FabSwingers.com forum: Message Icks

By *ory_x OP Woman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

We have all received messages that has given us the ick and made us delete and block.

What part of a message gives you ick?

Mine is unsolicited dick pics and when its obvious they haven't read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The generic hey, hi, what are you up to, wanna chat messages along with the dick pic I didn't ask for and graphic other photos, usually cum dripping from other women's vaginas while plugged with a penis. Yep because that's what my profile asked for

grrrrr

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport

Dick pic looking from under it to the face....ewww

Oh and the extra skin on the end pics....

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By *exyswingerbbwWoman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

The toilet dick pic or deodorant cans

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport

"The toilet dick pic or deodorant cans

I saw a toothpaste one the other day, different....

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By *oubledip8673Couple
over a year ago

Gwent

“I’ll lick you for hours”

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By *ory_x OP Woman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

yep had all these.

What about you guys? Have the men had icky messages?

Ive had a few off women with gaping pussy pics, how horny they are and again obvious they havent read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One couple wanted to know if they could use my horse! Actually made me feel sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The toilet dick pic or deodorant cans

I saw a toothpaste one the other day, different...."

Was it a travel sized tube?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word ick gives me the ick,is it even a word or has it developed from love island.

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport

"“I’ll lick you for hours”

Yet to find a guy who does....

But then if they're a one trick pony then not interested

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By *untiWoman
over a year ago

Newport

"The toilet dick pic or deodorant cans

I saw a toothpaste one the other day, different....

Was it a travel sized tube?! "

I couldn't possibly divulge..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As specified on my profile, crude usernames, shit messages and wangs in general. Where's the intrigue?

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Ive had a few off women with gaping pussy pics"

I don't get the appeal with them either, definitely puts us off a bit.

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By *ory_x OP Woman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

"The word ick gives me the ick,is it even a word or has it developed from love island. "

Never watched love island, its a common word where I live

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"“I’ll lick you for hours”

I hate it when women send me this

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

yep had all these.

What about you guys? Have the men had icky messages?

Ive had a few off women with gaping pussy pics, how horny they are and again obvious they havent read my profile

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love a gaping pussy pic.. NOT!!

We've had a gut message recently and every time he does, he sends the same 3 pics. Annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing it's generally a different experience for men receiving messages here, but in my experience the rather weird 'hey' or 'what you into' messages are sent by females and couples. Though my 'genuine profile' radar is working overtime when I receive them.

I've had a verified couple contact me twice asking me to go around theirs, whilst the wife is out and relieve myself in the matrimonial bed, whilst being shown pictures of her

As a desperate, anything will do guy, I was surprised to find myself UNaroused

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

"“I’ll lick you for hours”

Yes this

Cock pic over the toilet bowl, just “hey” or “can I come round to yours now.” And I think , yeah I’ll give my address to a complete stranger within 5 mins , not !

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single word responses, or worse - half word responses. like 'ye'...

Worse than that, txt spk rspns...

It takes less effort to block someone. Would rather that than a half arsed response.

If there's genuine interest, would prefer they put some effort in... I always try to. (Although, if a bio is bare, I haven't got much to work with. So the copy paste is all they get)

But when it comes to them making initial contact, I really don't mind what they send.

Some people are shy/nervous, so I'm happy to take it very slow and easy. Besides, I'm a single guy... I'm just delighted someone messaged me lol

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By *aturist-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Taffs Well

those who message without reading the profile, those who open with "lets fuck" or anything similar. Those who send a friend request without any form of conversation because they have not read the profile. they all just get blocked immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a verified couple contact me twice asking me to go around theirs, whilst the wife is out and relieve myself in the matrimonial bed, whilst being shown pictures of her"

This! I've received many a message where I have serious doubts that the wife even exists.

"Mrs is out, but you can cum over her knickers with me"

"Male half only here. Wife is at her mum's"

And then they're unable to provide any sort of photo that depicts the wife. It baffles me that they think it'll work.

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

" I'm guessing it's generally a different experience for men receiving messages here, but in my experience the rather weird 'hey' or 'what you into' messages are sent by females and couples. Though my 'genuine profile' radar is working overtime when I receive them.

I've had a verified couple contact me twice asking me to go around theirs, whilst the wife is out and relieve myself in the matrimonial bed, whilst being shown pictures of her

As a desperate, anything will do guy, I was surprised to find myself UNaroused

Do people really send such dreadful messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately yes, yes they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a message from a MF couple yesterday absolutely furious that I wouldn't fawn over them.

How dare I not meet MF couples and have straight in my profile, which they obviously didn't read

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By *arrMan
over a year ago

Criccieth

I'm pretty much unshockable but...

A "straight" guy asked if i could wear high heels and walk over his naked body as he was having a wank!! I politely declined the offer haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen an uptake in "gay for pay" requests too. I get we're in a cost of living crisis, but I don't need to fuck my way to financial stability.

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By *ehindcloseddoors81Man
over a year ago

South/Mid Wales

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By *ehindcloseddoors81Man
over a year ago

South/Mid Wales

"One couple wanted to know if they could use my horse! Actually made me feel sick "

Did you say Nay?

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By *inkyKissCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Folk with no verifications after more than one year, or all verifications hidden.

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By *ory_x OP Woman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

First message off one was he told me he was going to pee up my bum, pop a butt plug then pound me until the plug shot across the room and the pee went everywhere

Suffice to say he was blocked

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By *o againTV/TS
over a year ago

swansea

"First message off one was he told me he was going to pee up my bum, pop a butt plug then pound me until the plug shot across the room and the pee went everywhere

Suffice to say he was blocked"

OMG.. I could never say anything like that to anyone.. christ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much for a night with her. No hello, not a how do u do. Just how much for the fem. Wtaf like!!!

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By *ory_x OP Woman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Ive had worse since unfortunately

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The obvious generic copy / paste message. We had one guy send the exact same message 3 times over the course of 6 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones telling me how I'm the one missing out

or saying do you want this dick it'll ruin you

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By *o againTV/TS
over a year ago

swansea

I've had a few.."yes I'm straight but" if you us looking at tv/cd. You need to have a word with yourself.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Before we blocked all men we had a lot of messages asking does your missus want a real man to fuck her

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By *o againTV/TS
over a year ago

swansea

"Before we blocked all men we had a lot of messages asking does your missus want a real man to fuck her

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See these guys give all males a bad name. You can't talk to people like that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This this this!

The amount of couples who treat people as utilities to feed their narcissistic bent is quit something. Just by dint of being a couple approaching a guy, some expect guys to jump through hoops like performing monkeys whilst not returning anything to indicate a dynamic of respect.

Also, poor use of language “should of” instead of “should have” text speak etc

Vulgarities are also a MASSIVE turn off

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By *reen EyesMan
over a year ago

Wales

I don't get any messages lmao to get the ick lol

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

"I don't get any messages lmao to get the ick lol"

Same here pmsl

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