raving like a loony about. Just ignore them, use the filters provided and don't worry about something that you obviously cannot fully control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who dont put much thought and effort into their own profile are not worth bothering with anyway - thats how we look at it.

We use filters and block people who dont read our profile - we have had far better responses (although a lot less) but it sort out the rubbish.

Very easy to get uptight about sites like this.. look for the positives and forget about the negatives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My dear ava Im not ranting or a loony but stating what i want as its my privilege .there is no filter for lurkers or nosey trouble makers or i would use it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course it's your privilege, I'm not disputing that. All you can do is use the site to the best of your advantage and ignore the rest. Don't let it wind you up.

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

They can't waste your time by viewing your profile. You can block non-verifieds, newbies etc. from contacting you on your filters page:

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can't waste your time by viewing your profile. You can block non-verifieds, newbies etc. from contacting you on your filters page:

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

Admin x"

I think the OP means they are a waste of time.

They have no effort into their profiles and would like to block them from viewing her profile from the outset, regardless of "contact" filters.

TBH we'd like the option of blocking profiles from "viewing" your profile if they are not verified, newbies or dont have profile pics, not just to stop them contacting you.

Maybe make it an option for site donators only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin have put in place filters for this as they have posted, used correctly they work very effectively (and not just for supporters). What you can’t filter out or know, is if someone is here to genuinely meet people or not.

If you had stated that someone seems to know you then it would have been a different post altogether, which it now seems to be.

Abusive /distressing messages should be sent to admin there’s a report button on the persons profile. Give admin as much information as possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which part of this is not clear here ???i want to choose who sees my profile in the first place then this wouldst have happened would it . Im fully aware i can stop certain messages . just read what Im saying properly before commenting . there is no filter apart from blocking to stop people viewing my profile is there ????

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

And how about those people that have chosen not to appear on "who's looked at me" by switching this off under the Privacy settings? They'll be able to perv your profile all they like and you won't have a clue that they are doing so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which part of this is not clear here ???i want to choose who sees my profile in the first place then this wouldst have happened would it . Im fully aware i can stop certain messages . just read what Im saying properly before commenting . there is no filter apart from blocking to stop people viewing my profile is there ????"

You can explain things till your blue in the face.. people still wont understand, or reply with something that does not corresponds with what you have suggested.

As we posted the suggestion earlier - WE understand your point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And how about those people that have chosen not to appear on "who's looked at me" by switching this off under the Privacy settings? They'll be able to perv your profile all they like and you won't have a clue that they are doing so!"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

So whos time is getting wasted here ?cause I'm at a loss to see how you think your time is being wasted just because someone had looked at your profile and not mailed ..also many people on here choose not to get verified ...not to mention those who choose to look at profiles undercover what you going to do about them ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Block them as i said seems some people can't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is FREE if people want to sit looking at profiles for a year then they can. Let’s say that everyone lived in your ideological world and filtered non verified single guys, what we have is a site that single guys can’t use, they can’t view, can’t contact and can’t meet ANYONE.

I have read what you said; you want a filter to stop certain people from viewing your profile. While we’re at it why not put a request to admin to filter out, people who are a certain height, weight, colour or watch TV upside down.

However you are correct there is no filter to block someone from viewing your profile, if you had applied the filters that are already in place then the person would not have been able to contact you in the first place, which 15 posts down you say is the reason for posting. People are actually trying to help you but it seems you want the moon on a stick

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Block them as i said seems some people can't read "

How will you know that they've looked at your profile? The whole point of the privacy setting is that people can look at profiles without showing up in the "who's looked at me" list.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Block them as i said seems some people can't read "
And it also seems some can't accept the fact not everyone agrees with what's been said by op either which seems to be the ops problem Here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Where did i ask for an agreement Im just informing why Im blocking simple

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Where did i ask for an agreement Im just informing why Im blocking simple "
why the need to inform at all? dont really think anyone is that much intrested but as ive said just because someone does not choose to be verified does not mean thay aint genine ...do you go to a shop window and purchase everything you see there cause i think not ..and people are allowed to look but also as has been said before not much you can to about the undercover lookers is there ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotlips I think you need to enjoy it a bit more just read your profile and just looks like a rant no wonder people mess you about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With great respect my dear you been on here a few weeks . ill speak to you 6month down the line then in a yrs time see what you say then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And it makes no difference what goes on your profile very few bother reading it properly

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"With great respect my dear you been on here a few weeks . ill speak to you 6month down the line then in a yrs time see what you say then lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With great respect my dear you been on here a few weeks . ill speak to you 6month down the line then in a yrs time see what you say then lol

Best stay below the parapet

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"With great respect my dear you been on here a few weeks . ill speak to you 6month down the line then in a yrs time see what you say then lol

Best stay below the parapet

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yeah think a few of us should

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love ti say fuck off but that's not allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love ti say fuck off but that's not allowed "

Lol I promise not take offence. Admin I permit the lady to tell me to eff off

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Love ti say fuck off but that's not allowed "

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By *f3_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why should we care what/who the OP blocks, nobody cares? Her decision, but what is the point of publicising the fact that she is going to block those that she deems non genuine. Once this thread sinks below the first page on the forum list they are not going to know until they look at her profile then opps, it's too late!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Why should we care what/who the OP blocks, nobody cares? Her decision, but what is the point of publicising the fact that she is going to block those that she deems non genuine. Once this thread sinks below the first page on the forum list they are not going to know until they look at her profile then opps, it's too late! "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sweetie stay of forums if you can't say something worthwhile .ignorance is bliss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What it to do with you you have veris ???!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Sweetie stay of forums if you can't say something worthwhile .ignorance is bliss "
you post in the forums people reply nothing you can do about it not my fault you dont think what i have to say is worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your just argumentive not constructive cleave it there

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Your just argumentive not constructive cleave it there"
Im contributing toward a topic here nothing more nothing less seems to me your the only one here with an issue regarding whats been said by me ...maybe its because like many who have posted i dont agree with whats been said by you ..but i am however still entitled to an opinion like yourself and anyone else ..thats one of the drawbacks of posting not everyone will agrree with the op.. but good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

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